4 Types of men for the Diva/Puma.......

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I found this on another site.

For the "pimptress in you" there are supposedly 4 types of men.

Your thoughts ladies :eek: Do we categorize men like this in reality? :eek:

I'm going to have to look for the male version to this I think.













Here goes....










The Husband
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He is the sweetest, loving, kindest man you know. His intellect makes him sexy although he is handsome. He treats you like a queen and puts you first. He takes care of the kids, you and home. This is the man you love coming home to. He spoils you with gifts and is a hard worker.


The Boo
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This one is sexy as hell! This is the dude that you've known for years, kinda your homey-lover-friend! No matter who is in your life or who is in his life, you and your BOO seem to always have a thing for each other. Your BOO has a wifey, so he has as much to lose as you do, therefore you are guaranteed that ya'll relationship is on the 'DL'. You run to your BOO when your husband “F” up! You’re BOO gives you comfort and the sex is da bomb, which explains why you can't leave him alone!​


The Maintenance Man
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This is Mr. Wine and Dine. He has the charm, the romance and a body like a stripper! He is the one you call every now an then when HUSBAND and BOO done pissed you off! He really wants to be your HUSBAND or BOO on the low but he knows his role. HUSBAND will never suspect a thing because this man is the deacon at your church and well respected in the community so no one would know of ya'll secret love affair. You sneak and go on trips and getaways. He keeps that bank account tight.



and last but not least

The Ruff Neck aka the bad boy.
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This is the man we fantasize about when HUSBAND, BOO and THE MAINTENANCE man just not doing it for you! This is Mr. Bad Boy, he got the body from hell, the tattoos, and the motorcycle. You call on him when you want your back blown out, the bottom hit, and you want to walk bow legged for a couple days. He is the man HUSBAND sees and knows he needs to get on the treadmill to lose those extra pounds he has gained since ya'll been married. THE RUFF NECK is the one that rock the suits in the day and trade the Armani in for tims and jeans at night. He is pulled out in emergencies only and you can't resist to get your freak on in the craziest places, (in the car, the back of a vacant building, etc.) because his main goal is to tear it up! THE RUFF NECK is in your cell phone as one of your homegirls....
 
bwahahahahahahaha

i shouldn't be laughin but i am


hahahahahahahaha


post like these make me laugh cuz society tries to polarize men and women as soooo different and we're really not but ppl buy into it sooo much :rolleyes:


anyway...i've seen this b4 (not the deacon part)...but i have not partook in such activities ...yet :hmm: :lol::lol::lol::lol::lol:



nah but yeah this is true for some ppl

im not down for f'n multiple ppl at once or while in a relationship with someone BUT that doesn't mean i didn't think about it.

i can MENTALLY agree with the husband and the boo. hahaha
 
Why do we feel a need to have said categories though? Is it really that we truly cannot have monogamous relationships? I posted the male version and the men who replied seemed to be honest about their categories. I find it all quite interesting.
 
i think we can be faithful to 1 person

BUT

we are socialized to NOT be content, and that there is always something / someone better

also, indulgence....everything is about indulgence and pleasure

and

we are in a culture that really celebrates infidelity, relational discourse, distrust, polarizing n categorizing men and women and selfishness

so .... wallah lol
 
I disagree.. rarely does a woman have this many men in her life at the same time. Same as men.. Sure, you may have these people in different stages of your life. For instance, when you are younger you have the boo... you get old and you want more, so you have the husband. At some point it may happen, due to reasons like JU said, and you might get a maintenance man while hubby is acting wrong or going through what he's going through.. same way with men.. IMO...
 
Interesting concept sis....I would not comprehend how one person would be able to "keep" this many men on call. It seems like a whole lotta work yes.

i think we can be faithful to 1 person

BUT

we are socialized to NOT be content, and that there is always something / someone better

also, indulgence....everything is about indulgence and pleasure

and

we are in a culture that really celebrates infidelity, relational discourse, distrust, polarizing n categorizing men and women and selfishness

so .... wallah lol
 
and last but not least THE RUFF NECK is in your cell phone as one of your homegirls....

:lol:

This was an interesting take on how women keep their men. I haven't known anyone that was able to juggle this many men at once. I do think there have probably been a few that have tried. :yes:

For me I have had all of these types of men in my life at one point or another and yes sometimes a couple of them in my life at the same time.;)

But in the end that man I finally settle down with has to have some of all of those characteristics.
 
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