Alot of the "obsese sista" problem is the fault of us bruthas*

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*I'm including some latino cats too because it's somewhat applicable to them.


When we as black men learn that we're not gonna die or become a homosexual if we have standards,set and keep them concerning who we fuck then things may change. How can we say that female is a disgusting nastyfatnasty who's just waiting to get diabetes,heart problems,etc,yet we tap the ass with a quickness we undermine our argument.Also we gas up the females heads making them think they're sexy. Why should a 5'4 215 lb chick have incentive to change if she's getting dick-expecially if there are no immediate visual signs of health problems.

Just seems hypocritical for me for cats to say something like,"damn she's big,she could play left tackle for the Oakland Raiders,ugh!" Yet you'd fuck the hell out of her. Everyone has thier own tastes,but it makes little sense.
I've liked and fucked think women over the years. But my ceiling is sort of Kira/Kum Whitley/Kimberly Locke. Epsecially since the last year I've gone from 260+lbs(on a 6'1-6'2 frame) to slightly under 210 from just NOT PUTTING CRAP INTO MY BODY. Fried foods are out. Pastries and stuff are only for birthdays or certain get togethers,not snacks or breakfasts. Honestly,I'm not a gym rat,but I've still had a bunch of folks telling me I look good. I do believe that some,heavy people,if they put thier mind to it can lose weight without surgery or killing themselves in the gym.

By the way,when will Aretha Franklin's friends and family have an intervention with her. Isn't anyone worried about her health?
 
That problem is going both ways in our community...bruh's can disguise.. just have those Nightgowns erruh... I mean TallTees. In order to demand better we have to do better....I got my certification from the NSCA-CFT Im still at my DB playing weight thinking I could do some good and make a change since I live in one of the Fattest states....and as an effective trainer it still was somewhat hard to get clients they expected it to be cheap and they did not want to commit ( so in the summer I had to hold Bridal Bootcamps weekly lol.)

The first problem they confuse fatigue,exertion,pain with what they believe is Injury ...Second the thing that initially motivated them was probably not another obese woman but a woman whom appeared to be in good condition...and they want results instantly not realizing that most of the excess weight people gain are between Nov1 and Jan1...that 6-9lbs per year over 8 years will make a fine 140lb woman a 230lb pig and they all swear they dont know where it came from.

If I can give any advice to the board even if you dont want to exercise...if you dont do anything else...eat in moderation (full is full- if it takes 30bucks to fill up your gas tank why would you attempt to put 35 in it) and eat what the body can utilize..ex: a Steak,Potatoe trumps a small donut (gas tank theory again...1 gallon of gas will tank u somewhere but 30 gallons of koolaid will not crank it).

And on personal note I have a 8yr old son...I sometimes think at the present rate there wont be (according to my standards) a plentiful array of dimes for the boy to date. :smh: ... These girls go straight from Children's Place to Lane Bryant...totally bypassing BeBe and Arden B...wtf :hmm:
 
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On the real cats need to be doin this twice a year.

http://www.gnc.com/sm-natures-secret-ultimate-cleanse--pi-2133803.html
:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:

If you smoke and drank or just overeat and lazy or a balance person it dont matter to change your lifestyle this is step one my dog's.
get with the program and you will feel lighter, energized and your skin
and eyes will look brand new real talk :yes:
I got dozen of complements since I started on this last year.
And I really feel great!! just passin on some knowledge

So get to it and clean that internal plumbing :dance:
 
Fuck It, I'll take the pussy however it cuums!!!!! The bigger the berry the jucier the cherry, shitttt!!! :cool:
 
Fuck that, a bitch being fat is no one's fault but her own. If some fat nasty ass bitch thinks she's getting as much attention as she would if she were 75 pounds lighter then she never had any intention of dropping weight; she's just lazy.

The real problem is females thinking that by eating right and exercising they're conforming to some bullshit social norm and trying to look like the chick on the magazine cover.

It never occurred to them that they should want to lose weight not because it's a trend but so they don't die at 45 and their car can get better mileage.
 
m2m said:
Fuck that, a bitch being fat is no one's fault but her own. If some fat nasty ass bitch thinks she's getting as much attention as she would if she were 75 pounds lighter then she never had any intention of dropping weight; she's just lazy.

The real problem is females thinking that by eating right and exercising they're conforming to some bullshit social norm and trying to look like the chick on the magazine cover.

It never occurred to them that they should want to lose weight not because it's a trend but so they don't die at 45 and their car can get better mileage.

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Real Shit.
 
