10 myths re sex.....

[Upgrade Dave]

I mean i guess........they could be HAPPY depending on what THEY determine as HAPPY. I know older couples like this. I know a guy who's just peaches with his wife and they don't have sex. And he doesn't seek it elsewhere. It COULD happen lol

Older couples are different because they already went through the sexual phases of their relationships and they've grown old together. And that only applies to older couples who have been together a long time. New couples with two old people try to get it in too.
There are always exceptions but I wouldn't recommend somebody try only having sex with their partner once a month. Not if they wanted to still be with that partner.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

New couples old couples lol. Me and hubby were together for 20 years and only special circumstances did we not have sex at least twice a week.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

New couples old couples lol. Me and hubby were together for 20 years and only special circumstances did we not have sex at least twice a week.

Me and the old lady have been together 15 and we're pretty active and we have jobs and a child so I don't get the excuses people make.
We had a dispute about how much sex we were having so I started marking it down on the calendar every time, with any special things that need to be noted (such as was it videotaped). Since I started keeping track, haven't had that argument since.

 

[dHustla]

Y'all some old muh'fuckaz!

 

[Upgrade Dave]

Y'all some old muh'fuckaz!

For this board, I might be. It shows in some of the conversations and threads that there are a lot of very young dudes on this board.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

For this board, I might be. It shows in some of the conversations and threads that there are a lot of very young dudes on this board.

Exactly. smh

 

[dHustla]

For this board, I might be. It shows in some of the conversations and threads that there are a lot of very young dudes on this board.

I resent this

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I think Mr. Upgrade is dead on in his assesment. Young males are definitely not mentally stable around this piece.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

I resent this

You shouldn't. There are a couple of seemingly older guys with immature ways of thinking and expressing themselves on here too. But the mind of most young people isn't the place to go seeking wisdom. I think back to how smart I thought I was in my late teens/early 20s and I at my own arrogance and stupidity. That's why some guys youth stands out when I post back and forth with them. They have all the energy and emotion but no depth or experience, particularly in relationship and political threads. When I'm talking about shit that I've experienced, they're talking about shit they've heard from someone else.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

All that energy and high flying emotion, without any true wisdom or experience and most definitely no courage or brains or honor.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

All that energy and high flying emotion, without any true wisdom or experience and most definitely no courage or brains or honor.

All signs of either youth or immaturity or both. Grown ups can have heated differences of opinion without getting all...what's that word, Legacy? The one that cracks me up?

 

[dHustla]

WHAT THE FUCK IS Y'ALL SAYING?!?!

And Dave, you looking like a traitor right about now! What. The. Fuck!

*scrolls up and re-reads all. that. bullshit.*

Oh, ok. I upset y'all when I called y'all old, huh?

*drops head and *

Didn't mean to strike a nerve... Damn shame.

 

[dHustla]

All signs of either youth or immaturity or both. Grown ups can have heated differences of opinion without getting all...what's that word, Legacy? The one that cracks me up?

Dave, who was or is having a "heated difference"?

 

[Upgrade Dave]

WHAT THE FUCK IS Y'ALL SAYING?!?!

And Dave, you looking like a traitor right about now! What. The. Fuck!

*scrolls up and re-reads all. that. bullshit.*

Oh, ok. I upset y'all when I called y'all old, huh?

*drops head and *

Didn't mean to strike a nerve... Damn shame.

Traitor to who, D? I owe younger people the truth and whatever insight I can give them. I would be a traitor filling cats heads with lies and bullshit.
Man, you can't upset me calling me "old". When I answer the phone and it's my siblings, they say "What up, Old Nigga?" I used to it.
And I'm not that old.

Dave, who was or is having a "heated difference"?

Not in this thread or even this forum for the most part. But let's not pretend niggas don't have extremely thin skin on the main board. Some of those dudes love to big talk and ALL CAPS and shit since they know there aren't any physical repercussions.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

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I'm cool with being called old. Old means i've survived.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

I'm cool with being called old. Old means i've survived.

 

[dHustla]

All that energy and high flying emotion, without any true wisdom or experience and most definitely no courage or brains or honor.

All signs of either youth or immaturity or both. Grown ups can have heated differences of opinion without getting all...what's that word, Legacy? The one that cracks me up?

