A list of things you wish you knew when you were 25...

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Not having a father in the home can be just as good or bad as having a father in the home depending on the type of mother you have, her level of education, & her vocation. Some who have both parents in the home are still raised by "single" married parents because the father provides no direction & or structure nor has no information resource to share....

What would be on ya list of things you wish you knew as a 25 yr old man if youve made it to 50!

What about if you were 20 & you 40 now???
 
Get yourself an LLC. It costs $125-150 last time I checked. There is so much you can write off just by having that EI Number.

You can write off your internet/wifi, laptop, phone bill, gas and so much more. I just found out about the Keeper app. It keeps track of all of your write offs and will itemize it for your tax preparer.

You can get thousands back each year for that one time fee of $125
 
Investing and the importance of it.
what better eating really means and why it's important.
Good education is not necessary...but helps with regard to choices.
Since everything in life has a tendency to change and therefore nothing in life is permanent, nothing stays the same. Roll with it.
 
I wish I had traveled to Brazil at 25 instead of dealing with these bitches here. A lot of stress would’ve never happened.

Also, cutting off people, situations and things who ain’t no good for you. My problem was hoping people and situations would change but never happened. It was a waste of time. It was a hard lesson. When you see people and situations aren’t changing move on to people and things who are about something.

I wish I was wiser with money. I wish I had stacked more paper at 25, Instead of buying luxury bullshit. As I got older and now making paper I don’t care for fancy shit. No BMW, no Gucci, gold chain, etc.

With the money I’m making now I can go into Savers, Goodwill and Salvation Army and buy Levi jeans and dry clean them.
 
Fuck new cars. From this point forward in my life unless I hit the lottery I am not getting a new car. I'll get a car 1 to 2 years old with low miles and clean Carfax.

I saw a YouTube video several years ago. I guy went to a Kia dealership and bought a car cash. He drove it to another dealership let's say a BMW or whatever and they offered him $7,000 to $9,000 less than he had just paid less than half an hour before.

I'm not saying you can't enjoy your BMW or your Lexus or whatever, but they don't have to be new
 
Fuck new cars. From this point forward in my life unless I hit the lottery I am not getting a new car. I'll get a car 1 to 2 years old with low miles and clean Carfax.

I saw a YouTube video several years ago. I guy went to a Kia dealership and bought a car cash. He drove it to another dealership let's say a BMW or whatever and they offered him $7,000 to $9,000 less than he had just paid less than half an hour before.

I'm not saying you can't enjoy your BMW or your Lexus or whatever, but they don't have to be new
I NEVER pay more than $10k for a car... I've had Volvo's, Honda's, Lincoln's, Acura's, & currently have an Infinity.
 
  1. You can fall in love more than once. You don't need to worry much when someone you love leaves you, most of the time it's for the good.
  2. You can't expect everyone to be good to you and at the same time you can't be good to everyone.
  3. Letting go is very hard but it's the best thing to do.
  4. People have difference in opinion and you have to accept that.
  5. Don't judge anyone based on the rumors that you have heard about them. Know people by yourself and have your own opinion.
  6. Everyone is selfish one way or another.
  7. Being polite and humble costs you nothing but it's everything.
  8. There will always be someone who is better than you. You just have to accept that fact.
  9. There is nothing as free meal. You must pay the price of everything.
  10. Learn to be content and happy by yourself. If you need a company to be happy then it will make you weak.
  11. Your life won't go as planned and trust me it's a good thing.
  12. Timing is a bitch.
  13. Everything that you do, you are creating dots. You can connect those dots at the later part of life and understand why you did what you did.
  14. If it's too good to be true then it probably isn't true.
  15. Don't be highly dependent on anything. You will lose your world if you lose that one thing. Diversify your assets and your dependency too.
  16. Life is not fair. Don't expect people to treat you the way you want them to treat you.
  17. Anyone is replaceable. The only thing differentiates you from the rest is the amount of time and effort that is required to replace you.
  18. Believe in yourself. If you don't believe in yourself then nobody else will.
  19. Take it easy. Relax and enjoy your life. Everything will turn out good.
 
1) The power of compound interest.
2) How a Roth IRA can make you a millionaire if you start early enough.
3) The physical and financial toll of drinking alcohol.
4) Why leaving your hometown and never looking back is not a bad thing.
5) Organized religion is a joke.
6) Learning something that has value in the marketplace, become the best at it, and make folks pay you for your expertise.
7) Colleges want to graduate you, especially if you’re black at a PWI, without regard to what the degree will do for you, because they get rankings and revenue for the data, so chart your own path and know what you want to do and be and then make them teach you how to be the best at that.
8) Graduate school should be a measure twice cut once deal. Either go to the best school in your field if you’re going full time, or don’t go at all, you’ll be better off working and attending and having a job pay for it. Leaving the workforce to go get an MBA at directional state U is pointless, leaving to get that degree at Harvard/Yale/Chicago/Stanford/Northwestern/Notre Dame is an investment that can pay off 100x from the money you put in and the opportunity cost you sacrifice.
8) Every major city with professional college educated black folks has cliches, church cliches, corporate cliches, Greek org cliches, auxiliary org cliches (like Jack and Jill). It can be some bullshit but navigating them and playing the game can help your career and your paper.
9) Drinking and driving is dumb.
10) Do not take on other people’s burdens or responsibilities. Example, they’re kids, their problem. Their debts, their problem. They’re down and need someone to talk to? At the point they are draining your time and energy, they need to pay a professional to help them figure it out.
 
