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Be a FATHER To Your Kids or They Will End Up Like This!!

I can dig it, I too grew up without a dad around. but in the end, Grow the fuck up and be responsible for ya damn self..

That is all...
 
MrBee said:
I can dig it, I too grew up without a dad around. but in the end, Grow the fuck up and be responsible for ya damn self..

That is all...
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I got all the way to where she said states she has daughters with niggas like her dad.

I agree 100% with the bolded part.
 
I feel where she's coming from, but I blame her mom for procreating with a dude that wasn't shit off the dribble. Yeah, her dad's a piece of shit, but he was a selected piece of shit. He "got chose", and now she's selected men who were of the same lineage to procreate with. Her dad wasn't around to be a father, but her mom was there, and in the poem she says "To recreate the mistakes my mom made", well, mom should've been a mother to stop that.

I grew up with a dad, and he was a father that taught how to be a man and raise 3 boys into well adjusted men. Her mom couldn't do that for her, instead of just reiterating that fact that poppa wasn't shit and the men you'll meet ain't shit, so just go out and have babies with any dude ain't locked up now? My mom is a lying manipulative asshole, and she wasn't around. Do you think I married a woman like her? No. Dad taught me better. Her mom should've done the same. There comes a time where the custodial parent needs to shoulder this blame.
 
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MrBee said:
I can dig it, I too grew up without a dad around. but in the end, Grow the fuck up and be responsible for ya damn self..

That is all...
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Fully agree, but there will always be that void. I was forced to learn to become a man w/o the guidance of one. Many mistakes have been made and many more will be. Most fatherless kids are works in progress. As for accountability, YOU are ultimately the master of your life's choices, but those choices could have been easier to make had the right figure been there to advise you.
 
woodchuck said:
I feel where she's coming from, but I blame her mom for procreating with a dude that wasn't shit off the dribble. Yeah, her dad's a piece of shit, but he was a selected piece of shit. He "got chose", and now she's selected men who were of the same lineage to procreate with. Her dad wasn't around to be a father, but her mom was there, and in the poem she says "To recreate the mistakes my mom made", well, mom should've been a mother to stop that.

I grew with a dad, and he was a father that taught how to be a man and raise 3 boys into well adjusted men. Her mom couldn't do that for, instead of just reiterating that fact that poppa wasn't shit and the men you'll meet ain't shit, so just go out and have babies with any dude ain't locked up now? My mom is a lying manipulative asshole, and she wasn't around. Do you think I married a woman like her? No. Dad taught me better. Her mom should've done the same. There comes a time where the custodial parent needs to shoulder this blame.
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Classic case of the tragic mulatto.

Yes, there are two sides to this equation, but in this case we're dealing w/ an individual who was raised by a woman who chose to procreate with an unstable male figure (e.i., loser). Despite the mother's choice, she was there to raise the child. Not excusing her part in this young woman's psychological pain, just doing my best to understand how she could have been positively influenced had the father played his role despite his hardships and societal ills.

 
APOPHIS said:
Classic case of the tragic mulatto.

Yes, there are two sides to this equation, but in this case we're dealing w/ an individual who was raised by a woman who chose to procreate with an unstable male figure (e.i., loser). Despite the mother's choice, she was there to raise the child. Not excusing her part in this young woman's psychological pain, just doing my best to understand how she could have been positively influenced had the father played his role despite his hardships and societal ills.
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I feel you, but there has to be a time when mom realizes that the piece of shit dude ain't gonna be there, so she needs to be a real mother to her daughter. Her mom may not be able to teach her the game, but she can teach how to tell when it's being run on her. My dad spent 5 years raising 3 boys on his own, before he remearried. Had we all turned out bad be worthless, how much of that blame to you think mom would've gotten?
 
The way people treat their seeds is a direct reflection of how they feel about themselves.
 
woodchuck said:
I feel where she's coming from, but I blame her mom for procreating with a dude that wasn't shit off the dribble. Yeah, her dad's a piece of shit, but he was a selected piece of shit. He "got chose", and now she's selected men who were of the same lineage to procreate with. Her dad wasn't around to be a father, but her mom was there, and in the poem she says "To recreate the mistakes my mom made", well, mom should've been a mother to stop that.

I grew up with a dad, and he was a father that taught how to be a man and raise 3 boys into well adjusted men. Her mom couldn't do that for her, instead of just reiterating that fact that poppa wasn't shit and the men you'll meet ain't shit, so just go out and have babies with any dude ain't locked up now? My mom is a lying manipulative asshole, and she wasn't around. Do you think I married a woman like her? No. Dad taught me better. Her mom should've done the same. There comes a time where the custodial parent needs to shoulder this blame.
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What makes you think her mother was any different than she is? Or her mother's mother? The things they grew up with affect them just like how this young girl is now. "her mother should've..." is assuming her mother had the ability to.

Who really knows if you're as right as you think you are? Isn't it true people hide their true selves alot? Even from themselves?

I say that only because we're often very quick to think of ourselves as "ok". But i'm SURE if we really examined ourselves we're just as damaged in different ways as the people you spend so much time condemning.

The mom is a shit human being. Fine. So we're assuming she knew how to do better? Be better? I've heard alot from people who've said "my mom said i ain't shit she aint' shit and nobody they come from is shit." That's some deeply embedded stuff right? That didn't just start with mom.
 
WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff said:
What makes you think her mother was any different than she is? Or her mother's mother? The things they grew up with affect them just like how this young girl is now. "her mother should've..." is assuming her mother had the ability to.

Who really knows if you're as right as you think you are? Isn't it true people hide their true selves alot? Even from themselves?

I say that only because we're often very quick to think of ourselves as "ok". But i'm SURE if we really examined ourselves we're just as damaged in different ways as the people you spend so much time condemning.

The mom is a shit human being. Fine. So we're assuming she knew how to do better? Be better? I've heard alot from people who've said "my mom said i ain't shit she aint' shit and nobody they come from is shit." That's some deeply embedded stuff right? That didn't just start with mom.
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The same way y'all assume the dads should be able to "do better". Figure it the fuck out, or don't have kids. Just I don't give piece of shit dads a pass, I give no quarter to piece of shit moms. Unlike you, when it comes to kids, I'm not gender biased. Since mom had physical custody of her, she should've done a better job.
 
woodchuck said:
The same way y'all assume the dads should be able to "do better". Figure it the fuck out, or don't have kids. Just I don't give piece of shit dads a pass, I give no quarter to piece of shit moms. Unlike you, when it comes to kids, I'm not gender biased. Since mom had physical custody of her, she should've done a better job.
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I'm not gender biased. I'm putting the fault where it belongs. Society in general. Our people don't have the right tools to raise children properly. That's what i'm really getting at.

That happened because of the society we live in. The men leave (in some form) their children and families and no one is there to pick up the slack. I watched this video last week by Dr. Henrik Clarke and he spoke about how africans largely took care of each other IN the community. In their towns and villages. It's how my family is now.

People think it's strange how close our family is. And it got me to thinking just how WRONG that is. How fundamentally wrong it is for people to think we're the strange ones when this is how they did it for generations.

It shouldn't be weird to take care of one another and block societies teachings of how we should abandon our own.
 
UNSEEN said:
Damn I wish she coulda broke the cycle!!
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It's tough, man.

Those who successfully remove themselves from such cycles are unique and very determined individuals. Do or die type shit. Not everyone has that kind of strength.
 
woodchuck said:
The same way y'all assume the dads should be able to "do better". Figure it the fuck out, or don't have kids. Just I don't give piece of shit dads a pass, I give no quarter to piece of shit moms. Unlike you, when it comes to kids, I'm not gender biased. Since mom had physical custody of her, she should've done a better job.
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Be careful because this is a very slippery slope. We can't just assume because dad wasnt there and mom was a piece o shit because of how the daughter turned out.

As fathers to little girls, we have a VERY important job in raising them. Protecting them from the world and other things a FATHER should be present for. Mothers can only do so much. Lets assume that the mother wasnt a piece of shit but didnt know how to get across to the daughter. Now does that make a her a piece of shit?

Reason why is because I married a woman just like the one in the video who had MANY daddy issues even though her dad was there and a piece of shit. But the mother wasnt strong enough to leave him until he actually died of his past sins (drugs etc.)Now mother did her dirt in the past but when it came to her daughter she has MAD daddy issues and alot of what the father daughter has come back to haunt her life in the now. We can't assume the mother should have done better this and that because we dont know the circumstances behind it. Was he a good guy at first? Did he change? Did something happen?

Im not trying to downplay what you are saying so please dont take it the wrong way. But shitting on the mother cause the father wasnt around and accusing the mother for how the daughter turned out is a VERY slippery slope.
 
WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff said:
I'm not gender biased. I'm putting the fault where it belongs. Society in general. Our people don't have the right tools to raise children properly. That's what i'm really getting at.

That happened because of the society we live in. The men leave (in some form) their children and families and no one is there to pick up the slack. I watched this video last week by Dr. Henrik Clarke and he spoke about how africans largely took care of each other IN the community. In their towns and villages. It's how my family is now.

People think it's strange how close our family is. And it got me to thinking just how WRONG that is. How fundamentally wrong it is for people to think we're the strange ones when this is how they did it for generations.

It shouldn't be weird to take care of one another and block societies teachings of how we should abandon our own.
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:smh::smh::smh: "i'm not gender biased..." :lol::lol::lol:

hey, melissa harris perry... ain't no village raising your kids in america.

you spit em out, they're YOUR responsibility. period.

you don't have the financial means to support your kids, stop fucking or use protection and don't have anymore.
 
It's all a crap shoot cuz all of my closest friends were raised by mom alone and they're good. You just gotta learn to take responsibility for your own actions sometimes. Can't keep thinking single parent households are an excuse. I can use just about any card life hands you and choose to have it either fuel you positivity or negativity through life. No excuses for her already having kids at a young age.

I know too many people raised by low income single parents doing well for themselves to keep feeling sorry for and using this shit as an excuse.​
 
WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff said:
I'm not gender biased. .
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Gul... you dam near had 100 post in the McDonald's thread when the dude beat the crap out of the women who crossed the counter!:rolleyes:
 
samh32 said:
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Gul... you dam near had 100 post in the McDonald's thread when the dude beat the crap out of the women who crossed the counter!:rolleyes:
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As gender biased as the guys on this board are. How's that?

It's seen from the both sides from us. Not from u guys here. You guys blame women for every fault in humanity

So if it's addressed you choose to see it as bias lol it's cool tho
opinions is as they is.
 
I have no respect for any mofo who dont take care of their kids.

to me youre less than a common animal.

to the best of my knowledge all animals take care of their young.
 

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