Re: The Raw Truth--Why BW choose Pookie over Pointdexter
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i respect this brawd, because she isnt attention whoring.
I checked this out earlier. She's basically confirming what dudes have been saying for a minute. I'm sure there are more than a few broads who are mad as hell as a result of this video.
Yeah, the sistahood must be irate by now.
I checked this out earlier. She's basically confirming what dudes have been saying for a minute. I'm sure there are more than a few broads who are mad as hell as a result of this video.
yep
once I heard that I just turned it off
not saying shit we didnt already know
I checked this out earlier. She's basically confirming what dudes have been saying on this board for a minute. I'm sure there are more than a few broads who are mad as hell as a result of this video.
C/S
Quick edit for you playa!
They're so pissed off, they're temporarily speechless. They will either come down with all of the nastiness and fury they can muster, or totally ignore it in hopes it will "go away".
she is so correct with what she is sayin. First off i am a pointdexter and i have had my share of ladies tell me i am not there typw and i must like white girls. They are spo far off and i dont date white girls at all but i am a poindexter that will bust your ass in my sweater vest and dockers . So ladies take a good listen to what this sister is saying
I bet you'd be their type if they saw you with Becky (you could just be exchanging a few harmless words), Gung Li, or Maria.
She makes alot of good points and i didn't even consider 1 point she made before. About the guy who is "poindexter" which btw i LOVE. All he needs done to him is to toughen him up just a bit and everything will be alright. No he doesn't need to be Conan. He just needs to have some testosterone in him. But besides that, the whole poindexter reminding her of her brother bit. He's boring to her. Makes sense.
I did want my husband alot of times to not sit at home and play games and come out with me and be wild with me. I did want him to be romantic and take me out dancing. Or surprise me with gifts. I did want him to spend time with me. But i was nowhere near dumb enough to see him as not a good man. Or some kind of punk. He made it up to me once i learned eventually to snap my fingers in his face and be like, "hey...HEY...i'm over here. Do somethin with me."
I did over time have to learn men's minds, especially his, would focus on things a little TOO much sometimes and he needed to be brought back into our direction sometimes.
I did want my husband alot of times to not sit at home and play games and come out with me and be wild with me. I did want him to be romantic and take me out dancing. Or surprise me with gifts. I did want him to spend time with me. But i was nowhere near dumb enough to see him as not a good man. Or some kind of punk. He made it up to me once i learned eventually to snap my fingers in his face and be like, "hey...HEY...i'm over here. Do somethin with me."
I did over time have to learn men's minds, especially his, would focus on things a little TOO much sometimes and he needed to be brought back into our direction sometimes.
Why don't you go after the poindexter girls?
I bet you'd be their type if they saw you with Becky (you could just be exchanging a few harmless words), Gung Li, or Maria.
Nah they still won't want HIM. They just don't want Becky n them to have him.
Because
a. They are like unicorns.
b. They are too busy trying to emulate chickenheads and fulfill a need to "fit in"
True, but the "sistahood" will still, on Oprah or some other TV special, point to him as one of the reasons why they can't find a man ("they in jail, down low or with white women").
With me, I don't see what's the problem with just being BALANCED. What's wrong with balance? Something just popped into my head. Lets YOU AND I Discuss KickAss. All the boy had to do was spend some time in the gym. Play a sport that involved running, being in shape. I like Black Panther/Batman type characters because they're a healthy mix of everything. Balance.
What is wrong with Balance? All i'm asking really. You don't have to be a thug. But you don't have to sit there and let Bertha beat you up either. (Thinking of that Big Girl from Next Friday who was after Mike Epps). You don't have to be Peter Parker circa 1960's either. You don't have to be Bill Cosby, have a little what's his face from My Wife and Kids. Have a balance.
What makes you think fools don't? If broad looks good enough, dudes ain't givin' a fuck about her GPA. You're also comparing apples (mate selection criteria for females) and oranges (mate selection criteria for males). Last I checked, dudes ain't spouting off about how miserable they are due to being single, every time a TV camera is present.
I consider myself a girl nerd on the inside. A wannabe. Not unicorns. I think you just maybe are not looking in the right place. Or THEY are as, you're married. And with the trying to emulate chickenheads. This is ...... an interesting view. The ladies that i know don't want to be like that. My wife is a girl nerd. Big time. In high school she had the hair in the bun, big oversized Tshirts, sweatshirts, baggie pants. Thick glasses, braces. Always in the library. When she hit college she did turn chickenheadish....Hmmm. But that's the ONLY one i know of lol
I made a comment about this in another thread. So poindexter thinks Beyonce should want him. Even though he doesn't want Female Poindexter? And these are 2 different things? So you're saying, it's ok for a guy to be superficial and base what he wants in a woman by looks. But not a female?
