Are You a Ride Or Die Chick?

Dante Blane

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Is She a Ride Or Die Chick or Not?

Ok, this is question for the ladies. Let me know if I'm tripping or not. I have this chick I have been dealing with for quite some time. We always go through this shit where we curse each other out then for some reason we find reasons to talk to each other. Not too long ago she hung up on me due to an argument we were having. The argument was about this incident that happened not too long ago where I got into it with one of her homeboys. What happened was that I was picking her up from this club. Now I told her to go because I didn't want to go to this corny ass club. I went somewhere else and agreed to link up with her later.

To make a long story short, I'm on the phone with her asking where she was. She tells me, but I hear this dude in the background running his fucking mouth. He's telling her to get in the car, tell that nigga to go home, if You can't tell him I will, and on and on. I hear the whole convo and my girl was telling dude no, she wants to go home with me and yadda yadda. So I'm vexed because I hear this faggot. I roll up and was like, "Ayo nigga she's coming home with me". I grill him for a second and then homeboy decides he wants to flex. While me and this dude is about to "shoot the five", meaning about to fight, this chick just walks off. She doesn't anything to this dude. This guy is actually one of her friend's boyfriend. Anyways I walk away from the situation but now I'm pissed at my girl. I'm pissed at the fact that she let her so called friend disrespect me in front of her. Now I don't need a woman to fight my battles, I can handles my business quite well but it was the principle of it all.

If my friend was disrespecting my girl, I'm going to check my friend in a heartbeat. Especially, when my friend doesn't know my girl like that. I look at it being fucked up that she wouldn't even check her boy when she knew he was in the wrong. Her excuse is that she was drunk and she didn't know what was going on, meanwhile dude was hooting and hollering his lungs out. Then she had the nerve to say that it wasn't her business, it was between me and him. I want to dead her so bad but I'm not sure. Am I tripping or not? What would have you done if your man was in this situation?
 
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homie, one word: why?

Why was using ur gun necessary? Over a female that walked off on you...
 
homie, one word: why?

Why was using ur gun necessary? Over a female that walked off on you...

:lol::lol::lol:

I take it that you were reffering to the "shoot the five" line. Man that's another way of saying "shooting the fair one" like shooting out your five fingers. The only female I would use a gun for is my mother, sister, or my unborn daughter. I appreciate the concern, now let me change that before other people get the wrong idea lmao.
 
:lol::lol::lol:

I take it that you were reffering to the "shoot the five" line. Man that's another way of saying "shooting the fair one" like shooting out your five fingers. The only female I would use a gun for is my mother, sister, or my unborn daughter. I appreciate the concern, now let me change that before other people get the wrong idea lmao.

yeah man, other regional mufuckas might not know that slang... :yes:

next question:

now you said that you would use a gun for your mother sister or unborn daughter... but what about using a gun for a chick you've been dealing with for a long time.


Ask yourself, Are you a ride or die ninja? Why would you expect a ride or die chick if you aren't even willing to be a ride or die ninja for her?
 
Oh hell yeah I would use one if I had to, also depending on the circumstances. Under the circumstances like the one I'm talking about hell no. When comes to protecting my girl's life of course I would. I know for a fact I'll will hold my girl down that's no question. I question her because of what she did.
 
Is there something wrong with U people ? Why are U so preoccupied with fighting over irrelevant things.

The guy was telling your girlfriend to get in the car. She refused and said she was going home with U. U rolled up.
What is so difficult about picking up your girlfriend and going home without saying anything to the idiot ?

I am sorry but U guys have seriously got your values mixed up. U are prepared to fight and kill each other over irrelevant bullshit.

I am not American, I don't live in America and I don't understand your preoccupation with nonesense.
 
Being drunk is never really an excuse... unless you were throwing up pissy drunk can you use it as an excuse. If you are cognitive enough to do things you said you would do, i.e. call me for our original purpose and form sentences-you aren't drunk enough...


In this situation, she should have told the guy to chill and back off.. just to avoid any altercations at the club... Ugh, club fights-inside or out- are just stupid... She could still repair the damage if its really one of her friends bf... just pull homeboy to the side and tell him, "that was my man and if I want to leave with him, that should never be a problem. Just like I won't disrespect you and yours, you shouldn't disrespect mine." or something along those lines... By doing that, it doesn't make someone "ride or die" it makes them courteous.
 
Being drunk is never really an excuse... unless you were throwing up pissy drunk can you use it as an excuse. If you are cognitive enough to do things you said you would do, i.e. call me for our original purpose and form sentences-you aren't drunk enough...


