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I have a close friend whose mother is in the hospital battling for for her life against liver damage/cirrhosis of the liver. My friends mothers siblings and boyfriend are attempting to get power of attorney and to have him marry her before she possibly passes away.

What can my friend do to protect her rights as a child and have final say of what happens to her Mother. The mother and boyfriend have lived together 2 years and have not discussed marriage until "now" being that she is sedated.

We were told to go to Court to file for Legal Guardianship. Any other advice? Do we need an attorney to file for this?
 
I have a close friend whose mother is in the hospital battling for for her life against liver damage/cirrhosis of the liver. My friends mothers siblings and boyfriend are attempting to get power of attorney and to have him marry her before she possibly passes away.

What can my friend do to protect her rights as a child and have final say of what happens to her Mother. The mother and boyfriend have lived together 2 years and have not discussed marriage until "now" being that she is sedated.

We were told to go to Court to file for Legal Guardianship. Any other advice? Do we need an attorney to file for this?

Can they have a stay issued, until they could really decide their next move? Also, as an offspring, doesn't your friend have the "power", so to speak?
 
I have a close friend whose mother is in the hospital battling for for her life against liver damage/cirrhosis of the liver. My friends mothers siblings and boyfriend are attempting to get power of attorney and to have him marry her before she possibly passes away.

What can my friend do to protect her rights as a child and have final say of what happens to her Mother. The mother and boyfriend have lived together 2 years and have not discussed marriage until "now" being that she is sedated.

We were told to go to Court to file for Legal Guardianship. Any other advice? Do we need an attorney to file for this?

She has to agree to the power of attorney so if she isn't of sound mind and body then the court would have to appoint a guardian and your friend could petition to be made her guardian and or dispute them gaining PA due to her mental state
 
A stay can be issued if the moms siblings have already filed for POA. As an offspring we don't know our rights.
 
A stay can be issued if the moms siblings have already filed for POA. As an offspring we don't know our rights.

Are the children over 18 ? If so they should have the inside track. You make have to go to court to make it legal if the siblings are protesting.

You should go to court and have her declared unfit so that the BF doesn't pull a shame marriage which makes him the beneficiary in the absence of a will
 
btw after my mother died I was made power of attorney for my father so i could conduct business on his behalf.

I also was signed papers that made me the person who could make medical decisions if he can't
 
Did you need an attorney to file for this? Mother is 50 Daughter is 33 and has taken care of Mother while she battled her addiction before she moved in with her BF.

So basically go to the county clerk and file paperwork for her mom as unfit?
 
Did you need an attorney to file for this? Mother is 50 Daughter is 33 and has taken care of Mother while she battled her addiction before she moved in with her BF.

So basically go to the county clerk and file paperwork for her mom as unfit?

The power of attorney and the medical forms were done by an attorney when he updated his will.

You can do this pro se . You can also go to the local university if it has a law school and they usually have whee the law students can assist in filling out the paperwork and your file it with the court.
 
As the POA would probably be rejected if she were later to be judged incompetent, so would the sham marriage.

From hot ass nyc criminal court where the judge isn't even on the bench.
 
btw after my mother died I was made power of attorney for my father so i could conduct business on his behalf.

I also was signed papers that made me the person who could make medical decisions if he can't

That is how one handles business. It can be an unpleasant conversation, but it has to happen.

lol....my dad made me his because he doesn't want to linger and wants someone who he is confident will pull the plug...said momma and sis might get weak.

The power of attorney and the medical forms were done by an attorney when he updated his will.

You can do this pro se . You can also go to the local university if it has a law school and they usually have whee the law students can assist in filling out the paperwork and your file it with the court.

Also good advice, especially about calling a law school legal clinic.

As to the issue at hand, if she is not of sound mind when signing the power of attorney, it will not be valid and a guardianship is required.

What is the urgency in getting married? For what reason? Sounds like they have something in mind.
 
That is how one handles business. It can be an unpleasant conversation, but it has to happen.

lol....my dad made me his because he doesn't want to linger and wants someone who he is confident will pull the plug...said momma and sis might get weak.



Also good advice, especially about calling a law school legal clinic.

As to the issue at hand, if she is not of sound mind when signing the power of attorney, it will not be valid and a guardianship is required.

What is the urgency in getting married? For what reason? Sounds like they have something in mind.

Her siblings/ boyfriend are in a rush for POA because Mom just won a major monetary lawsuit with a Large grocery chain.

BALLSCOUT1 thanks a ton brother, I'll pm you the progress of her case. I just spoke to an attorney and she suggested an estate and here you are hitting me with a the papers.. Right on:yes:
 
Her siblings/ boyfriend are in a rush for POA because Mom just won a major monetary lawsuit with a Large grocery chain.