Never depend on a woman to cook for you.

Read for leisure especially after college.

Travel especially when your young and take in different cultures.

Discipline is to be practiced daily and not when its only necessary.

Be an active participant in leading a better life.

Embrace your fears and then move forward.
 
Never depend on a woman to cook for you.

Read for leisure especially after college.

Travel especially when your young and take in different cultures.

Discipline is to be practiced daily and not when its only necessary.

Be an active participant in leading a better life.

Embrace your fears and then move forward.
moms was VERY serious about this....
 
pussy is a deep dark hole! You cant see in it! You cant see whats in it! You CANT trust a woman to tell the truth about the health of her pussy if she wont let you examine it with the lights on and or get it tested prior to thrusting your unprotected peen into it!

you can't blame women for situations & shit you could have avoided:
Herpes
Syphilis
Hepatitis
Trichomoniasis
Gonorrhea
Chlamydia
Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV)
A conversation, test, & or condom could have prevented it!
She either knew she had it & willfully gave it to you or she didn't know she had it & unknowingly gave it to you. This means the dude she was fuking with most likely knew he had it & gave it to her. People are fucked up like that.

Unplanned & Unwanted children with women you are not in love with & know you don't want to marry can be avoided. You can CHOOSE to use a condom! If the woman refuses to allow you to have sex with her using a condom, then you need to ask yourself WHY? She either wants to give you her STD/STI OR she wants you to ejaculate in her, get her pregnant, have your baby, and then take you to child support court.
YOU do not have to ejaculate in a woman. You can choose to pull out if you've chosen to NOT to use a condom. There are no women in existence who can force you to ejaculate in them. It may be difficult to break free of that "clamp" move they use on you when they hook their legs onto you & start saying stuff in ya ear to redirect your concentration, but it is possible. If she tried that she will try it again & or some other type of move like not getting up off of you if she is sitting on / riding the peen. The longer/ thicker ya peen is the more difficulty you will have evading both moves because we always want to be able to have as much peen in whichever hole she's made available.


DO NOT be willy-nilly with ya DICKMATIZATION powers. You must use them wisely. You must choose who you dickmatize wisely. Wreckless dickmatization can cause you unmeasurable & catastrophic long and short-term difficulties beyond imagination. A scorned dickmatized woman is a danger to you, the other woman, your car, your bank account, physical safety, and mental & emotional stability, and physical safety.
Dickmatized women will always have an empathetic friend who is willing to do down in flames with her & bask in her dickmatized energy BECAUSE she has no dick of her own to ride, suck, & have pound her out for breakfast, lunch, & dinner. She's also jealous & envious so she is more than egar to help her exact revenge upon you! When it's all said and done that same "friend" will find a way to holla @ you to see if she can find out for herself how good the peen is knowing the risk of possible dickmatization she may suffer from after the fact.

Women will use their beauty, mouth, asshole, vagina, & soft hands to suck, fuck, & jerk you off into a relationship & admitting you have feelings you really may not have or even worse... don't realize you have. The latter is their window of opportunity to convince you, this is why your friend who does his best to convince you to not fall for the spell being cast upon you becomes the guy she hates with a passion. His honesty & logic is estrogen-free.

Pussy comes good, better, best, & worse!

Some women don't / wont wash their ass because the men they are with love to fuck funky pussy!

Ya dick & dollar bill are the only 2 friends you have. If you don't have any friends you can buy yourself some as long as you can afford to pay them to be around but why? If you can't get any pussy, you can buy yourself some.

some women want to have your baby because they know you & your family represent everything she either grew up experiencing herself OR she recognizes how aligning herself with you & your family is a social & economic upgrade for her in life. Not saying its a bad or good thing.Its something you just need to know.

women will fuck with you if you are on some bullshit IF you were man enough to tell them about it 1st!

because you are in love with your girlfriend/ wife ... you respect / value her... blah blah blaaaaah... in spite of her level of comfort with you & the "friendship" part of your relationship with her, you've lost ya ability to make her lick, suck, & fuck like the $2 closet whore she's always wanted to be & or has been before & wants to be again. this is where you fuck up! this is where you create a space for the anit shit dude to slide in & donkey fuck ya lady on the days she goes to the salon, her lunch break, & or girls' night/trip weekend.