So is obesity now the new scourge most Black women are blaming on Black Men these days?

I tell ya...

Every time stupid SHIT like this comes up, it just shows me (and practically the rest of the world) that most Sistas are just whiny, BRAIN-DEAD chickenheads.

Especially since many Black women keep holding Black Men responsible for their own ignorant faults.

I'm always tempted to say "FUCK THESE BITCHES" when these Dumb-ASSES do this SHIT.

But since I just had this exact talk about weight with an interested Sista whom I went out to dinner with last night (and GirlFriend was really serious about getting on some weight loss program), I decided that I ain't giving up on their ASSES just yet.

Like I've told folks over the years, I may not have Denzel's looks, but I've always made sure I've maintained my body. My ass lost over 50lbs in four months after I moved back to NYC three years ago (after living in Oregon for 14 years). I did so much walking, SHIT wasn't funny. And many of my family and friends noticed the difference.

If all these obese Sistas I see in Harlem daily would just simply WALK for at least 30 minutes a day around the city, instead of to Crown's Fried Chicken and back, it would really help them appearance-wise. Not to mention health-wise.

But I guess it's just easier to blame Black Men for their lack of physical motivation. And spend big bucks on a daily dose of MickeyD's and a hair weave.
 
Man... HAR125LEM and m2m are speaking some major truth...

It's like Katt Williams said...

"It's called SELF esteem... how you gonna blame somebody else for how you feel about yoooooooooooooooooooou!"

You make your own decision about what you put in your body. Even if you have depression or whatever, you make a decision to eat something bad for you rather than eating something healthy. You make a decision to get a milkshake when you really needed was a 20 oz. bottle of water. You make a decision to get into your car and drive 4 blocks when you know you really could have walked that distance and back.
 
NuBNPrince said:
"It's called SELF esteem... how you gonna blame somebody else for how you feel about yoooooooooooooooooooou!"

Real shit right there :lol:

That's why I don't care about what broads say. Unlike the way you look, your size is something that you control.

I'm big boned or it runs in your family :hmm:

Get your fat ass in a gym then. You think you're going to lose weight drinking diet cokes :confused:
 
Bigmario23 said:
On the real cats need to be doin this twice a year.

http://www.gnc.com/sm-natures-secret-ultimate-cleanse--pi-2133803.html
:yes: :yes: :yes: :yes:

If you smoke and drank or just overeat and lazy or a balance person it dont matter to change your lifestyle this is step one my dog's.
get with the program and you will feel lighter, energized and your skin
and eyes will look brand new real talk :yes:
I got dozen of complements since I started on this last year.
And I really feel great!! just passin on some knowledge

So get to it and clean that internal plumbing :dance:

REAL TALK... but I use a different product that's cheaper, yet still equally effective if not more effective. got more women hitting on me like a muthafucka, cleanses skin, got rid of toxins in the body, made me feel like i was 18 again no joke.

also co-sing with afkaq, especially on nude africa which should be BBW africa with all those big ass ugly hoes. all those good comments toward those ugly big bitches. im like get the fuck outta here. i never fucked an overweight bish, and never will. i have high standards when it comes to looks with women. hell, i even drop hints like, do you work out? are you trying to do something with your weight? i keep it real. fuck all the nice compliment shit. if they don't look good, no need to soup up their head.
 
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superman2004 said:
also co-sing with afkaq, especially on nude africa which should be BBW africa with all those big ass ugly hoes. all those good comments toward those ugly big bitches. im like get the fuck outta here. i never fucked an overweight bish, and never will. i have high standards when it comes to looks with women. hell, i even drop hints like, do you work out? are you trying to do something with your weight? i keep it real. fuck all the nice compliment shit. if they don't look good, no need to soup up their head.

Co-sign here too! Remember those BGOL experiments I ran earlier this year? The results...

This BGOL poll was taken by me in reference to the woman in the pic above it...
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This is a screencap of responses to a fat bitch in a post at Nude Africa...
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Sad... :smh:
 
DOn't gas then Pass.. It's to late when you do that. Just dont gas period.
If she fat move the fuck on unless you desperate. I ONLY date hot women and my definition of hot women isnt FAT, It's phat, depending on height and weight.

after thats doen it's all personality.
 
