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ElBarrio

ElBarrio

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I've known girls that date only one race. When I ask them, "why?" I've never received a definite answer other than size, or a comment about how uncool white guys are. I've NEVER heard them talk about the history, the food... the spirituality, or any of the things that make our community great.... EVER. Nor do I hear about a common struggle.

...yet, these elements of our culture are vital to our Identities, our futures, and the betterment of our people.

I can't help but feel the men these girls date are idiots, playing themselves in some sort of minstrel show act...where they pimp their blackness for the amazement of ignorant whites.... Is this winning?

Is this, achievement? Does this distract our Black brothers, and disregard our Black sisters? Does dating a white woman make you a better Black man, and better equipped to deal with the global issues of 2011?

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both are getting what they want out of the relationship. there are plenty of niggaz that know that the only reason the chick they're fucking is with them is because of the sex, but they dont care. and theres nothign wrong with that, just so long as you know the deal.

niggaz get chicks with good credit, submissive attitudes and better than average head. the hoes get someone that they dont have to fake the sex with.
 
Is this, achievement? Does this distract our Black brothers, and disregard our Black sisters? Does dating a white woman make you a better Black man, and better equipped to deal with the global issues of 2011?

Does this make you worse? Devalue your own race? Does this make you a male-trick?
 
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ElBarrio said:
Is this, achievement? Does this distract our Black brothers, and disregard our Black sisters? Does dating a white woman make you a better Black man, and better equipped to deal with the global issues of 2011?

Does this make you worse? Devalue your own race? Does this make you a male-trick?
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Cant really devalue your race when most black dudes in America are mixed beforehand.
 
ElBarrio said:
I've known girls that date only one race. When I ask them, "why?" I've never received a definite answer other than size, or a comment about how uncool white guys are. I've NEVER heard them talk about the history, the food... the spirituality, or any of the things that make our community great.... EVER. Nor do I hear about a common struggle.

...yet, these elements of our culture are vital to our Identities, our futures, and the betterment of our people.

I can't help but feel the men these girls date are idiots, playing themselves in some sort of minstrel show act...where they pimp their blackness for the amazement of ignorant whites.... Is this winning?

Is this, achievement? Does this distract our Black brothers, and disregard our Black sisters? Does dating a white woman make you a better Black man, and better equipped to deal with the global issues of 2011?

DISCUSS:
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Most of our young black men dont give a dayum about our history,if you told them who is Fredrick Douglas,Harriet Tubman,George Washington Carver,the Tuskegee Airmen,etc,etc and etc they wouldnt be able to tell you because they dont care for the most part..


How does dating a white women distract us when most of them just want to fuck and that's about it...Even if you said they want to build a relationship with a white women,does that make them any less black because Fredrick Douglas was known to have sex with a white women...

If you say any black men who wont date a black women but only date other races I will agree you that its fucking stupid because anyone that exclude their own race is a fucking idiot..

I've dated a white woman,Mexican woman, and black woman does that make me less black(ie sellout) just because I've dated a Mexican and a white woman..

And no dating a white woman doesnt make you a better black man because at the end of the day black men and black woman married/date the majority of the time and yet people want to make it a crisis everything someone dates out of the race...

:smh::smh::smh::smh::smh::smh::smh:
 
ElBarrio said:
I've known girls that date only one race. When I ask them, "why?" I've never received a definite answer other than size, or a comment about how uncool white guys are. I've NEVER heard them talk about the history, the food... the spirituality, or any of the things that make our community great.... EVER. Nor do I hear about a common struggle.

...yet, these elements of our culture are vital to our Identities, our futures, and the betterment of our people.

I can't help but feel the men these girls date are idiots, playing themselves in some sort of minstrel show act...where they pimp their blackness for the amazement of ignorant whites.... Is this winning?

Is this, achievement? Does this distract our Black brothers, and disregard our Black sisters? Does dating a white woman make you a better Black man, and better equipped to deal with the global issues of 2011?

