Turn-Offs
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bad teeth
bad skin
bad breath
lame conversation or conversation where all he talks about is what he has or how many girls are after him...anything of a consistent and constant bragging nature
men who aren't aware of their size, shape and what clothes and hairstyles work for them
cornrows on men over 30
men over 30 who always wear baseball caps
men who own over 5 velour sweatsuits
men who are overly serious and don't laugh
gold teeth or gold caps
men who think fine dining is red lobster
men who constantly use trend phrases or talk like they are rapping or worse don't even understand the words they are using.
I.E. Once my best friend and I were sitting at the bar at Justin's and these big dudes from up top came in. One sat next to her and one sat next to me. The one that sat next to her goes, "Ma, I like your swagger". She goes, "You like my walk? I'm sitting down!"
Homeboy was so confused.
i guess that all goes into the unrefined men category
bad skin
bad breath
lame conversation or conversation where all he talks about is what he has or how many girls are after him...anything of a consistent and constant bragging nature
men who aren't aware of their size, shape and what clothes and hairstyles work for them
cornrows on men over 30
men over 30 who always wear baseball caps
men who own over 5 velour sweatsuits
men who are overly serious and don't laugh
gold teeth or gold caps
men who think fine dining is red lobster
men who constantly use trend phrases or talk like they are rapping or worse don't even understand the words they are using.
I.E. Once my best friend and I were sitting at the bar at Justin's and these big dudes from up top came in. One sat next to her and one sat next to me. The one that sat next to her goes, "Ma, I like your swagger". She goes, "You like my walk? I'm sitting down!"
Homeboy was so confused.
i guess that all goes into the unrefined men category
men who think fine dining is red lobster?
who knew
who knew
men who think fine dining is red lobster?
who knew
Haha unfortunately I have ran into a few of them myself
ok Femm ,so I see you're into classy ,sophisticated Cats - dudes that are on their Grown-Man
my turn-offs in Women : no conversation - I get tired of doing all the talking
no sense of humor -
un -be -weaveables - no problem with a weave
but lets keep it reasonable
smokers -
dirty - dirty crib
bad -ass kids -
my turn-offs in Women : no conversation - I get tired of doing all the talking
no sense of humor -
un -be -weaveables - no problem with a weave
but lets keep it reasonable
smokers -
dirty - dirty crib
bad -ass kids -
men who think fine dining is red lobster?
who knew
LOL. It's casual dining hon. And there is nothing wrong with that. Hell I eat at Red Lobster.
But I know the difference and appreciate a man who knows too.
all types of poor hygiene
bragging/ego
elusive and inconsistent behavior
thinking they know everything just because they are a man when in fact they know nothing or very little
any type of game playing whatsoever
immaturity
whining and begging for pussy or trying to demand it
talking about themself all the time
bragging/ego
elusive and inconsistent behavior
thinking they know everything just because they are a man when in fact they know nothing or very little
any type of game playing whatsoever
immaturity
whining and begging for pussy or trying to demand it
talking about themself all the time
ok Femm ,so I see you're into classy ,sophisticated Cats - dudes that are on their Grown-Man
my turn-offs in Women : no conversation - I get tired of doing all the talking
no sense of humor -
un -be -weaveables - no problem with a weave
but lets keep it reasonable
smokers -
dirty - dirty crib
bad -ass kids -
Damn I forgot!
Smokers and weed smokers too
Men who have kids but don't have pics of them or act like not living with them is a plus.
Cheap men...NOT FRUGAL. Frugal is ok, but cheap! UGH.
Men who's fridge show that they eat like a child. (I'm only saying this because my current tenant doesn't buy any food of nutritional value).
damn u be up all in his fridge? 
...u know if we're gonna be technical...ol boy that commented on your girlfriend could still compliment her swagger without seeing her walk. He could just be complimenting her confidence.. 
turnoffs in women
whiners
women not over their anger over their last boyfriend..hell angry at the whole world for no reason
women who are overweight
weaves
beggy
bouigous (boojie)
kids (def. turnoff)
whiners
women not over their anger over their last boyfriend..hell angry at the whole world for no reason
women who are overweight
weaves
beggy
bouigous (boojie)
kids (def. turnoff)
-A woman who knows to much
-A woman who has a foul mouth
-A woman who likes to control everything
-A woman with no standards,everyone has a limit,so stop
-A woman who cant enjoy herself
-A woman who cant dress
-A woman who isn't clean,house body and even the car
-A woman who does everything times ten,dont over do it.
-A violent woman,dont ever put your hands on me unless its cpr.
-A woman who is a drama queen
-A woman who hangs out in bars til they all close
-A cheap woman
-A woman who only reads magazines
-A woman who is to scared to get her hands dirty
-A woman who is a showoff,yes your have the goods but no need to show the neighborhood.
-A woman who cant cook or who just doesn't
-A woman who is scared of change
-A woman who has a foul mouth
-A woman who likes to control everything
-A woman with no standards,everyone has a limit,so stop
-A woman who cant enjoy herself
-A woman who cant dress
-A woman who isn't clean,house body and even the car
-A woman who does everything times ten,dont over do it.