So these weren't directed at me?

I'm just sayin.. it sounded like y'all got to calling me a "youth", immature, or both and lacking wisdom, experience, courage, brains, & honor.

Miss me with the hit dog will holla bullshit, I just don't get how the quoted posts are relevant to this thread.

 

[dHustla]

Man, you can't upset me calling me "old". ... I used to it.

...

And I'm not that old.

Too funny

Not in this thread or even this forum for the most part. But let's not pretend niggas don't have extremely thin skin on the main board. Some of those dudes love to big talk and ALL CAPS and shit since they know there aren't any physical repercussions.

This thread ain't got nothing to do with the main board. If that's what you were talking about, why didn't you post it over there?

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

So these weren't directed at me?

I'm just sayin.. it sounded like y'all got to calling me a "youth", immature, or both and lacking wisdom, experience, courage, brains, & honor.

Miss me with the hit dog will holla bullshit, I just don't get how the quoted posts are relevant to this thread.

First...No. I don't know how old you are. And usually unless i say DHUSTLA. I'm talking in general hun.

And 2nd of all....a hit dog WILL holla. If you feel upset about something that was said....and it's not true? That's pretty...foolish to be upset about something that's not true about yourself, from people who have no idea who you are.

I don't know how the thread got off. But don't act like every thread stays on track all through it. Miss ME with that. (i have no idea what that really means) I'm so not hip.

But yeah, i have no idea how old you are. And ..... don't really care. I haven't seen or paid attention to your posts other to think that you have issues with intimacy due to your mother. That's ALL i know about you. Relax bucky.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

So these weren't directed at me?

I'm just sayin.. it sounded like y'all got to calling me a "youth", immature, or both and lacking wisdom, experience, courage, brains, & honor.

Miss me with the hit dog will holla bullshit, I just don't get how the quoted posts are relevant to this thread.

What? Why would they be?
D, what's with the thin skin? I don't do a lot of subliminals so if I was directing something at you, I would call you out. I'm good at that.
I thought we were being very, very general.

First...No. I don't know how old you are. And usually unless i say DHUSTLA. I'm talking in general hun.

And 2nd of all....a hit dog WILL holla. If you feel upset about something that was said....and it's not true? That's pretty...foolish to be upset about something that's not true about yourself, from people who have no idea who you are.

I don't know how the thread got off. But don't act like every thread stays on track all through it. Miss ME with that. (i have no idea what that really means) I'm so not hip.

But yeah, i have no idea how old you are. And ..... don't really care. I haven't seen or paid attention to your posts. Relax bucky.

I gotta co-sign all this (except I don't call people "hun". Damn, you country, LI).
Slow potna.

 

[Mo-Better]

Y'all some old muh'fuckaz!

I'm now sure I don't want to do young again.

 

[Mo-Better]

SOL is pretty much like an oasis within BGOL. Generally those who elect to post here do so with the idea of having good (not adversarial) conversations of a mature nature. Many times interacting with those of the opposite sex. Conversations are rarely if ever directed towards specific individuals. (not on a malicious level) Its a hangout! We have fun but not at the expense of others.

We discuss, joke and yeah have our differences on many subjects but for the most part this forum manages to maintain a level of maturity unseen in the other forums. I'm hoping that level can be maintained. SOL is not the forum where I expect to find age or sex discrimination nor crass, pointless and valueless comments. SOL is obviously not a forum for everyone. That's been proven by the negative comments from the mainboard.

 

[Upgrade Dave]

I'm now sure I don't want to do young again.

Nah, me neither.

SOL is pretty much like an oasis within BGOL. Generally those who elect to post here do so with the idea of having good (not adversarial) conversations of a mature nature. Many times interacting with those of the opposite sex. Conversations are rarely if ever directed towards specific individuals. (not on a malicious level) Its a hangout! We have fun but not at the expense of others.

We discuss, joke and yeah have our differences on many subjects but for the most part this forum manages to maintain a level of maturity unseen in the other forums. I'm hoping that level can be maintained. SOL is not the forum where I expect to find age or sex discrimination nor crass, pointless and valueless comments. SOL is obviously not a forum for everyone. That's been proven by the negative comments from the mainboard.

Well said, Mo.