Yeah, y'all leave them with 2-3 kids, no assistance and then they're left to feed on Church's.
 
femmenoire said:
Yeah, y'all leave them with 2-3 kids, no assistance and then they're left to feed on Church's.
Yeah it's all our fault, we're just running around forcing women to have our kids. Ignoring the fact that their momma is obese and their grandmother diabetes was so bad that she had to have a leg amputated, and its all out fault. Women have no responsibility in anything that happens to them, that's what the women's rights movement was about, its always the man's fault.
 
m10_v said:
Yeah it's all our fault, we're just running around forcing women to have our kids. Ignoring the fact that their momma is obese and their grandmother diabetes was so bad that she had to have a leg amputated, and its all out fault. Women have no responsibility in anything that happens to them, that's what the women's rights movement was about, its always the man's fault.

I never said that, you did.
 
femmenoire said:
Yeah, we love fucking thugged out drug dealing fools who will leave us with 2-3 kids, feeding on Church's.

Stop choseing those fools over the good black men then more black men will chose to be good. :yes: :yes: :yes: .
 
Who gives a damn about what another nigga wants to fuck. If a nigga smash a big girl, Go ahead I say, You wanna smash a ugly girl, I say do it my nigga, it aint hurtin me none. If you got high standerds smash a high class girl, If you like em a lil thicker than normal then smash em. I dont get all these hatin ass niggas gettin on what another nigga smash. Worry about yo own dick man. Thats some Real Shit!!! :D
 
GET YOU HOT said:
Wow, i cant get caught up in this thread...im in shape, what the f**k iis you all talkin about :confused:

We're talking about the 70% of black women that are overweight

That means you fall in the slim minority, be happy
 
femmenoire said:
Yeah, y'all leave them with 2-3 kids, no assistance and then they're left to feed on Church's.
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I hope that you are being sarcastic. Because even if this were true this does not excuse a hoe from being out of shape. Walking is free. Any woman can "walk" to stay in shape.

ON a 2nd note an "individual woman" needs to stop blaming all "niggas" for bad decisions that she makes. I fully admit that there are plenty of trifling, sorry azz Niggas on the face of the planet. But unless a woman wa RAPED she chose to lay down with a SORRY NIGGA. Then she CHOSE to reproduce with a sorry Nigga. Then they expect "assistance". Forget that! Black women need to make better individual decisions with their pussy. If a Nigga aint give you a ring...why the hell would you choose to reproduce with him?
 
DiamondDeuce said:
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I hope that you are being sarcastic. Because even if this were true this does not excuse a hoe from being out of shape. Walking is free. Any woman can "walk" to stay in shape.

ON a 2nd note an "individual woman" needs to stop blaming all "niggas" for bad decisions that she makes. I fully admit that there are plenty of trifling, sorry azz Niggas on the face of the planet. But unless a woman wa RAPED she chose to lay down with a SORRY NIGGA. Then she CHOSE to reproduce with a sorry Nigga. Then they expect "assistance". Forget that! Black women need to make better individual decisions with their pussy. If a Nigga aint give you a ring...why the hell would you choose to reproduce with him?
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Demand for pussy is higher than the supply so there are many men whith no choice but to fuck fat women... They soon begin to think fat women are attractive. The average average looking womem has at least 15 dudes trying to fuck her so she dont need tko care too much about her weight at all.
 
We live in a society of excess. Faulting black men for the obesity of black women is pure bullshit. Consumers consume, if you don't like that shit step to the root of the problem, manufacturers of unhealthy bullshit food, their salesmen and the government that allows them to do business.

There are people in this country who literally have no fuckin grocery stores within 20 miles of their homes. These people have access to fast food and small corner stores that serve up overpriced trash.

If the diet is bullshit and the activity level is low you have the perfect formula for obesity. IF black men can't even stand together to control our own communities on a political level how the fuck are you gonna try to saddle them with the responsibility of rejecting mates that you personally feel are unworthy? pure bullshit

If you want to help black women fight obesity promote positive lifestyles and habits so that they permeate our community the same way bullshit snap music does.

You weighed 260+ right AFKAQ? Did a bunch of women tell you that you were a fat disgusting slob and you werent fit for fucking?
Or did you realize what you were doing to your body and change your habits?

Was it the black woman's fault you got fat?

I dig you searching for solutions but you don't help people by pitting them against one another.
 
BlackSmurf said:
Demand for pussy is higher than the supply so there are many men whith no choice but to fuck fat women... They soon begin to think fat women are attractive. The average average looking womem has at least 15 dudes trying to fuck her so she dont need tko care too much about her weight at all.
stop with the trick wisdom hazmatic

what's the average woman? where does the average woman live?

there must not be any average women in my town of millions since women outnumber men here 13 to 1.

13 to 1 and you claim each of those chicks has 15 dudes hollarin? gtfoh
 
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