-A violent woman,dont ever put your hands on me unless its cpr.
-A woman who is a drama queen
-A woman who hangs out in bars til they all close
-A cheap woman
-A woman who only reads magazines
-A woman who is to scared to get her hands dirty
-A woman who is a showoff,yes your have the goods but no need to show the neighborhood.
-A woman who cant cook or who just doesn't
-A woman who is scared of change
Alright I gotta question, I dont smoke cigarettes, or weed, or cheap cigars, but I will light up a good cigar every blue moon, and I do smoke flavored tobacco out of my hookah a few times a week. Would I be considered a smoker???
But yeah, I dont expect your house to be immaculate, but I don’t expect to see trashcans overflowing, plates and cup everywhere and shit.
Sob stories about how men have done you wrong and all that. All that tells me is you keep dealin with the same type of guys and they keep doing what anyone else would expect them to do.
Signs of promiscuity, I don’t expect to be invited over your house during bootycall hours within the first few months, I don’t know you like that so Im really not tryin to fuck you yet.
Cheap females, boy I hate them chicks with a passion. The way I look at it. Ill pay for dinner, but I better atleast see you reach for your purse at some point during the date. Not saying Id let you pay, but if your expectation is for me to pay for EVERYTHING on the interview, then more than likely your like that all the time, so you gotta go.
Typical interview questions, what kind of girls do you go for??? Thats a broad ass question, I don’t know one person who only like one type and excludes all others, how are you in relationships??? Man I don’t fuckin know, you get to know me and I guess that’s how I am, shit like that I hate, just focus on havin a good time whatever questions you have will eventually be answered if you last long enough .
Hood chicks Im not hood, so my better half wont be either.
Lastly BROKE chicks, why you always fuckin broke, I like to do new shit and if your always broke you wont be the one to go with me. Im not payin for everything, all the fuckin time. I wanna go to a Bobcats game, no Im not payin for you, shits gets mad expensive. Basically Id just invite a home girl who knows were just friends and to pay her own way because we just cool, than a gf that’s always broke, and you know how that’s gonna end.
Theres a difference between broke and cheap too.
But yeah, I dont expect your house to be immaculate, but I don’t expect to see trashcans overflowing, plates and cup everywhere and shit.
Sob stories about how men have done you wrong and all that. All that tells me is you keep dealin with the same type of guys and they keep doing what anyone else would expect them to do.
Signs of promiscuity, I don’t expect to be invited over your house during bootycall hours within the first few months, I don’t know you like that so Im really not tryin to fuck you yet.
Cheap females, boy I hate them chicks with a passion. The way I look at it. Ill pay for dinner, but I better atleast see you reach for your purse at some point during the date. Not saying Id let you pay, but if your expectation is for me to pay for EVERYTHING on the interview, then more than likely your like that all the time, so you gotta go.
Typical interview questions, what kind of girls do you go for??? Thats a broad ass question, I don’t know one person who only like one type and excludes all others, how are you in relationships??? Man I don’t fuckin know, you get to know me and I guess that’s how I am, shit like that I hate, just focus on havin a good time whatever questions you have will eventually be answered if you last long enough .
Hood chicks Im not hood, so my better half wont be either.
Lastly BROKE chicks, why you always fuckin broke, I like to do new shit and if your always broke you wont be the one to go with me. Im not payin for everything, all the fuckin time. I wanna go to a Bobcats game, no Im not payin for you, shits gets mad expensive. Basically Id just invite a home girl who knows were just friends and to pay her own way because we just cool, than a gf that’s always broke, and you know how that’s gonna end.
Theres a difference between broke and cheap too.
men who think fine dining is red lobster?
who knew
damn u be up all in his fridge?
Mine is pretty short I hope!
Careless about his health, doesn't read, has no spiritual practice, complains/ is negative about EVERYTHING, hates animals, loves flashy material shit- too much jewelry, too much stuff and loves to brag about it, no imagination.
I almost added sucks and is prudish in bed, but if he's on any of the above he won't make it that far
I think most other things can be improved on - bad smile (I love teeth) can be fixed, a messy crib can be cleaned and habits like cig smoking ( a little weed doesn't bother me) changed but the above to me means that foundationally me and that man will likely always be out of synch. Why waste my time or his.
...u know if we're gonna be technical...ol boy that commented on your girlfriend could still compliment her swagger without seeing her walk. He could just be complimenting her confidence..
yep, or style, over all look/total package. Blame rap ... lol
ok i'm confused.
do you have a "roommate"
or are you renting an actual apt/house/unit equipped with appliances that you go through?
ok i'm confused.
do you have a "roommate"
or are you renting an actual apt/house/unit equipped with appliances that you go through?
I rent a room in my house. I say tenant because the first thing people assume is that this is a "personal relationship" and IT IS SO NOT.
Fuck all the rest, what I'm curious about is what is it that this guy eats?
Hot pockets?
