Biracial females raised by white mothers miss out on a lot of things..

[gene cisco]

Let a white muthafucka have cooked food for Lola and brought her some fried chicken, greens and macaroni and cheese and she would log on here and say how racist the CAC was.

"why would he think I only eat fried chicken, greens and macaroni and cheese?????? Racist ass CAC!!!!'

Then if the muthafucka brings potato pancakes and noodles its....

" I don't eat this CAC food!!!"

 

[bgbtylvr]

Those chicks, in my opinion, have simply never been exposed to the bullshit most inner city chicks deal with. Too many black females have hoodrat mothers, or their mothers had them so young that they both had to grow up at the same time, giving the mother no chance to educate her daughters, as she was still learning herself. It's not always back to be a little naive. To never have seen a T.P movie or can't make soul food might make her cultured and not damaged from the bullshit themes of said movies, and on the slimmer side from not eating too many greasy ass foods. There can be a balance if you look at it optimistically.

 

[MolE DeezY]

Y'all cutting up in here

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[bgque12]

Why is this bullshyt on BGOL Take this shyt over to SOL where it fukking belongs! Not knowing how to cook soul food will probably add 10 years to her life!

 

[BigDaddyBuk]

Those chicks, in my opinion, have simply never been exposed to the bullshit most inner city chicks deal with. Too many black females have hoodrat mothers, or their mothers had them so young that they both had to grow up at the same time, giving the mother no chance to educate her daughters, as she was still learning herself. It's not always back to be a little naive. To never have seen a T.P movie or can't make soul food might make her cultured and not damaged from the bullshit themes of said movies, and on the slimmer side from not eating too many greasy ass foods. There can be a balance if you look at it optimistically.

Black culture is not limited nor defined by what you just said.

cot damn whats WRONG with you people???

 

[cbm_redux]

I'll take a mixed chick with a white momma over one with a white father any day of the week and twice on Sunday.

 

[MrMoney]

them bitches don't care about you

they talk mad shit behind yo back

 

[marcvoi]

black church and essence magazine tyler perry doesnot mean solely black culture. black culture like any group comprise of many sub cultures.

I did not anything about jumping over the broom during weddings. My family is carribean.
being black in america shouldnt resort to a few things like tyler perry, baptist church, and soul food. its like telling a hood dude the only way out the hood is basketball or get a mixtape/music.

 

[Acur]

Those chicks, in my opinion, have simply never been exposed to the bullshit most inner city chicks deal with. Too many black females have hoodrat mothers, or their mothers had them so young that they both had to grow up at the same time, giving the mother no chance to educate her daughters, as she was still learning herself. It's not always back to be a little naive. To never have seen a T.P movie or can't make soul food might make her cultured and not damaged from the bullshit themes of said movies, and on the slimmer side from not eating too many greasy ass foods. There can be a balance if you look at it optimistically.

Co-sign.

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

Let a white muthafucka have cooked food for Lola and brought her some fried chicken, greens and macaroni and cheese and she would log on here and say how racist the CAC was.

"why would he think I only eat fried chicken, greens and macaroni and cheese?????? Racist ass CAC!!!!'

Then if the muthafucka brings potato pancakes and noodles its....

" I don't eat this CAC food!!!"

word.....

 

[marchetta]

So, how they look?

Exactly! You can learn to cook soul-food, you can learn black-culture, but you can't learn pretty.

 

[followup]

<<<<<< SOL

Fuck that. This bullshit belongs right here on the main board.

@ OP: There are black american women who were raised by BLACK mothers who are just like that, so what does your story really have to do with anything? All black people are not the same and do not share the same experiences.

 

[moblack]

Fried chicken can be very healthy.

but if the foods you mentioned represent the extent of your knowledge of soul food, then yeah, you don't know SHIT about the subject.

google healthy soul food bitch.

for the past 20 years Black folks have been getting better with food choices, but just as i said earlier, coonskin motherfuckers like you will ONLY concentrate on the most NEGATIVE aspects of Black culture, while EVERYBODY else is trying to copy it.

You seem fruity saying hither at the end of your sentence. Healthy and real soul food dont go in the same sentence. Wait so you saying chitlins isn't a soul food ?

 

[Chase Bannon]

Damn. I'm shocked no one called the biracial girl parent a fuck up. Hold up. She is white so she go a pass according to BGOL standards.

Lola. How come her BLACK dad didn't show her how to cook fry chicken?

 

[followup]

Sorry, Lola, but I'm calling bullshit here. On the same I know little about "African American" household and I'm a first generation "African American" born to African parents. I don't much about soul food but I'm astounded over how little blacks (not outside of America) still saying fuck Africa! You never catch Asians saying fuck Asia! or whites crying fuck Europe! but I guess I know little about life, also.

Oh fuck. You gonna train a "mixed" woman black girl bitterness? And she put you up on mixed girl confusion?

Oh, for the poster with the Obama comment: remember, ain't know civil minded father of color (in the family or gone) gonna press his son that he could become President one day. You weren't hearing that in no family of color. That's his white upbringing talking. That level of optimism is usually unheard of. (tell me different, please!)

actually, now that you mention it, Lola is one of those black people who say 'fuck Africa' based on her experiences with 2 African people from different countries. She has a thread JUST like this one trying to defend her idiotic statements. This thread is typical. Lola you need to visit somewhere outside of the U.S. and get to see how people REALLY are instead of generalizing whole groups of people based on your limited interactions with them.

