12 Reasons Why Its Smart To Date A Single Mom

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Just because she has a little one in tow doesn’t mean she can’t be Mrs. Right. In fact, single moms are usually a great catch and here’s why.

1. She’s already got the credentials to be a mom, she has had to play the roles of both mommy and daddy. If you are looking for a woman who will make a grate mother… look no further she has the experience already!

2. Strong and Independent! She’s got strength and knows how to take care of herself and hold down a household.

3. She’ll probably be great for you, as she knows how to handle a kid, and fellas we can all be overgrown kids.

4. She has no time for games! A good woman takes relationships very seriously. She is not willing to introduce pretenders to her child/children.

5. Single moms are easy to please. Time away or a personal treat (such as a manicure or massage) goes a long way.

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6. She’s practical. She really doesn’t have time to be a diva or be high maintenance.

7. She’s pretty much past being a party girl. She still likes to have fun, but she is definitely more responsible.

8. She’ll provide you with an excuse to play! You get to play endless games with her tike, go to the park and do goofy things that are normally unbecoming of a man.


9. She can cook. It might only be hot dogs and macaroni and cheese, but what guy doesn’t dig that!

10. She knows how to make the best of a situation. Having a kid means last-minute changes happen all the time and she can handle it.

11. She can do it all – after all, she’s taking care of two people! She will definitely appreciate any acts of kindness or relief.

12. She understands pure love and sacrifice. No prima Dona!

http://www.farrahgray.com/12-reasons-smart-date-single-mom/

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That shit looks real good but unless you can get it on writing and notarized, well good luck with that..
But in reality nothing is cut and dry sometimes it can work out, other times it may not, this is something you really have to do on a case by case situation.
 
I'd have to deal with some crumbsnatcher that isn't minr... That trumps everything on this bullshit ass list. Tried it once, I'm good on that.
 
I'm currently dating a single mom and she's great (not because she's a single mom but because of who she is as a person) but this guy is clearly pandering to his audience...:smh::smh::smh:

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Some of the best women I dated were single moms.

At the end of the day, it's up to the man, though.

If you're cool raising and possibly being a step-dad to another man's seed, then do you.

As long as no simping is involved, I do think it is a manly thing to do.
 
This all depends on where you are in life. Personally and professionally.

Generally speaking though:

30 and under= Hell no

30 to 35= Only if you are both financially independent

Late 30s= Financially secure and agree on whether you want more kids or not

40+= Go for it.


Disclaimer: If the baby daddy is a ex con or loser in general stay the fuck away. :smh:
 
I dated a single mom, and have been with her for 25 years. That being said, this list is bullshit and don't fit the REAL world. Some women are single moms for a reason, and that reason may keep you from wifing her. This list is should've been called "Brown Nosers, Activate! Hoooo!".
 
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I'm currently dating a single mom and she's great (not because she's a single mom but because of who she is as a person) but this guy is clearly pandering to his audience...:smh::smh::smh:

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looking at that cover dude dosen't even look like he likes pussy
 
One or two points I think are valid, the rest of that shit is a disingenuous coping mechanism.
 
This all depends on where you are in life. Personally and professionally.

Generally speaking though:

30 and under= Hell no

30 to 35= Only if you are both financially independent

Late 30s= Financially secure and agree on whether you want more kids or not

40+= Go for it.


Disclaimer: If the baby daddy is a ex con or loser in general stay the fuck away. :smh:

I support this ^ :cool:
 
13. One nigga hit it, left or got left and now you get to raise the little fucker. Lucky you.
 
I'll pass and leave these chicks to the guys who have fucked up their own situation similarly so they can enjoy that common ground. I don't have kids and I can't get with a woman that does.


1. She’s already got the credentials to be a mom, she has had to play the roles of both mommy and daddy. If you are looking for a woman who will make a grate mother… look no further she has the experience already!

Only for guys looking for kids. Every dude doesn't want them.

2. Strong and Independent! She’s got strength and knows how to take care of herself and hold down a household.

She's gonna fight over who wears the pants.

3. She’ll probably be great for you, as she knows how to handle a kid, and fellas we can all be overgrown kids.

Not all of us. Some of us are mature, strong men in our own rites.

4. She has no time for games! A good woman takes relationships very seriously. She is not willing to introduce pretenders to her child/children.

She's been dogged by her poor man decisions for so long that now she wants to do right.

5. Single moms are easy to please. Time away or a personal treat (such as a manicure or massage) goes a long way.

Self-esteem is in the toilet because she knows her stock is low compared to women that don't have kids.

6. She’s practical. She really doesn’t have time to be a diva or be high maintenance.

See #5.

7. She’s pretty much past being a party girl. She still likes to have fun, but she is definitely more responsible.

Spent all of her young, sexy years ho'in and now she wants to be rescued by a simp.

8. She’ll provide you with an excuse to play! You get to play endless games with her tike, go to the park and do goofy things that are normally unbecoming of a man.

Most men handling business don't have time to play games with another man's kids.

9. She can cook. It might only be hot dogs and macaroni and cheese, but what guy doesn’t dig that!

Hell, I can cook better than that!

