ATTENTION BABY MAMAs - Your Child Is Not A Weapon Against The Father

[CT's Finest]

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Watch the video, and discuss...

 

[CT's Finest]

 

[onyxfemme]

I'll be back....BTW I loathe the term "Baby Mama"

 

[CT's Finest]

I'll be back....BTW I loathe the term "Baby Mama"

OK...

 

[SamSneed]

I'll be back....BTW I loathe the term "Baby Mama"

just gave birth and angry,he's a lucky guy.(its not sarcasm)



*where is my e-baby mama?*

 

[onyxfemme]

Sorry guys didn't mean to come across malicious...I could never stand that term. I didn't mean to derail the thread. Back to the topic

 

[CT's Finest]

Sorry guys didn't mean to come across malicious...I could never stand that term. I didn't mean to derail the thread. Back to the topic

So, did you watch the video? What did you think of what she said?

 

[onyxfemme]

Yep I watched as much as I could. I think that it is immature and tacky for women to use their children as weapons to hurt the fathers of their children and vice versa. Grown ups need to work their problems out as adults and leave the children out of it.
If you have a father (in this day and age) willing and wanting to be a father to their child/children be thankful and let that man be a man. People need to focus on what is important.


And........
I need someone a little more articulate to communicate that to women than the girl in that vid.

So, did you watch the video? What did you think of what she said?

 

[doggish_098]

i couldnt get through the first minute i only lasted 40 seconds i think

 

[CT's Finest]

Yep I watched as much as I could. I think that it is immature and tacky for women to use their children as weapons to hurt the fathers of their children and vice versa. Grown ups need to work their problems out as adults and leave the children out of it.
If you have a father (in this day and age) willing and wanting to be a father to their child/children be thankful and let that man be a man. People need to focus on what is important.


And........
I need someone a little more articulate to communicate that to women than the girl in that vid.

No doubt. I think she raised a some good points in this video. Sure, she could have said it in a different manner, but as long as the overall message is delivered I think it's OK. Anyway, if all else fails Onyx, just get on camera and say it for her...Naw, just kidding, you don't have to, but I'm sure someone else has and/or will say it in a much more precise way than this girl did...

 

[onyxfemme]

Think I wouldnt

Anyway, if all else fails Onyx, just get on camera and say it for her...

 

[CT's Finest]

Think I wouldnt

Oh, I'm sure you would......IF you do, just make sure you post the link in here (and maybe another thread), so we can check out what you said and comment on it......

 

[CT's Finest]

bump

 

[melonpecan]

Anyway, if all else fails Onyx, just get on camera and say it for her...

Think I wouldnt

By all means...with all the crap that gets watched on youtube, when someone is looking for a message I'm sure it will reach people.

Just don't let me do it...my emotions might get the best of me and the message will NOT be pretty...


...but CT I watched the video (finally got my speakers fixed) and I will say she brings up some good points. Now she stated she has no children; I hope since she recognizes the signs that when she does have children she does not fall prey to that which she complains about. The thing that got me the most though is when she said the chick was still in love.

Let me make a declaration:

We as women sometimes do not understand our own emotions. Sometimes it is hard to express these feelings that we have. Sometimes when we do, it affects our actions and sometimes these actions can be wrong. SOMETIMES. If this is the case with a female in question, it is paramount that talking is utilized. Getting to an understanding between both parties externally and internally is the key to getting over that problem which plagues you. If you don't, horrible things happen like break ups, and lonely bitter women with children start doing stupid things like keeping little boys and girls away from their fathers.

But in the case you don't have those 'SOMETIMES'...chick just a misguided bitch.

 

[CT's Finest]

By all means...with all the crap that gets watched on youtube, when someone is looking for a message I'm sure it will reach people.

Just don't let me do it...my emotions might get the best of me and the message will NOT be pretty...


...but CT I watched the video (finally got my speakers fixed) and I will say she brings up some good points. Now she stated she has no children; I hope since she recognizes the signs that when she does have children she does not fall prey to that which she complains about. The thing that got me the most though is when she said the chick was still in love.

Let me make a declaration:

We as women sometimes do not understand our own emotions. Sometimes it is hard to express these feelings that we have. Sometimes when we do, it affects our actions and sometimes these actions can be wrong. SOMETIMES. If this is the case with a female in question, it is paramount that talking is utilized. Getting to an understanding between both parties externally and internally is the key to getting over that problem which plagues you. If you don't, horrible things happen like break ups, and lonely bitter women with children start doing stupid things like keeping little boys and girls away from their fathers.

But in the case you don't have those 'SOMETIMES'...chick just a misguided bitch.

Excellent point...