BALLSCOUT1 thanks a ton brother, I'll pm you the progress of her case. I just spoke to an attorney and she suggested an estate and here you are hitting me with a the papers.. Right on:yes:

That is what i figured.

Has the lawsuit turned into money, or are there just expectations?

The children should go immediately and get a guardianship over the person and the estate. If the money is long enough, they should propose a trust company handle the estate, until death; but as guardians of the person they will have the say over decisions like marriage.
 
That is what i figured.

Has the lawsuit turned into money, or are there just expectations?

The children should go immediately and get a guardianship over the person and the estate. If the money is long enough, they should propose a trust company handle the estate, until death; but as guardians of the person they will have the say over decisions like marriage.

here are some forms for starting a trust including a living trust.

http://www.megaupload.com/?d=NCPHEP55
 
Anyone can be the power of attorney for someone as long as it has been signed. Signed by witnesses. Lastly notarized.

I just did one done for my grandmother not to long ago. Here's a copy/sample:




DURABLE POWER OF ATTORNEY


I, Jane Smith, residing at 1234 US Street, USville, US 00000, hereby appoint John Smith of 1234 US Street, USville, US 00000, as my attorney-in-fact ("Agent") to exercise the powers and discretions described below.

This Power of Attorney shall not be affected by my subsequent incapacity.

I hereby revoke any and all general powers of attorney and special powers of attorney that previously have been signed by me.


My Agent shall have full power and authority to act on my behalf. This power and authority shall authorize my Agent to manage and conduct all of my affairs and to exercise all of my legal rights and powers, including all rights and powers that I may acquire in the future. My Agent's powers shall include, but not be limited to, the power to:

1. Open, maintain or close bank accounts (including, but not limited to, checking accounts, savings accounts, and certificates of deposit), brokerage accounts, retirement plan accounts, and other similar accounts with financial institutions.


a. Conduct any business with any banking or financial institution with respect to any of my accounts, including, but not limited to, making deposits and withdrawals, negotiating or endorsing any checks or other instruments with respect to any such accounts, obtaining bank statements, passbooks, drafts, money orders, warrants, and certificates or vouchers payable to me by any person, firm, corporation or political entity.


b. Add, delete or change beneficiaries to any financial accounts I own including insurance policies, annuities, retirement accounts, payable on death savings or checking accounts or other investments,


c. Perform any act necessary to deposit, negotiate, sell or transfer any note, security, or draft of the United States of America, including U.S. Treasury Securities.


d. Have access to any safe deposit box that I might own, including its contents.


2. Sell, exchange, buy, invest, or reinvest any assets or property owned by me. Such assets or property may include income producing or non-income producing assets and property.


3. Purchase and/or maintain insurance and annuity contracts, including life insurance upon my life or the life of any other appropriate person.

4. Take any and all legal steps necessary to collect any amount or debt owed to me, or to settle any claim, whether made against me or asserted on my behalf against any other person or entity.


5. Enter into binding contracts on my behalf.


6. Exercise all stock rights on my behalf as my proxy, including all rights with respect to stocks, bonds, debentures, commodities, options or other investments.

7. Maintain and/or operate any business that I may own.

8. Employ professional and business assistance as may be appropriate, including attorneys, accountants, and real estate Agents.

9. Sell, convey, lease, mortgage, manage, insure, improve, repair, or perform any other act with respect to any of my property (now owned or later acquired) including, but not limited to, real estate and real estate rights (including the right to remove tenants and to recover possession). This includes the right to sell or encumber any homestead that I now own or may own in the future


10. Prepare, sign, and file documents with any governmental body or agency, including, but not limited to, authorization to:


a. Prepare, sign and file income and other tax returns with federal, state, local, and other governmental bodies.


b. Obtain information or documents from any government or its agencies, and represent me in all tax matters, including the authority to negotiate, compromise, or settle any matter with such government or agency.


c. Prepare applications, provide information, and perform any other act reasonably requested by any government or its agencies in connection with governmental benefits (including medical, military and social security benefits), and to appoint anyone, including my Agent, to act as my "Representative Payee" for the purpose of receiving Social Security benefits.