 

[kinglickk]

So, how they look?

great minds think alike

 

[BigDaddyBuk]

You seem fruity saying hither at the end of your sentence. Healthy and real soul food dont go in the same sentence. Wait so you saying chitlins isn't a soul food ?

who said HITHER?

anyway, i never even heard or cracklin' til i was an adult. and if you think healthy and soul food DONT go together you been out of the loop for 20 years.

like i said, you don't know shit on the subject.

i DETEST chitterlings, but...them mafukkas is HIGH in protein, LOW in fat, have NO cholesterol, and reasonable low in calories. even after you add some fat back the shits (pun intended) are still decent nutrition wise.

still wont catch me eating them though.

http://www.nutrientfacts.com/foodpages/nutritionfacts/nutritionfacts_chitterlings.htm

 

[donwuan]

I can't call this one. You making generalizations because of the two chicks you know. I know plenty of black and white girls with the same problems. The biracial females raised by white mothers you know miss out on a lot of things. My little sister is biracial and her moms is white. You wouldn't know she was mixed unless I told you. Her and her white mother can cook they ass off. Her and her moms only date black men. So what?

 

[Lola]

Wow...

I see a lot of beauty in black culture, even in soul food--our people were ingenious that they were able to make edible meals out of scraps---they deserve respect. I used some loose examples, but what I was
trying to say overall is that being raised by white women, they miss things. The way some of you consider black culture and customs as bad is not only sad, but very telling.

 

[kwazdog]

Fuck soul food it's bad for ya health, and pluck most black chruches, who need a white Jesus..... most of your post is dumb except for the essence magazine part!


That means she aint never been to a black doctors office.

 

[Rick Spanish]

When I talk about things in black culture, like being in the black church and you put your index finger up to go to the bathroom (lol) she looked at me like this

Im looking at the computer screen like ...


Never heard no shit like that in my life. They running black churches like 1st Grade classes now?

 

[kwazdog]

Im looking at the computer screen like ...


Never heard no shit like that in my life. They running black churches like 1st Grade classes now?

I aint never heard of that shit either, but I haven't been the the "lords house" in 20+ years...

 

[cuzz]

If the woman is educated , can balance a checkbook has a career and is hitting her goals she hasn't missed anything. (Not saying our beautiful full blooded sistas can't do these things) Soul Food is nothing to miss. If you can read you can cook. I wish our people in general would forget about soul food. It has put enough of us in the ground before our time. Soul food is really peasant food. Poor whites have similar diets its just that proportionally there are fewer of them. Poor White trash Cooking turned Elvis into a Blimp and contributed to his early demise sitting on the can. Once or twice a year is more than enough. There is so much more to our culture and history than greasy salty food, obscure church etiquette or a magazine.

BRAV FUCKING O

 

[LordSinister]

So, how they look?

What he said.

 

[snark9]

tragic mulatto. Look it up.

 

[LordSinister]

them bitches don't care about you

they talk mad shit behind yo back

What he said

 

[8SD8-retired_member]

Do they at least have hips and ass?

I love my mulatto sistas and all, but if I don't start seeing 'em with some African-esque curves, I'm going to start checking for Ricans for my light-bright fix.

 

[Lola]

Im looking at the computer screen like ...


Never heard no shit like that in my life. They running black churches like 1st Grade classes now?

I sometimes forget some of you are younger, maybe you didn't experience that, but anyone over 30 who went to a black church should know what I'm talking about.

 

[donwuan]

I sometimes forget some of you are younger, maybe you didn't experience that, but anyone over 30 who went to a black church should know what I'm talking about.

I'm over thirty, went to many black churches, and I was actually tickled by the raising the finger to go pee. I respect your opinion home girl but you are posting more generalization in this thread then these clowns do. I'm just saying.

 

[Mo Pizorn]

Its GOOD that homegirl has never read Essence magazine. That bullshit black girl's cosmopolitan trash mag needs to be discontinued.
Fuck Tyler Perry movies. And I'm not really into soul food, either.
I do understand that they need more exposure to black culture, though. If you are going to help them, help them. If not, then don't complain about what they don't know if you aren't willing to contribute to their knowledge. I live in a city full of mixed chicks and some of them are so far gone there's no helping them. Some of them seek out black culture only to be met with bitter, jealous black chicks who hold resentment for them being "light-skinned" and having "good hair"; things that they have no control over.
Growing up in the South, black folk were just black folk; light, dark, whatever. If they want to understand and/or need help - HELP THEM. Let's not forget our culture of being willing to look out for our own as well.

 

[redemption]

So because they can't cook soul food they missed out? She can probably cook shit black woman can and vice versa. She missed out on the black church? ................... More black people need to miss that shit.

I suppose these women weren't taught to blame black men for the bad choices they make in life either.

Man! Thank You! Saved me from having to type that.

 

[kingterp]

One star

 

[Devilstrider]

These black dudes that married these white women did not want a black woman in the first place. So of course they are going to teach them how to make hamburger and green bean casserole and not soul food.

 

[Lola]

Fuck that. This bullshit belongs right here on the main board.

I never go to SOL, it's boring over there, so you don't have to worry about my "bullshit" posts.

 

[Lola]

I'm over thirty, went to many black churches, and I was actually tickled by the raising the finger to go pee. I respect your opinion home girl but you are posting more generalization in this thread then these clowns do. I'm just saying.

They don't get it. I did attach a "lol" to that about the one finger thing in church. It was always funny to me also.

Someone who has grown up in the black church would know about that.