The first time you laid eyes on her, she was grinding on some dude's meat. Wifey material right there, right? Or maybe she was on of the few women who go there to chill and really isn't a party bitch by nature. In my experience, women you meet at a club are better left there. Some dudes may differ, though.
Is It Possible To Meet A Good Woman At A Night Club Or Party?
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Good girls go to parties too.
how about the flipside though? in order to meet them at the club, you have to be there yourself, right? do you consider yourself a top notch gentleman?
But when you in the club you not looking at the good girls you looking at what you can take home. But what if you take a good girl home and smash the same night? Is she no longer a good girl?
yes but the odds are so bad that i basically used to treat all chicks i meet at clubs like jumpoff status until i knew better.
but hang out at grownup spots and more likely to run into some grown up women.
but hang out at grownup spots and more likely to run into some grown up women.
good question, my answer is maybe
absolutely not.
You'll meet the type that says "they hardly ever get out"....next week and the week after she's there.
You'll meet the type that are "saved" and are there to make sure that "their friend doesn't get into any trouble." The saved ones are the biggest whores.
You'll meet the "good girls" that are dressed like slutty, attention whoring cunts. They turn down dances with men. They dance like lesbian gutter trash on other women, yet beg men to buy them drinks.
You'll meet the single mothers who left their kids with an equally irresponsible single mother who is the "Hood babysitter" for all the other single mothers. Their porch is well stocked with all the niggas in the hood smoking weed, drinking alcohol, and fighting, all in front of the kids.
You'll meet the type that says "they hardly ever get out"....next week and the week after she's there.
You'll meet the type that are "saved" and are there to make sure that "their friend doesn't get into any trouble." The saved ones are the biggest whores.
You'll meet the "good girls" that are dressed like slutty, attention whoring cunts. They turn down dances with men. They dance like lesbian gutter trash on other women, yet beg men to buy them drinks.
You'll meet the single mothers who left their kids with an equally irresponsible single mother who is the "Hood babysitter" for all the other single mothers. Their porch is well stocked with all the niggas in the hood smoking weed, drinking alcohol, and fighting, all in front of the kids.
Different folks look for different things when they go out. I'm only looking to have fun when I go out. I chop it up with whoever is cool and if something pops off, then cool if not, then fine too.
If she was a good woman/person before she arrived at the night club or party than she probably would be alright.
-That bitch who has a built in gps as soon as she walks in the door for a drink...AAA
-If she sitting off to the side by herself,let her go home that way,she didn't come by herself for no goddamn reason.
-If every other song is her favorite song and she cant stop dancing...soultrain line her ass right where she at.
-That bitch who has a built in gps as soon as she walks in the door for a drink...AAA
-If she sitting off to the side by herself,let her go home that way,she didn't come by herself for no goddamn reason.
-If every other song is her favorite song and she cant stop dancing...soultrain line her ass right where she at.
yup 
Obviously.OP must be a lame to think otherwise.It all depends on what she is doing at the club.If she is there chilling with her girls,what is the problem? Her "grinding on some dude's meat" has alot more to do with the action than the environment.
always tried to stay away from club chicks.sure it got some good women out there but all that advertising just made the product less appealing. now i've met a lot of good women at parties.possible yes time consuming yes
Damn BCAA....wow. 
It's like that? Forreal? wow. What qualifies as a good woman? Do good women go out? Are they allowed too? Are they allowed to dance?
It's like that? Forreal? wow. What qualifies as a good woman? Do good women go out? Are they allowed too? Are they allowed to dance?
possible, not probable.depends on factors.
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Damn BCAA....wow.
wow. What qualifies as a good woman? Do good women go out? Are they allowed too? Are they allowed to dance?
Why would a "good woman" want to go out on surround herself with potential drama? I can see going to a friend's house for a get together, but these days, trouble is always looming. If you meet a woman at a club, chances are, you ain't the only mofo she's "met." And you won't be the last one she "meets."
Hopefully that answers your question. Then again, it's only my opinion.
