20 Questions to ask your SO before tying the knot.

[onyxfemme]

See how all the women are getting mad at the thought? Tells you something.

DA DON has a point and most of the women here refuse to see it.

True love my ass, protect you interests because marriage is a fucking business.

Too many people are going into it lightly, and I was one of them my first go round.

While I would like to get married again one day, if I was a situation where my assets/company/lifestyle would be hanging in the balance, I would damn sure ask you about signing one.

If the woman I was with was rich, she'd damn sure be asking me.

Get the fuck out of here with that bullshit you're feeding yourselves.

I agree...Give me my props

 

[Iron]

See how all the women are getting mad at the thought? Tells you something.

DA DON has a point and most of the women here refuse to see it.

True love my ass, protect you interests because marriage is a fucking business.

Too many people are going into it lightly, and I was one of them my first go round.

While I would like to get married again one day, if I was a situation where my assets/company/lifestyle would be hanging in the balance, I would damn sure ask you about signing one.

If the woman I was with was rich, she'd damn sure be asking me.

Get the fuck out of here with that bullshit you're feeding yourselves.

Yeah this is the type of response i was trying to think up.

I agree...Give me my props

 

[Adam Knows]

I agree...Give me my props

Props

 

[onyxfemme]

thank...now ya'll can carry on

 

[Adam Knows]

Fuck a prenup. Unless your Bill Gates and I'm Oprah there's no reason to sign anything but the marriage license But Don I'm sure I can find a FAT chick to sign one for ya LOL

i just realized this...

this is what's funny regarding what you said about prenups, because previously you said this to femme:

I "cyber luv" you Femme but I'm sorry none of us can really answer what we will do ten years from now.
Unlike finding a job a husband/wife will inevitably change over the course of time

which is exactly one of the many reasons why a prenup is in place

PEOPLE CHANGE AND IT'S NOT ALWAYS FOR THE BETTER

even then a couple can peacefully agree to part ways, but external influences(friends, family, lawyer) can turn the nicest person into a moneyhungry spiteful, revengeful creature.

i've exerienced that first hand.

 

[PrincessC]

I agree with all of those questions...

Regarding the prenup, I would suggest one to my SO if/when I get married. Romantic or not, I think it is necessary.

 

[unbeleve]

This list is great. I'm going to have to print it and let my SO see it when she comes over tomorrow.

Thanks.

 

[LoneStar29]

Fuck that shit ... if you ask me to sign a pre-nup then you preparing for our downfall ... wtf is the point of getting married thenAnd since money is so important to you and you wanna make sure your precious money is protected then why don't I make you sign an emotional pre-nup to spare my feelings that are so important to me ... so if you are unfaithful you get a penalty ... is that fair???

 

[absolutvodka]

Fuck that shit ... if you ask me to sign a pre-nup then you preparing for our downfall ... wtf is the point of getting married thenAnd since money is so important to you and you wanna make sure your precious money is protected then why don't I make you sign an emotional pre-nup to spare my feelings that are so important to me ... so if you are unfaithful you get a penalty ... is that fair???

what's wrong with a pre-nup? it's better than the nigga dumping your body in a ditch

 

[Crown&Coke]

There is nothing wrong with these questions or the prenup. People got this idea of the fairytale of marriage and it doesnt always work out that way.​

 

[Adam Knows]

Fuck that shit ... if you ask me to sign a pre-nup then you preparing for our downfall ... wtf is the point of getting married thenAnd since money is so important to you and you wanna make sure your precious money is protected then why don't I make you sign an emotional pre-nup to spare my feelings that are so important to me ... so if you are unfaithful you get a penalty ... is that fair???

a pre-nup would be an insult to someone who has nothing to lose.
you have nothing to lose. but dont't worry i don't think you'll ever be in that predicament where you meet a man doing that good to want to marry you.

 

[LoneStar29]

a pre-nup would be an insult to someone who has nothing to lose.
you have nothing to lose. but dont't worry i don't think you'll ever be in that predicament where you meet a man doing that good to want to marry you.

You're probably right

 

[LogicBlack]

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v What are our categories of expense (rent, clothing, auto insurance, travel, light, water, gas, groceries, entertainment, miscellaneous, savings, gasoline, cable, internet, cell phones, home phone, car payment, credit cards)? How much do we spend monthly, annually, in each category? How much do we want to able to spend? <O></O>
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v How ambitious are your? Are we comfortable with the other’s level of ambition?<O></O>
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v Am I comfortable giving and receiving love, sexually? In sex, does my partner feel my love for him or her?<O></O>
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v Do we eat meals together? Which ones? Who is responsible for the food shopping? Who prepares the meals? Who cleans up afterward?<O></O>
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v If we have children, what kind of relationship do we hope our parents will have to their grandchildren? How much time will they spend together? <O></O>
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v Will we have children? If so, when? How many? How important is having children to each of us?<O></O>
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v How will having a child change the way we live now? Will we want to take time off from work, or work a reduced schedule? For how long? Will we need to rethink who is responsible for housekeeping?<O></O>
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v Are we satisfied with the quality and quantity of friend we currently have? Would we like to be more involved socially? Are we overwhelmed socially and need to cut back on such commitments?<O></O>
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v What are my partner’s needs for cultivating or maintaining friendships outside of our relationship? Is it easy for me to support those needs, or do they bother me in any way?<O></O>
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v Do we share a religion? Do we belong to a church, synagogue, mosque or temple? More than one? If not, would our relationship benefit from such an affiliation?<O></O>
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v Does each one of us have an individual spiritual practice? Is the practice and the time devoted to it acceptable to the other? Does each partner understand and respect the other’s choices?



So what do you guys think? Too indepth? Clearly these are difficult questions but I must admit I think they are all good.

Why all the questions? If it aint broke why try to fix it Femme?

You should go by this THE BIBLE


Basic Instructions Before Leaving Earth

 

[DaleMabry]

Gotta agree sounds good on paper I say get to know the person long enough before talking marriage, and the you will get the answer to 90% of those questions.

This.