If a woman you like & want to have sex with likes women & has sex with women she's gay & you will be the live peen in the girl girl sex scene. The spirit & energy might take you & inspire you to allow her to strap up & fuck you in the ass while you licking ass or eating pussy. Now she has 2 bitches, 1 has a real dick but likes dick in his asshole too.

20 years isn't a long time

your friends become your family & family becomes strangers.

as a man thinketh so shall he be.

you can manifest your thoughts into reality

plan your life, write it down, put it on postcards all over the place where you can see it.
make a video about what you want & where you want to be in/by a particular point in time.

you can talk yourself out of pussy

women are more sexually aggressive, freaky, & manish than men are

some women love licking a mans ass than men love licking a woman ass.

a woman will lie to you about who the father of her child is IF she can get away with it so that the better man can be fooled into thinking he is the real father.

some women who arent your live-in girlfriend, fiance, or wife, have no problems leveraging their mouth, vagina, & or asshole in exchange for money for mortguage/ insurance, rent, car/ insurance, power, gas, internet, phone, cell phone, babysitter, & or tuition... simply because she knows you want to have sex with her & quite often she wants to have sex with you just as much if not more than you do.

baby mamas / single mothers will always do their best to try and convince you that your ability to find childless women is almost nonexistant in an effort to make her self look like a viable option you should choose because what you are looking for is allegedly a needle in a hey stack but she was once a childless woman.

there is no return on the investment for you & your legacy when you contribute your finances & time to the children a woman had for other men.

having children with a woman who already had children does not obligate you to take care of the other mans kids.

its not your job to buy stuff for your sons/ daughters siblings because you brought him/ her something.
 
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Not having a father in the home can be just as good or bad as having a father in the home depending on the type of mother you have, her level of education, & her vocation. Some who have both parents in the home are still raised by "single" married parents because the father provides no direction & or structure nor has no information resource to share....

What would be on ya list of things you wish you knew as a 25 yr old man if youve made it to 50!

What about if you were 20 & you 40 now???
Not having a father figure is what made you the sissified faggot that you are today

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I wish I had traveled to Brazil at 25 instead of dealing with these bitches here. A lot of stress would’ve never happened.

Also, cutting off people, situations and things who ain’t no good for you. My problem was hoping people and situations would change but never happened. It was a waste of time. It was a hard lesson. When you see people and situations aren’t changing move on to people and things who are about something.

I wish I was wiser with money. I wish I had stacked more paper at 25, Instead of buying luxury bullshit. As I got older and now making paper I don’t care for fancy shit. No BMW, no Gucci, gold chain, etc.

With the money I’m making now I can go into Savers, Goodwill and Salvation Army and buy Levi jeans and dry clean them.
You would've gotten all your tranny desires fulfilled at that young age........ instead of being what you are now.... an old, disgruntled tranny that posts here where hetero men.... post


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Your shoes are the first thing people subconsciously notice about you. Wear nice shoes.
If you sit for more than 11 hours a day, there's a 50% chance you'll die within the next 3 years.
People who laugh a lot are healthier than those who don’t.
Laziness and inactivity kills just as many people as smoking.
Don't waste your precious energy on gossip, energy vampires, issues of the past, negative thoughts and things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
Be the change that you want to see in the world.
A job fills your pockets, but travel fills the soul.
 
I wish I had traveled to Brazil at 25 instead of dealing with these bitches here. A lot of stress would’ve never happened.

Also, cutting off people, situations and things who ain’t no good for you. My problem was hoping people and situations would change but never happened. It was a waste of time. It was a hard lesson. When you see people and situations aren’t changing move on to people and things who are about something.

I wish I was wiser with money. I wish I had stacked more paper at 25, Instead of buying luxury bullshit. As I got older and now making paper I don’t care for fancy shit. No BMW, no Gucci, gold chain, etc.

With the money I’m making now I can go into Savers, Goodwill and Salvation Army and buy Levi jeans and dry clean them.

Have you learned any Portuguese since then bruh???
 
Wish I would of bought Bitcoin early on. I remember when it was 25¢, was still hard to get, not in the US and many untrustworthy sites back then. But I remember, I was in IT and everyone was saying we should get some, (my IT friends).

Sheit, I can say the same about Microsoft, I watched his cheesy commercial on cable TV one night and was like wtf is this.
 
Wish I would of bought Bitcoin early on. I remember when it was 25¢, was still hard to get, not in the US and many untrustworthy sites back then. But I remember, I was in IT and everyone was saying we should get some, (my IT friends).

Sheit, I can say the same about Microsoft, I watched his cheesy commercial on cable TV one night and was like wtf is this.

Yea dudes were selling that shit for a quarter on EBAY but that was still a crazy mark up from

what it was at the time....
 
when i was 25, i was in my 3rd year of grad school. i already knew about the stock market, i just wasn't investing properly. so that i being said, i wish i had actually taken many courses on how to invest properly. specifically options trading. Wish i had started working out at that age instead of waiting till i was in my 30s.
 
I wish I knew to NOT go to the art institute for video production..shit was a waste of time and money.
 
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