11. Make gifts from my assets to members of my family and to such other persons or charitable organizations with whom I have an established pattern of giving (or if it is appropriate to make such gifts for estate planning and/or tax purposes), to file state and federal gift tax returns, and to file a tax election to split gifts with my spouse, if any. No Agent acting under this instrument, except as specifically authorized in this instrument, shall have the power or authority to (a) gift, appoint, assign or designate any of my assets, interests or rights, directly or indirectly, to such Agent, such Agent's estate, such Agent's creditors, or the creditors of such Agent's estate, (b) exercise any powers of appointment I may hold in favor of such Agent, such Agent's estate, such Agent's creditors, or the creditors of such Agent's estate, or (c) use any of my assets to discharge any of such Agent's legal obligations, including any obligations of support which such Agent may owe to others, excluding those whom I am legally obligated to support.


12. To transfer any of my assets to the trustee of any revocable trust created by me, if such trust is in existence at the time of such transfer.

13. Subject to other provisions of this document, my Agent may disclaim any interest, which might otherwise be transferred or distributed to me from any other person, estate, trust, or other entity, as may be appropriate. However, my Agent may not disclaim assets to which I would be entitled, if the result is that the disclaimed assets pass directly or indirectly to my Agent or my Agent's estate. Provided that they are not the same person, my Agent may disclaim assets which pass to my Gift Agent, and my Gift Agent may disclaim assets which pass to my Agent.


14. Have access to my healthcare and medical records and statements regarding billing, insurance and payments.

This Power of Attorney shall be construed broadly as a General Power of Attorney. The listing of specific powers is not intended to limit or restrict the general powers granted in this Power of Attorney in any manner.



Any power or authority granted to my Agent under this document shall be limited to the extent necessary to prevent this Power of Attorney from causing, (i) my income to be taxable to my Agent, (ii) my assets to be subject to a general power of appointment by my Agent, or (iii) my Agent to have any incidents of ownership with respect to any life insurance policies that I may own on the life of my Agent.


My Agent shall not be liable for any loss that results from a judgment error that was made in good faith. However, my Agent shall be liable for willful misconduct or the failure to act in good faith while acting under the authority of this Power of Attorney. A Successor Agent shall not be liable for acts of a prior Agent.

No person who relies in good faith on the authority of my Agent under this instrument shall incur any liability to me, my estate or my personal representative. I authorize my Agent to indemnify and hold harmless any third party who accepts and acts under this document.

If any part of any provision of this instrument shall be invalid or unenforceable under applicable law, such part shall be ineffective to the extent of such invalidity only, without in any way affecting the remaining parts of such provision or the remaining provisions of this instrument.

My Agent shall not be entitled to any compensation, during my lifetime or upon my death, for any services provided as my Agent. My Agent shall be entitled to reimbursement of all reasonable expenses incurred as a result of carrying out any provision of this Power of Attorney.

My Agent shall provide an accounting for all funds handled and all acts performed as my Agent as required under state law or upon my request or the request of any authorized personal representative, fiduciary or court of record acting on my behalf.

This Power of Attorney shall become effective immediately, and shall not be affected by my disability or lack of mental competence, except as may be provided otherwise by an applicable state statute. This is a Durable Power of Attorney. This Power of Attorney shall continue effective until my death. This Power of Attorney may be revoked by me at any time by providing written notice to my Agent.

Dated ____________________, ______, at USA, US.



__________________________________
Jane Smith





Witness Signature: ___________________________________

Name: _________________

City: _________________

State: _________________




Witness Signature: ___________________________________

Name: _________________

City: _________________

State: _________________



STATE OF USA,
COUNTY OF SOME STATE, ss:

The foregoing instrument was acknowledged before me this _____ day of ____________________, ______ by Jane Smith, who is personally known to me or who has produced ________________________________ as identification.



_________________________________
Signature of person taking acknowledgment

_________________________________
Name typed, printed, or stamped




WITNESS ATTESTATION

The foregoing power of attorney was, on the date written above, published and declared by Jane Smith in our presence to be his/her power of attorney. We, in his/her presence and at his/her request, and in the presence of each other, have attested to the same and have signed our names as attesting witnesses.

___________________________________
_________________
_________________
_________________, _________________ _________________
_________________


This document was prepared by/for: Jane Smith
 
here are some power of attorney forms

http://www.megaupload.com/?d=8S6Z5XN1

there is also a physicians statement of mental competency form.

hope this helps

"there is also a physicians statement of mental competency form."

That will be needed as well since her current health condition. Actually it's good to have that done should the challenge arise from a dirt bag that the person was not of good health and mind when they had the POA completed.
 
Her siblings/ boyfriend are in a rush for POA because Mom just won a major monetary lawsuit with a Large grocery chain.

BALLSCOUT1 thanks a ton brother, I'll pm you the progress of her case. I just spoke to an attorney and she suggested an estate and here you are hitting me with a the papers.. Right on:yes:

$10 pays for itself, huh?:cool:
 
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