Everyone always talks about woman getting beat by their man. But what about Men getting beat by their woman.
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Let's see your avatar says PIMP...? 
And that's why you will never hear about it.CarryOn said:
I guess it wouldn't be to good if someone said "Yeah, last night my woman gave me the back hand with her ring finger since I didn't do the dishes."
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It's an problem, but as you said, No man is going to admit or discuss getting there ass whooped by no woman!!QueEx said:
That's why we don't hear about it in the media.
Its an embarassing subject to admit be it from a female or male perspective. Women often times don't reveal their abusive partners until its obvious or too late.
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Besides most of the time if it did happen and a guy brought it up. How many law enforcement, lawyers, or judges would listen anyway. I basically was seeing what people would say about it.
If a man got abused a woman would flip it and said he beat her and guess who gets locked up. That is another reason why it stays silent.
If a man got abused a woman would flip it and said he beat her and guess who gets locked up. That is another reason why it stays silent.
Lionel??????!!!!! Is that you Lionel??!!!!!!!!!!!!
QueEx said:
My bad brother Que!!!! It was there man!! I just felt it!!!
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One of my ex-girlfriends clocked the shit outta me (for mentally putting her in check)... I didn't feel a thing... I was like thats all you got. She was shook. I proceeded to call her a weak black devil 
...she was 85% for sure 
...She ran across the hall to whitey and called 5.0. for hitting me.....LOL 
go figure 
I never laid my hands on her, I'm a big dude. I know that trap (well at the time I was).... She was one bitter alcoholic self loathing man hating chick.... I learned to pick better girlfriends afterwards......
You know the fucked up thing was that my down stairs neighbors used to fight all the time. The dude used to beat the shit out of his wife. So bad that it made my bedroom shake one morning. But she "loved" his ass, and he had 2 kids...Fucked up!!!..... many people let their animal nature run outta control. Moderation is key...
...she was 85% for sure ...She ran across the hall to whitey and called 5.0. for hitting me.....LOL go figure I never laid my hands on her, I'm a big dude. I know that trap (well at the time I was).... She was one bitter alcoholic self loathing man hating chick.... I learned to pick better girlfriends afterwards......You know the fucked up thing was that my down stairs neighbors used to fight all the time. The dude used to beat the shit out of his wife. So bad that it made my bedroom shake one morning. But she "loved" his ass, and he had 2 kids...Fucked up!!!..... many people let their animal nature run outta control. Moderation is key...
QueEx said:
I'll keep it down!! 
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QueEx said:
Yes, I'm sure there are very serious cases that drag on for years... Hard to imagine, but it's true. I don't care how much a dude "loves" a woman, accepting abuse is intolerable. It is hard to imagine because we are socially conditioned to think a certain way. I also think that SOME women have mastered psychological violence against men. This is also frequently overlooked. These same women might be "wife beaters" if they were men. It's probably the same mentality.
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hanginbals said:
You don't want to forget about Al Green
At the height of his popularity, Green's former girlfriend, Mrs. Mary Woodson, broke into his Memphis home in October 1974 and poured boiling grits on the singer as he was bathing, inflicting second-degree burns on his back, stomach and arm; after assaulting Green, she killed herself with his gun. Green interpreted the violent incident as a sign from God that he should enter the ministry.
Some cases my be serious but some may not be.It could grits, hot oil, ladies putting hands on you, etc. I sure everyone on this board has gottin hit by their woman once or twice. And you have to nip it in the bud before they get used to it. Men has a whole have alot of self-restraint. I really don't know for a whole how serious it is but i'm kinda curious about it.
mrbigstuff9 said:
I didn't even KNOW Al got that ass whooped also!! I was 2 in 74!!!!
Men allow it but battered man syndrome is pretty common. Usually it's a submissive sex act, Rudy Guliani is a known cross dresser so he's prolly into that submissive bullshit and that Congressman busted in a bathroom making lewd gestures the other day is another example. No disrespect but this shit is prevalent with wealthy, powerful white guys and black men are starting to engage in it too.
kwazdog said:One of my ex-girlfriends clocked the shit outta me (for mentally putting her in check)... I didn't feel a thing... I was like thats all you got. She was shook. I proceeded to call her a weak black devil
You know the fucked up thing was that my down stairs neighbors used to fight all the time. The dude used to beat the shit out of his wife. So bad that it made my bedroom shake one morning. But she "loved" his ass, and he had 2 kids...Fucked up!!!..... many people let their animal nature run outta control. Moderation is key...
Always keep in mind, you also can contact the police for assualt charges too.
It happens a lot more than most people know.
But the best move always is, dump the bitch.
My last girlfriend used to say "If she can swing on you like a man she can take one like a man". We almost proved those words the night we broke up.
I don't advocate provoking or initiating violence against anyone, especially not women at, but when a woman decides to throw her hands up you had damn well better throw yours up too. If the stories can teach us anything it's that as a man you pretty much fucked if you fight back and fucked if you don't. So for the love of god fight back. At least you can go to jail with a little bit of self respect.
What's not mentioned in this site is that the majority of child abuse is committed by mothers, not fathers. This might have to do with mothers generally getting custody but it's worth mentioning all the same
I don't advocate provoking or initiating violence against anyone, especially not women at, but when a woman decides to throw her hands up you had damn well better throw yours up too. If the stories can teach us anything it's that as a man you pretty much fucked if you fight back and fucked if you don't. So for the love of god fight back. At least you can go to jail with a little bit of self respect.
What's not mentioned in this site is that the majority of child abuse is committed by mothers, not fathers. This might have to do with mothers generally getting custody but it's worth mentioning all the same
Fuck this pride shit. If I had a woman who could kick my ass like one of them black belt chick or boxer. If she beat my ass up one day I am telling that shit. I am calling the damn police on her too.
Don't be stupid now. That way when you shoot her ass you have evidence that you were a battered partner.
Don't be stupid now. That way when you shoot her ass you have evidence that you were a battered partner.
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