Raising young boys to men, and being single moms !

[cameo]

First of all, to me you ain't no man to lay up and fuck a woman, gain her trust, make a baby, and then duck out like the baby and her don't exsist. No excuses black men, NO FUCKIN EXCUSE. I fuck, all the time, BUT I DON'T MAKE BABIES IRRESPONSIBLY, that's suppose to be special. Women, do your homework before you let a man cum in ya pussy, TO THE POINT , NOW MY ENCOUNTER TONIGHT AT MY MOMS HOUSE !

My sister has a friend, cute, she has a son, he's almost 5. Why this lil guy cry every 5 minutes, why he still got a sippy cup, why she still hold him like a newborn ! He don't say thank you, he don't say please. Remember, I'm from the OLD SCHOOL, I'm 35, born in 1972, my grandmother RAISED US ! If you could walk, no more bottles, no more holding, when you cried, she investigated quickly " BOY ! HUSH THAT DAMN NOISE ! " You learned to be independent. I talked to her for a minute, all thru the convo "ma, ma, ma, ma" , jumpin at her to pick him up, cryin cause his piece of pizza fell on the floor. She told me that he sleeps with her, she rocks him to sleep. I told her, you need to find time for yourself too, being a mom is not just scarificing your life for the child. Is this normal ? Man, my lil nephews would destroy this lil guy. Both my nephew box, play football, and they just turned 7. But they was always tough lil warriors, fightin since 2 years old. My sis is single and she got hard nose sons, and no they not around uncle Cameo all the time so ..........

Input please !

 

[femmenoire]

She is coddling the boy. She will learn when he grows up and never leaves the house!

 

[Joe Money]

He's just being spoiled. Your little cousins will be in juvenile detention in a few years and in jail at 18.

 

[cameo]

He's just being spoiled. Your little cousins will be in juvenile detention in a few years and in jail at 18.

I beg your pardon, both are honor roll, their mother never has to go up to the school for a behavior problem. Both serve on the usher board, and they are very well mannered "yes uncle", "thank you uncle", WHAT I MEANT STUPID, they're level of confidence, and they're level of agressive nature, basically they'd look at lil man like "you a pussy", that's what I meant. They respect they're momma to the fullest. When me and sis was young children, we had a broken family, but we are tight now, loving. All the children associated with our family are achievers, WE WHIP ASS WITH THE BELT EARLY in our fam. We put in work with our people, AIN'T NO FUTURE JAIL BIRDS in my fam, IF I GOTTA MOVE EM' IN WITH UNCLE CAMEO, AND THROW AWAY THE PORN, I'll get em right if needed !

 

[cameo]

She is coddling the boy. She will learn when he grows up and never leaves the house!

The boy need a belt ! 30 days with me, he'll be a new person. I'm not saying beat him, BUT DISCIPLINE HIM, when he need a whippin, whip. He ignores her when she calls his name ! I almost caught a case

 

[femmenoire]

The boy need a belt ! 30 days with me, he'll be a new person. I'm not saying beat him, BUT DISCIPLINE HIM, when he need a whippin, whip. He ignores her when she calls his name ! I almost caught a case

Beatings are fine by me. Believe that.

Just can't do it in public these days.

 

[freakd]

you have babies raising babies.

 

[Baldhead_Digital]

I beg your pardon, both are honor roll, their mother never has to go up to the school for a behavior problem. Both serve on the usher board, and they are very well mannered "yes uncle", "thank you uncle", WHAT I MEANT STUPID, they're level of confidence, and they're level of agressive nature, basically they'd look at lil man like "you a pussy", that's what I meant. They respect they're momma to the fullest. When me and sis was young children, we had a broken family, but we are tight now, loving. All the children associated with our family are achievers, WE WHIP ASS WITH THE BELT EARLY in our fam. We put in work with our people, AIN'T NO FUTURE JAIL BIRDS in my fam, IF I GOTTA MOVE EM' IN WITH UNCLE CAMEO, AND THROW AWAY THE PORN, I'll get em right if needed !

So they are well mannered, kids, good in school...and respectful...I don't understand what your issues is?

 

[Jam_Jam]

When girls are little, they play with baby dolls. Then they become mothers in real life and are not looking at the big picture. She doesn't understand that she is creating a mama's boy who will grow up with his balls in his mamas pocket book. A child's personality is formed between birth and 5 years old. If you treat your child like an infant for the first five years of his/her life you are setting the child up for long-term dependency. You have to set guidelines, including disclipline. Let the child exert his/her independence....it is normal for them to do this. When they turn about 2 or 3 they should be wanting to do things by themselves. They want to put on their own socks and pajamas. They should be picking up their own toys off of the floor. If they start to throw a tantrum then just slap them on the hand. You don't have to slap them hard. Their feelings will be hurt more than anything. Just keep the disclipline coming and they will be just fine.