-any female that tries to tell me what to eat
-any female that tries to tell me what to wear (vests, turtlenecks, blazers etc.
)
-no table manners
-judgmental females (or people for that matter)
-lazy females
-no sense of humor is definitely unappealing
-loud people
-killjoys
-weaves
-unkempt feet or hair or hands
-any female that tries to tell me what to wear (vests, turtlenecks, blazers etc.
)-no table manners
-judgmental females (or people for that matter)
-lazy females
-no sense of humor is definitely unappealing
-loud people
-killjoys
-weaves
-unkempt feet or hair or hands
-any female that tries to tell me what to wear (vests, turtlenecks, blazers etc.
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Um you definitely don't seem like the Carleton Banks look is for you, Swat.
I must ask, because you've mentioned table manners before pray tell what kind
of dining atrocities have you witnessed. Did she say scrimps instead of shrimp?
Did she double dip her chip? Perhaps she used her toothpick at the table? Did she put her hand in your plate, playa what?
Just curious
I like or can tolerate most women I actually take the time to talk to.
My biggest issue with them is when they change suddenly and become some overpowering, nasty wench. That covers anything from telling me how to act or think to how I should dress, what I should or should not be doing with my money or possessions.
I actually had to kick a woman out of my fucking house because she refused to believe I didn't want to fuck with her any more. What part of the game is that?
My biggest issue with them is when they change suddenly and become some overpowering, nasty wench. That covers anything from telling me how to act or think to how I should dress, what I should or should not be doing with my money or possessions.
I actually had to kick a woman out of my fucking house because she refused to believe I didn't want to fuck with her any more. What part of the game is that?
It' called the "that bitch is crazy" maneuver 523.5. I suggest you make note
You sound like a cool. dude
Down to earth and flexible and if that somehow inspires any of the above, she lost her damn mind long before you came along likely.
Um you definitely don't seem like the Carleton Banks look is for you, Swat.
I must ask, because you've mentioned table manners before pray tell what kind
of dining atrocities have you witnessed. Did she say scrimps instead of shrimp?Did she double dip her chip? Perhaps she used her toothpick at the table? Did she put her hand in your plate, playa what?
Just curious
Izayoi, I took this female to a seafood restaurant. She ordered crab legs. At some point, she decided that the crab crackers provided by the restaurant didn't work well enough, so she started cracking the crab legs with her teeth (loudly). I sat in horror as she destroyed the plate of crab legs. It looked like she had greased up with Vaseline by the time we left
. If we were at Joe's Crab Shack I might have looked past this (probably not ), but this restaurant (Atlanta Fish Market) was not the place for cracking crabs with your damn teeth. There was one other female that ate like a squirrel. I couldn't even watch her eat hamburgers, she would hold her food like a squirrel eating a nut and just rotate the food while she nibbled around the edges until she finally got to the center.
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It' called the "that bitch is crazy" maneuver 523.5. I suggest you make note
You sound like a cool. dude
Note taken, My lady...
Thanks for the compliment. I try to be a decent person with all I encounter. Got this thing about putting out a negative vibe to people. Used to be people always thought I was a mean guy because I don't smile or look too serious all the time. It always took extra effort for people to see I was trying to have fun just like them. I guess when it took, some of them just didn't want to let go.
I was going to put some little flirt about how you could come over and let me dicktate to you, but I figured it was a bit too much.
Fuck all the rest, what I'm curious about is what is it that this guy eats?
Hot pockets?
Well lots of cereal for one. He buys a bunch of candy bars and sweet treats on the daily. He rarely cooks. I cook all the time and told him he's welcome to have whatever I cook but he rarely does. Once he did, I made curried tilapia and wheat pasta. He said it was really good. I said so you like the curry? He goes, no I don't like curry.
Then a few days later he tried to duplicate my dish. But used that child's Mac & Cheese mix.
I've yet to see him eat a veggie.Mind you his teeth is falling out.
He's a very nice guy. Just very southren.
Well lots of cereal for one. He buys a bunch of candy bars and sweet treats on the daily. He rarely cooks. I cook all the time and told him he's welcome to have whatever I cook but he rarely does. Once he did, I made curried tilapia and wheat pasta. He said it was really good. I said so you like the curry? He goes, no I don't like curry.
Then a few days later he tried to duplicate my dish. But used that child's Mac & Cheese mix.
Mind you his teeth is falling out.
He's a very nice guy. Just very southren.
I told you it's your responsibility to help him learn something. Each one teach one, you know.
I told you it's your responsibility to help him learn something. Each one teach one, you know.
I've tried. Some people don't want to be helped.
But I will give him props for making an attempt.
You know another turn off is men who spit when they talk.
You know another turn off is men who spit when they talk.
I can imagine. Dude doesn't have teeth so I figure he's spraying everywhere. Just keep you distance when you engage him in what limited conversation you can.
I have done it one or twice when drunk, can't lie.
SIDE NOTE: You know I can NOT get this girl off that damn WII? She's been going strong since noon and only stopped to beg me for some spaghetti.
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