Because we're greedy. It's as simple as that ma. We wanna have our cake and to eat it too.
We need our emotional side catered to, our mental side, physical side, and any other side we may be missing. Certain women fulfill these needs, while others don't. Wifey may fulfill a good majority of them on a consistent basis, but she'll never fully satisfy the physical side, therefore we hunt for prey all the while maintaing home.
This is why side pieces are just a fuck. Nothing more, nothing less.
Animal-like? Indeed.
Not animal-like more like immature like.
Some people remain grown boys and grown girls and never adults.
Humans are supposed to evolve and grow. Growing in self-knowledge and your place in this world............ self realization.
At this point you don't need someone to validate desires of your ego.
At this point you are more directed outward inside of being consumed with the inward desires you have failed to master.
It like a child who has never learned to say no to more food.
It is not normal to NOT grow.
When you are focussed on life and its purpose, you begin to build and as any builder on here will tell you, we don't have time to keep looking behind our backs.
I need a woman who can help me build not a woman that I have to keep an eye on.
Similarly if a woman is a builder, I don't want to become a distraction, I need to compliment her.
Part of the problem is the contracts we sign.
If you are about nothing in life then as they say the devils finds things for idle hands.
Some women find themselves in relationships with men who have the bare minimum (food, clothing shelter, job) and thing that they have hit the jackpot. Similarly for men meeting pretty, have a job women.
The bar is so low now that dysfunctional is now the new normal
It was already said. A relationship is more than just fucking. Some women just can't seperate the two like a man can. to us the two is not emotionly connected. Hence most men can see a woman fuck and keep it moving with another thought about her.
You would be surprised how women can be and remain disconnected.
You need to talk to women to actually find out instead of repeating men talking points.
How do you think so many men father children that are not theirs?
Think about it................