Possible? Yes. But HIGHLY unlikely.
Same could be said about the opposite (decent girls looking for decent guys). The pool is so muddled. Considering the drink factor, there are a lot of drunks in tere, remembering that 'alcoholics' need to go to those damned meetings. So, any of you who have ever dated a drinker knows how that is not a good thing for a relationship.
Consider those who are out sttrictly to get laid (either side). Consider those who are out to mooch (either side). There is no requirement to get in to a club or party but that you pay whatever it is to get in and no tennis shoes. That's it. Lies fly around like footballs on Sunday. Who do you believe?
However, there is no rhyme or reason to how you can find your mate. I found mine riding down Miles Ave. on my Street Machine coming from my ex-girlfriend's house. She called me over as I was riding down the other side of the street thinking that I was the guy who hit her cousin and the 4 of them were going to jump me (until they realized that I wasn't him).
You never know. The rule is be wary of any person you meet, but in clubs and parties you are much more likely to see constant/repeat clubbers than you are to see folks who only go out every now and then and would make a good mate.
Same could be said about the opposite (decent girls looking for decent guys). The pool is so muddled. Considering the drink factor, there are a lot of drunks in tere, remembering that 'alcoholics' need to go to those damned meetings. So, any of you who have ever dated a drinker knows how that is not a good thing for a relationship.
Consider those who are out sttrictly to get laid (either side). Consider those who are out to mooch (either side). There is no requirement to get in to a club or party but that you pay whatever it is to get in and no tennis shoes. That's it. Lies fly around like footballs on Sunday. Who do you believe?
However, there is no rhyme or reason to how you can find your mate. I found mine riding down Miles Ave. on my Street Machine coming from my ex-girlfriend's house. She called me over as I was riding down the other side of the street thinking that I was the guy who hit her cousin and the 4 of them were going to jump me (until they realized that I wasn't him).
You never know. The rule is be wary of any person you meet, but in clubs and parties you are much more likely to see constant/repeat clubbers than you are to see folks who only go out every now and then and would make a good mate.
Like my dad told me..."You fucked on the first night too, so what does that say about yourself?"
Yeah most def possible but chances are if you meet them in the club you gone treat them like you treat all the hoes you meet at the club and thus wipe out the possibilty of ever finding out about the qualities that make them a "good woman".
Absolutely possible.
Not likely, but possible.
Working in clubs for a number of years I have ran through my share of hoodrats and club junkies. My gf that I am with now for 10 years had our first encounter at a club. One of the things that makes a relationship work is having a common interest, for the first 5 years we were together we clubbed heavily together and she came along whenver I was DJ'ing. Because of the lifestyle associated with the DJ business, you have to believe building a trust with her was hard work, in retrospect it was well worth it. I'm not saying it is going to be easy, but like another poster above me said, good girls go to clubs to.
Not likely, but possible.
Working in clubs for a number of years I have ran through my share of hoodrats and club junkies. My gf that I am with now for 10 years had our first encounter at a club. One of the things that makes a relationship work is having a common interest, for the first 5 years we were together we clubbed heavily together and she came along whenver I was DJ'ing. Because of the lifestyle associated with the DJ business, you have to believe building a trust with her was hard work, in retrospect it was well worth it. I'm not saying it is going to be easy, but like another poster above me said, good girls go to clubs to.
Disrespectful ass niggas.
But me personally hell no I dont think so because in my opinion a "good" woman for me wouldnt be at the club.
If you don't want a girl thats going to wanna go to the clubs then I would advise to not look for one in the club lol. 
I don't go out often. I don't see anything wrong with going out every now and again. Maybe once every other month. Every 3 months or so. I would go to see the show. I don't go to hoodrat places. I don't go to hole in the wall places. And i don't go to places where kids frequent. I go to upscale classy spots where grown people don't have to worry about getting shot at and beat up over stepping on shoes and things like that.
It's still a club. But yeah. You came out the left on that one. Nice to see different views though.
I don't see why not????
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