DISCUSS:
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i'll fuck a white bitch but wont be seen with one...... ill date a hispanic / caribian / asian woman.... all incorporated into my family...... i respect & appreciate the culture & way of doing things....... american women suck...... fucked up in the head....
 
assassin216 said:
Most of our young black men dont give a dayum about our history,if you told them who is Fredrick Douglas,Harriet Tubman,George Washington Carver,the Tuskegee Airmen,etc,etc and etc they wouldnt be able to tell you because they dont care for the most part..


How does dating a white women distract us when most of them just want to fuck and that's about it...Even if you said they want to build a relationship with a white women,does that make them any less black because Fredrick Douglas was known to have sex with a white women...

If you say any black men who wont date a black women but only date other races I will agree you that its fucking stupid because anyone that exclude their own race is a fucking idiot..

I've dated a white woman,Mexican woman, and black woman does that make me less black(ie sellout) just because I've dated a Mexican and a white woman..

And no dating a white woman doesnt make you a better black man because at the end of the day black men and black woman married/date the majority of the time and yet people want to make it a crisis everything someone dates out of the race...

:smh::smh::smh::smh::smh::smh::smh:
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It distracts us bc it feeds/fuels the ignorance that we already participate in.

I wonder if a Black woman complains bc she expects more out of you, based on an understanding/perspective of what you(one) COULD BE. Whereas the non-black woman is "more submissive" bc they don't identify or see you as anything other than a sex object, and arent challenged to be angry with you.

I encourage inter-cultural dating, as long as you try to learn about the other person, and take on their concerns as you would your own.

I encourage anyone and everyone who dates across cultures, to learn about the culture. Learn to respect the history or the language, instead of feeding inequality and oppression.
 
What kind of man is willing to procreate with a woman, yet doesnt care about these issues I'm talking about....:smh::smh:

A woman who could potentially raise your children.... teach them life.
 
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ElBarrio said:
It distracts us bc it feeds/fuels the ignorance that we already participate in.

I wonder if a Black woman complains bc she expects more out of you, based on an understanding/perspective of what you(one) COULD BE. Whereas the non-black woman is "more submissive" bc they don't identify or see you as anything other than a sex object, and arent challenged to be angry with you.

I encourage inter-cultural dating, as long as you try to learn about the other person, and take on their concerns as you would your own.

I encourage anyone and everyone who dates across cultures, to learn about the culture. Learn to respect the history or the language, instead of feeding inequality and oppression.
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How does it distract us when most of our young kids dont know our own history....


Black women take the smallest percentage and make it sound like its a crisis,Black men marries/dates black women most of the time but never focus on that..How can black women say white women is taking our black men when we date and marry them most of the time...It makes no sense at all.

This my opinion on the submissive subject,the reason why the other group of women is consider more submissive than black women is because non-black women dont try to be the head of the household and throw their men under the bus in the media...

I agree with you that if someone wants to date outside of the race they should atleast know the other person's culture.
 
you think anyone dating purely on race wont give you some shallow ass answer? The history and culture lol hoez dont care about that
 
What does any of that stuff have to do with the primary reason people pick their mates? Lust drives people more then pseudo-intellectuals like to give credit to.
 
Most women prefer to date within their own race. Studies have shown that its more important to a woman to date within her race than it is to a man. I guess it's a genetic thing.
 
JD Walker said:
Most women prefer to date within their own race. Studies have shown that its more important to a woman to date within her race than it is to a man. I guess it's a genetic thing.
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Not a genetics thing, but an appearance of being promiscuous, at least when dealing with Black men. Not a lot of women want to carry that label, at least into a serious relationship with family and friends involved as such.
 
Ryokurin said:
Not a genetics thing, but an appearance of being promiscuous, at least when dealing with Black men. Not a lot of women want to carry that label, at least into a serious relationship with family and friends involved as such.
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As a man, your pride isnt hurt by that? Homegirl lusts for you, but has so little context she wouldnt even invest in you long term. I wouldnt get played like that. I'll pass on hittin it. I'm no slave. This is no plantation. I am free to know you're full of crap. I won't let you dilute my strength and sense of identity. I am NOT color blind. I see difference, and embrace it. I dont LUST what I dont know. I learn about it.
 

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