A question for the ladies

[dinka64]

With all due respect!!
(statement)I don't understand why is it that gay women alott of times date fat or out of shape women and be happy. women in general wont date out of shape or fat men most of whom would really be sensitive and loving. Instead they want the great looking fantastically built men/ bad boys etc. then they get messed over and want to blame men in general. Now this fat miss built woman usually has more than one lover but that's OK.(Question why turn to women? Question why does physical atributes not matter when dealing with women as opposed to men. and why is it ok for your woman lover to mess with other women .) As a photographer I have shot hundreds of gay women and had conversations with them. I shoot at allot of gay clubs and have allot of repeat business because I am not judgemental and business is business. Question explain why women think they know how to please a woman just because they are a a woman?(I believe it's just a line to get young bi curious women) Well my experience (100 plus woman) not many women are alike. I have had to adapt and change dozens of time to accommodate each particular woman's taste sexually and being a man I am designed to make a woman feel Fantastic (no disrespect) it is in my nature.I understand time stands still when making love and that foreplay mentally and physically is the most important thing during intercourse; Penetration is very important too, a gentle or sometimes rough beat down is the coup de grace to reaching the pinnacle of sexual pleasure. What are your thoughts help a brother understand!

 

[melonpecan]

You lost me like three times

 

[dinka64]

You lost me like three times

I revised the question

 

[BCAA2009]

.(Question why turn to women?

Because they are confused (the ones that do it anyhow).


I always wondered what they will do if the ones who do it have children and they come and ask them, "mommy, why were you sticking your tongue down the throat of another girl?"

 

[melonpecan]

.(Question why turn to women?

Curiosity? Maybe they like pussy?

I've never been with a woman so I really can't answer this, only speculation.

Question why does physical atributes not matter when dealing with women as opposed to men. and why is it ok for your woman lover to mess with other women

Who said it didn't? I do find some women attractive, (I mean damn I can say she pretty), but of course I'm not gonna go "That dude got some nice tits". Maybe it's not the same physical attributes but the same line of standard is there.

I think the woman lover thing might just be that relationship(s).

Question explain why women think they know how to please a woman just because they are a a woman?

Because that's a valid argument?

If I touch myself and I like that shit there, more than likely it would apply to another woman right? I mean I can't do that shit with my man- he got a dick, I got a pussy.

















You complicated

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

With all due respect!!
I don't understand why is it that gay women alott of times date fat or out of shape women and be happy.Women very often, gay women will be less critical of a females looks than they would a males. I don't know why. I think it's because when women get together it's just on a stronger emotional level to begin with. women in general wont date out of shape or fat men most of whom would really be sensitive and loving. Instead they want the great looking fantastically built men/ bad boys etc. 2 different things sir. Women are with women for different reasons than they're with men.then they get messed over and want to blame men in general. Now this fat miss built woman usually has more than one lover but that's OK. As a photographer I have shot hundreds of gay women and had conversations with them. I shoot at allot of gay clubs and have allot of repeat business because I am not judgemental and business is business. Another thing I cant understand (I believe it's just a line to get young curious women) women say I know what a woman wants because I am a woman and I know what I like. Well my experience (100 plus woman) not many women are alike. I have had to adapt and change dozens of time to accommodate each particular woman's taste sexually and being a man I am designed to make a woman feel Fantastic (no disrespect) it is in my nature.2 things. lol Yes it's complete bullcrap in the terms of physical satisfaction. But there's also an emotional tenderness that's there, that males just don't have. The other thing is, anyone can work to please anyone if they try too.I understand time stands still when making love and that foreplay mentally and physically is the most important thing during intercourse; Penetration is very important too, a gentle or sometimes rough beat down is the coup de grace to reaching the pinnacle of sexual pleasure. What are your thoughts help a brother understand!

And therein kind of lies the issue. Your mentality while male. If a woman desires a female? This is probably not the type of mentality that's very appealing to her. I've heard and experienced men just can't have sex like women can. Sex with me and the wifey is pretty much an all day experience. Hubby from what i'm told from women who've been with alot of men is that most guys don't put in the time or effort to get to connect with a woman's passion. To get her enthralled to that point. My husband did but he's a different kind of guy. I believe most women want a guy who's going to explore them. And also i do think there's a difference between male lust and female lust. In my view.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Curiosity? Maybe they like pussy?