10. She knows how to make the best of a situation. Having a kid means last-minute changes happen all the time and she can handle it.

Sounds like a good jump off quality for a dude that already has a lady.

11. She can do it all – after all, she’s taking care of two people! She will definitely appreciate any acts of kindness or relief.

Simp allert! Bitch lookin for respite in you.

12. She understands pure love and sacrifice. No prima Dona!

And that's what she will be giving her child. She won't have enough left for the kind of man she wants in her life.
 
I'll pass and leave these chicks to the guys who have fucked up their own situation similarly so they can enjoy that common ground. I don't have kids and I can't get with a woman that does.


1. She’s already got the credentials to be a mom, she has had to play the roles of both mommy and daddy. If you are looking for a woman who will make a grate mother… look no further she has the experience already!

Only for guys looking for kids. Every dude doesn't want them.

2. Strong and Independent! She’s got strength and knows how to take care of herself and hold down a household.

She's gonna fight over who wears the pants.

3. She’ll probably be great for you, as she knows how to handle a kid, and fellas we can all be overgrown kids.

Not all of us. Some of us are mature, strong men in our own rites.

4. She has no time for games! A good woman takes relationships very seriously. She is not willing to introduce pretenders to her child/children.

She's been dogged by her poor man decisions for so long that now she wants to do right.

5. Single moms are easy to please. Time away or a personal treat (such as a manicure or massage) goes a long way.

Self-esteem is in the toilet because she knows her stock is low compared to women that don't have kids.

6. She’s practical. She really doesn’t have time to be a diva or be high maintenance.

See #5.

7. She’s pretty much past being a party girl. She still likes to have fun, but she is definitely more responsible.

Spent all of her young, sexy years ho'in and now she wants to be rescued by a simp.

8. She’ll provide you with an excuse to play! You get to play endless games with her tike, go to the park and do goofy things that are normally unbecoming of a man.

Most men handling business don't have time to play games with another man's kids.

9. She can cook. It might only be hot dogs and macaroni and cheese, but what guy doesn’t dig that!

Hell, I can cook better than that!

10. She knows how to make the best of a situation. Having a kid means last-minute changes happen all the time and she can handle it.

Sounds like a good jump off quality for a dude that already has a lady.

11. She can do it all – after all, she’s taking care of two people! She will definitely appreciate any acts of kindness or relief.

Simp allert! Bitch lookin for respite in you.

12. She understands pure love and sacrifice. No prima Dona!

And that's what she will be giving her child. She won't have enough left for the kind of man she wants in her life.

:lol:

Valid points and in my experience... Correct on a good bit of them.
 
I'll pass and leave these chicks to the guys who have fucked up their own situation similarly so they can enjoy that common ground. I don't have kids and I can't get with a woman that does.


1. She’s already got the credentials to be a mom, she has had to play the roles of both mommy and daddy. If you are looking for a woman who will make a grate mother… look no further she has the experience already!

Only for guys looking for kids. Every dude doesn't want them.

2. Strong and Independent! She’s got strength and knows how to take care of herself and hold down a household.

She's gonna fight over who wears the pants.

3. She’ll probably be great for you, as she knows how to handle a kid, and fellas we can all be overgrown kids.

Not all of us. Some of us are mature, strong men in our own rites.

4. She has no time for games! A good woman takes relationships very seriously. She is not willing to introduce pretenders to her child/children.

She's been dogged by her poor man decisions for so long that now she wants to do right.

5. Single moms are easy to please. Time away or a personal treat (such as a manicure or massage) goes a long way.

Self-esteem is in the toilet because she knows her stock is low compared to women that don't have kids.

6. She’s practical. She really doesn’t have time to be a diva or be high maintenance.

See #5.

7. She’s pretty much past being a party girl. She still likes to have fun, but she is definitely more responsible.

Spent all of her young, sexy years ho'in and now she wants to be rescued by a simp.

8. She’ll provide you with an excuse to play! You get to play endless games with her tike, go to the park and do goofy things that are normally unbecoming of a man.

Most men handling business don't have time to play games with another man's kids.

9. She can cook. It might only be hot dogs and macaroni and cheese, but what guy doesn’t dig that!

Hell, I can cook better than that!

10. She knows how to make the best of a situation. Having a kid means last-minute changes happen all the time and she can handle it.

Sounds like a good jump off quality for a dude that already has a lady.

11. She can do it all – after all, she’s taking care of two people! She will definitely appreciate any acts of kindness or relief.

Simp allert! Bitch lookin for respite in you.

12. She understands pure love and sacrifice. No prima Dona!

And that's what she will be giving her child. She won't have enough left for the kind of man she wants in her life.

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A list like this would've been nice if it were accurate. Especially because it seems like most of the young women I come across nowadays got at least one kid.

Maybe if she's a good woman this list might pan out.

But not all these young single moms are good women. Some of these chicks got LEFT and are single for a reason.

Just because she had a baby doesn't necessarily mean she won't still be on that bullshit.
 
hey as you get older it is going to be harder and harder to find a childless woman
 
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