And what happened to Batman? He got "broken" by a convict.......Bane.
Who replaced Batman? Azrael, an "anti-hero" he had no qualms about killing.
Huntress then said "Bats would certainly catch my eye more if he had that "flair" as the new mantle...."
I'm married.......so I'm not looking. But the fact remains as that the so called "female nerd" is like a myth. Many of you claim to be out there but you aren't out there.
But then you said...."My wife is a girl nerd."
Your...........wife?
But anyway, that goes to show that even YOU can relate to what I'm saying....they emulate the college whores and chickenheads to fulfill a need to "belong."
Alot of dudes are gonna miss this, the key for both types of characters is that they do it for themselves. Being the best man they desire to be and not letting women get in the way.
Alot of dudes like this are chased by women who want to trap them, b/c the woman cannot relate to him outside of what she wants from him and not WITH him.He sees her for what she is simply incompatible or someone with an ulterior motive. Some dudes smash and dash on those types of women. Those women are the same ones with no personal accountability who complain about the "lack of good men."
Women with a whole sense of what men are as humans (not simply as paychecks, dildos,or machines as Esther Vilar pointed out) recognize these men in a crowd of fools.
Not entirely, women can be more competitive than men if the men are not thirsty and the conditions are right. In these situations women are content with having pseudo-polygamous relations with men. In a study that came out about the "hook up culture" they found that the actual number of men who got ass every month was BELOW 5%-10% and that a very small number men were sleeping with a larger number of women. Its competitive, many women in these situations are chasing social status, who they think is gonna be a baller, or simply what gets their pussy wet and thats cool, as long as they hold themselves accountable and dont blame all men when they are used up. Another trend is these same girls going over the the ENGR or IT arena looking for a "relationship" AFTER they get done double dick clutchin....
Very true. There are simply alot of sistas who simply don't believe in brothas. Any cat trying to get his stuff together has to have something else wrong with him.
I have personally lost a few potential relationships with sistas because of this. Often when I am trying to work on a project for a client and I have to meet a deadline, I will stay in on the weekends. On more than one occassion I have been accused of trying to run game, or trying to play somebody. Thier thinking, If i cant kick it with them, I must be with the next bitch...
I have personally lost a few potential relationships with sistas because of this. Often when I am trying to work on a project for a client and I have to meet a deadline, I will stay in on the weekends. On more than one occassion I have been accused of trying to run game, or trying to play somebody. Thier thinking, If i cant kick it with them, I must be with the next bitch...
^^^ dammin man !!! on point - power!
For men and women, a man who is a nerd is seen as worse off than a woman who is a nerd. The woman can still get some whenever she wants from a sizeable population of thirsty dudes, or dudes who are just horny,even if she shares some lack of social skills. For men, if he has no social skills and is not seen attractive by some other women, many women will look over him unless they have an agenda for him, using pussy as the tool.
Now in my case, I was the male nerd with alot of freinds. I worked in the library so I knew damn near everyone. There are some truly psycho women out here who do their best to blend in to their environment to escape detection. But like any hustler/con person, they cannot take someone anywhere they dont already want to go, they just offer to do it for no charge, much faster and with no hassle.....which is how they lure people in to be controlled.
Now in my case, I was the male nerd with alot of freinds. I worked in the library so I knew damn near everyone. There are some truly psycho women out here who do their best to blend in to their environment to escape detection. But like any hustler/con person, they cannot take someone anywhere they dont already want to go, they just offer to do it for no charge, much faster and with no hassle.....which is how they lure people in to be controlled.
I bet you'd be their type if they saw you with Becky (you could just be exchanging a few harmless words), Gung Li, or Maria.
Nope, because you are tainted then. But they still will give you a earful on how it's a slap in the Black woman's face and your heritage, and how this proves how weak you are as a man. Been there a lot, some of them innocently (we walked in a store together and the BW immediately let me have it) It really used to bother me and made me self conscious. Not anymore. I can't do anything right in their eyes so I'm going to go with someone who's willing to work with me. I'm not perfect, no one is but I don't need someone constantly giving me hell over it and moving the goal post when I finally get it right.
If the men they are competing for are going after shit women, why would they want to be with a dude that wants a shit woman?
Why would they want to be like that?
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