Accountability and Submission are conditional - Black women respond

[TheFuser]

What was the context?

She was going thru a healing time after a really bad breakup. As she was supposed to be taking time to just be by herself and self-examine but she ended up dealing with some dude who showed her attention. This nigga was married and she didn't know. And while both guys did her dirty, she took a step back and was like, "This is on me. I make bad decisions" and she fell all the way back to see what was in her that's making her pick so poorly. First time I ever heard a woman take that much accountability over her own shit. It actually made me take a step back and examine my own shit

 

[jack walsh13]

Ion give a flyin fuck how that bitch feels. I got some nut to deposit and that's the only thing your good for to me.

 

[dHustla]

She was going thru a healing time after a really bad breakup. As she was supposed to be taking time to just be by herself and self-examine but she ended up dealing with some dude who showed her attention. This nigga was married and she didn't know. And while both guys did her dirty, she took a step back and was like, "This is on me. I make bad decisions" and she fell all the way back to see what was in her that's making her pick so poorly. First time I ever heard a woman take that much accountability over her own shit. It actually made me take a step back and examine my own shit

Yea, that's respectable. That period after a bad breakup is the time to do some self reflection, which is uncomfortable.

Many people, men and women, would rather placate or absolve themselves and just do what makes them feel better, which can have a level of.... what's the word?? Somebody help me out with the word for that?

 

[ScorpDiesel]

Zod is good.

 

[jack walsh13]

Zod is good.

And Jesus is Black.

 

[dHustla]

Can somebody assist with the ig @cheladundada I don't know how to post pics from ig

 

[pookie]

@ accountability is an attack…the thing is they really feel that way.

Woman: I was with him 2 years and he treated me like shit, beat and cheated on me and nobody helped me

Man: why didn’t you leave him the first time he did it

Woman: FUCK YOU. SO YOU SAYING IT’S MY FAULT, IF YOU NEVER BEEN IN THE SITUATION DON‘T TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD’VE DONE

 

[dHustla]

@ accountability is an attack…the thing is they really feel that way.

Woman: I was with him 2 years and he treated me like shit, beat and cheated on me and nobody helped me

Man: why didn’t you leave him the first time he did it

Woman: FUCK YOU. SO YOU SAYING IT’S MY FAULT, IF YOU NEVER BEEN IN THE SITUATION DON‘T TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD’VE DONE

My older female cousin said it feels like an attack to be told she's wrong, and that it further punishes women for being vulnerable.

 

[jack walsh13]

@ accountability is an attack…the thing is they really feel that way.

Woman: I was with him 2 years and he treated me like shit, beat and cheated on me and nobody helped me

Man: why didn’t you leave him the first time he did it

Woman: FUCK YOU. SO YOU SAYING IT’S MY FAULT, IF YOU NEVER BEEN IN THE SITUATION DON‘T TELL ME WHAT I SHOULD’VE DONE

Yup.

 

[Rudey]

Sorry I can't listen beyond 3 mins.

 

[RoadRage]

How can 70% of women vying for 10% of men think they are in the position to make demands. This makes sense to people totally deviod of any reason or mathematical skills!

 

[dHustla]

How can 70% of women vying for 10% of men think they are in the position to make demands. This makes sense to people totally deviod of any reason or mathematical skills!

Right.
And whats worse they don't know what that 10% man look like all the time.

Not everybody wearing a 5 piece suit, got a manicure, and drive a spaceship.

I make six figures cutting grass and I drive a pickup old enough to drink hard liquor.

 

[tajshan]

Well..

Is he right ?

 

[ScorpDiesel]

How can 70% of women vying for 10% of men think they are in the position to make demands. This makes sense to people totally deviod of any reason or mathematical skills!

Much the same way a well to do person can buy a Bugatti while you and I can't; the perceived and actual value. A woman who thinks she is valuable will feel she can afford in the market what others can't, and the men pursuing her re-enforce her belief of her value. Scarcity in the market is irrelevant if you can afford it.