I've never been with a woman so I really can't answer this, only

Not to be a diss to the OP. But i honestly am beginning to believe that males just cannot handle that there's vagina out there that doesn't want them. I've been hearing this same arguement for a long time now. Since i was a girl. "why why why". Because i like it. I love it. I love it just like you do. Everything(almost) You like about women? I do too. You ask a guy why he doesn't like men. He'll get indignant and upset. Like it should just be a GIVEN.

Sometimes things aren't what you thought they were. Or what you think they SHOULD be. Sometimes they accept it. But alot of times i really do believe that they think just because they're male and you're female just BAM automatic they should have a chance to be with you. And if you don't desire them, then you're unnatural.


Because that's a valid argument?

If I touch myself and I like that shit there, more than likely it would apply to another woman right? I mean I can't do that shit with my man- he got a dick, I got a pussy. This is a problem stemming from silly uncommunicative women. And men. Women won't tell the male they're with what they like. And males won't ask. It's really just that simple. So that lie was made about women know women better. In a way, yes. But in a physical sense? Most women are going to orgasm from 1 or 2 ways. There's going to be some...variances. Some tuning may be different in a few. But for the most part? All the same. Just about. eh..give or take. lol






You complicated

@complicated

 

[melonpecan]

@complicated

LOL I'm still trying to feel this out.


Man if you like chicks and you a chick do you, eat that pussy and flick a nipple the best way you know how.

If like dudes and you a chick make sure your man know how to eat that pussy and flick a nipple the best way he know how.

I don't think it matter why a chick like what she like, that's like asking any random dude "Kind sir, why do you prefer free air from this bottled, purified, grape flavored air that I'm going to charge you 15$ for?"



I think I just lost my train of thought.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I'm convinced many of them don't like the idea of vagina that doesn't want them. And they resent it. I believe it just comes down to that. And it's so against what they've come to believe(many of them). That it kind of shatters their reality a bit. It shakes it for sure. And you know alot of people can't handle it when something comes along that doesn't jibe with what they've always told themselves was true.

 

[melonpecan]

I'm convinced many of them don't like the idea of vagina that doesn't want them. And they resent it. I believe it just comes down to that. And it's so against what they've come to believe(many of them). That it kind of shatters their reality a bit. It shakes it for sure. And you know alot of people can't handle it when something comes along that doesn't jibe with what they've always told themselves was true.

Pussy envy? The opposite of Penis Envy?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

LMAO. I don't know if i'd call it that. I just think it's a blow to their ego.

 

[BCAA2009]

 

[melonpecan]

What's wrong?

You don't have the dreaded Pussy Envy, do you?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

He seems to not like lesbians. And thinks we're abominations before god. Is what i gleaned from some of his other posts.

 

[BCAA2009]

What's wrong?

You don't have the dreaded Pussy Envy, do you?

Nope, just that it is going to be hilarious when certain events happen like.........ah fuck it.

 

[LoneStar29]

Wouldnt this question be better directed towards a woman who is as you described??

No I guess coming here and asking a majority of straight girls and a few bi chicks who love fit pussy would be better

 

[melonpecan]

He seems to not like lesbians. And thinks we're abominations before god. Is what i gleaned from some of his other posts.

Ah...

Nope, just that it is going to be hilarious when certain events happen like.........ah fuck it.

You mean like being locked in a room full of bulging, wobbly dicks? No way you can get out of that situation without getting a little wet one way or another...that's damn scary...

Wouldnt this question be better directed towards a woman who is as you described??

No I guess coming here and asking a majority of straight girls and a few bi chicks who love fit pussy would be better

 

[BCAA2009]

You mean like being locked in a room full of bulging, wobbly dicks? No way you can get out of that situation without getting a little wet one way or another...that's damn scary

no

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

They don't have a smiley to properly express what i feel about what melon just wrote. lmao