In this situation, she should have told the guy to chill and back off.. just to avoid any altercations at the club... Ugh, club fights-inside or out- are just stupid... She could still repair the damage if its really one of her friends bf... just pull homeboy to the side and tell him, "that was my man and if I want to leave with him, that should never be a problem. Just like I won't disrespect you and yours, you shouldn't disrespect mine." or something along those lines... By doing that, it doesn't make someone "ride or die" it makes them courteous.

good point... I guess that was what I was expecting. Sometimes I expect people to be the same way I am but we all aren't raised the same
 
Is there something wrong with U people ? Why are U so preoccupied with fighting over irrelevant things.

The guy was telling your girlfriend to get in the car. She refused and said she was going home with U. U rolled up.
What is so difficult about picking up your girlfriend and going home without saying anything to the idiot ?

I am sorry but U guys have seriously got your values mixed up. U are prepared to fight and kill each other over irrelevant bullshit.

I am not American, I don't live in America and I don't understand your preoccupation with nonesense.

in case u missed that part I said i walked away. But anyway, if someone is talking shit about you and makes it a personal issue, the issue is now personal and no longer over the girl. Especially when he's talking shit about you when he doesn't know you. I don't know where u come from but where I'm from when somebody is talking shit in your face for no reason, that's grounds for an ass kicking.
 
are you asking us are we ride or die chicks or if ur girl is?

ummm WE can't tell u if she is or not cuz WE don't know her...you do. u know her history an if she has had ur back b4, if this was an isolate incident and all that. talk with her and make ur decision.

BUT just off of reading, fuck all that bullshit, yall arguin n shit all the time and ur about to fight ppl over some dude she didn't check

that's suspect

glad u walked away tho

:smh:

i'm too grown for this shit lol


good luck lol
 
Being drunk is never really an excuse... unless you were throwing up pissy drunk can you use it as an excuse. If you are cognitive enough to do things you said you would do, i.e. call me for our original purpose and form sentences-you aren't drunk enough...


In this situation, she should have told the guy to chill and back off.. just to avoid any altercations at the club... Ugh, club fights-inside or out- are just stupid... She could still repair the damage if its really one of her friends bf... just pull homeboy to the side and tell him, "that was my man and if I want to leave with him, that should never be a problem. Just like I won't disrespect you and yours, you shouldn't disrespect mine." or something along those lines... By doing that, it doesn't make someone "ride or die" it makes them courteous.

CO-SIGN... Nicely put
 
Ride or Die Chick . . . I wouldn't classify myself in that way . . . however . . . I have my husband's back no matter what . . . Riding and Dying for bullshit is not in the equation at all . . . because the argument was bullshit from the jump . . . honestly why did you bother to go where she was? I mean she didn't even have the decency to tell dude to chill while you were on the phone . . . honestly did you expect different once you got there? I'm trying to understand . . . I mean I'm glad you walked away but you were attempting to defend someone who obviously didn't give a fuck either way . . . because she walked away . . . people like that will get you hurt and when it's all said and done . . . she still said it wasn't her business . . . you need to be checking her . . . or let her go . . . the situation seems suspect to me . . . because dude was under the impression she was going with him . . . yet you were ready to go to war for her . . . light bulbs are flashing all around this . . . :itsawrap:
 
Being drunk is never really an excuse... unless you were throwing up pissy drunk can you use it as an excuse. If you are cognitive enough to do things you said you would do, i.e. call me for our original purpose and form sentences-you aren't drunk enough...


In this situation, she should have told the guy to chill and back off.. just to avoid any altercations at the club... Ugh, club fights-inside or out- are just stupid... She could still repair the damage if its really one of her friends bf... just pull homeboy to the side and tell him, "that was my man and if I want to leave with him, that should never be a problem. Just like I won't disrespect you and yours, you shouldn't disrespect mine." or something along those lines... By doing that, it doesn't make someone "ride or die" it makes them courteous.


CO- TO THE FUCKING SIGN!!!
 
Ride or Die Chick . . . I wouldn't classify myself in that way . . . however . . . I have my husband's back no matter what . . . Riding and Dying for bullshit is not in the equation at all . . . because the argument was bullshit from the jump . . . honestly why did you bother to go where she was? I mean she didn't even have the decency to tell dude to chill while you were on the phone . . . honestly did you expect different once you got there? I'm trying to understand . . . I mean I'm glad you walked away but you were attempting to defend someone who obviously didn't give a fuck either way . . . because she walked away . . . people like that will get you hurt and when it's all said and done . . . she still said it wasn't her business . . . you need to be checking her . . . or let her go . . . the situation seems suspect to me . . . because dude was under the impression she was going with him . . . yet you were ready to go to war for her . . . light bulbs are flashing all around this . . . :itsawrap:

CO- SIGN
 
fam, let me tell you like my homegirl told me.

when a woman is truly in love, she won't be caught dead in any situation that would jeaprodise that relationship.

take a hint bro/look at all the signs.

she may be a ride or die but you ain't that dude for her.

i'm pretty sure most ladies will tell you the exact same thing.

you are the dude that's cool until something better comes along.
 
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