 

[Peanutbutta]

The boy need a belt ! 30 days with me, he'll be a new person. I'm not saying beat him, BUT DISCIPLINE HIM, when he need a whippin, whip. He ignores her when she calls his name ! I almost caught a case

Being A Father myself
I agree with you I hate to see little boys walking around like little sissy's Real men need to create a camp for these little sissy boys. drop off a lill punk come back in 2 months and get a lil man back ready to help out ma and be a man-child

My daughter would have looked at dude and been WTF

 

[(0_0)..l.. finger]

you have babies raising babies.

CO MOTHERFUKIN SIGN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[HoneyBerry]

If she's a single mom she's probably doing what a lot of young mothers do. Trying to overcompensate for there not being an active father in the boy's life.

 

[legendof84]

I was raised by three women primarily. it has more to do with how she was brought up more than anything. My mom didnt tolerate certain things off me. i loved candy as a kid but my mom wasn't about to load me up on sugar. one day i kept beggin her for M & M's. she got so tired of it she took them, opened them up and poured them all in the garbage can. right now my girl has 2 kids (3 and 1) and bet i'm not the same way about them. a few weeks back the eldest one was feigning like she couldn't tie her shoes even though we watch her do it all the time. her moms and i were like no so she through a tantrum. all we did was take her in her room and close the door. she came out with her shoes tied. its a matter of how much you love your kids. i give my girl's kids the world but they know when i've had enough and they know i don't tolerate tantrums. they wanna fall out...ok...let the ground beat u up. but its a matter of how the person was raised as well.

 

[APOPHIS]

Man, it's a vicious cycle of repetitive failure on the part of Black men and women. We have positioned ourselves to be failures by not accepting our mistakes and responsibilities.

I for one, never had a dad and the cycle will most definitely end w/ me.
I will father my sons as they will father theirs and so on and so on.

 

[Southpaw]

Part of the problem is African Americans and Afro-Caribbeans come from a matrifocal society.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

But will your nephews take in an abused EX-woman and cry all night with her? Or would they go and beat the dude up? Which one of these is the man act and which one is the punk act? I hope it ain't genetic.

Was raised by a STRONG Black woman and have 3+ sisters, no bitch in me. It's not about being a single mom, it's about being a single GIRL and not a single WOMAN.

 

[cameo]

Man, it's a vicious cycle of repetitive failure on the part of Black men and women. We have positioned ourselves to be failures by not accepting our mistakes and responsibilities.

I for one, never had a dad and the cycle will most definitely end w/ me.
I will father my sons as they will father theirs and so on and so on.

MAN, THAT'S REAL SHIT, I WROTE THAT DOWN !

 

[cameo]

But will your nephews take in an abused EX-woman and cry all night with her? Or would they go and beat the dude up? Which one of these is the man act and which one is the punk act? I hope it ain't genetic.

Was raised by a STRONG Black woman and have 3+ sisters, no bitch in me. It's not about being a single mom, it's about being a single GIRL and not a single WOMAN.

there you go again, PM me, I'ma send you the 30 day kit " I wanna be like CAMEO ! " , tell ya sisters I said what's up !

 

[LeroyDibiase]

there you go again, PM me, I'ma send you the 30 day kit " I wanna be like CAMEO ! " , tell ya sisters I said what's up !

Nah, I don't wanna be like you. I wouldn't let that shit stand. Tell my sister's you said hi? So you like underage females?? Figured you would. That way if they come over at 3am crying because they got beat, you would be able to reach deep down in your nuts and muster up some courage to go defend her from a little boy instead of snottin all over each other all night.

 

[cameo]

Nah, I don't wanna be like you. I wouldn't let that shit stand. Tell my sister's you said hi? So you like underage females?? Figured you would. That way if they come over at 3am crying because they got beat, you would be able to reach deep down in your nuts and muster up some courage to go defend her from a little boy instead of snottin all over each other all night.

My point has been clearly made. The fact that you even wrote back tells me all I need to know about you. I thought about it last night, two reasons why you'd even come at me like that,

1. your father either left your mother, or he passed away, either way it was sad and life changing to you as a young child. Your mother dated a variety of men, never gave you any real attention. You use to witness your mother being beaten by boyfriends, men that you called "uncle", and no one ever came to her rescue. You use to cry as a little boy, and felt so helpless because your mother would cry out for help, and you couldn't save her. You use to sleep with your mother as a child because you felt sorry for her, and you felt like she needed you. You were the "comfort" for her !

2. As a grown man, you are searching for validations of your manhood, hiding behind your failures, subliminially wishing for a better childhood. Had you had a better childhood your life would be different right ? Had you had a loving father figure, you'd have a blueprint of manhood to look up to right ? No man in ya life to talk to about a variety of issues. You'd never blame your bad childhood on your mother, because momma had it rough, and you feel that she raised you "as strong" as she was capable of doing.

You never had a defined role as a child, therefore you lash out at people that trigger any memory of your fucked up childhood. I feel you man, life ain't easy when you been cheated.


......I minored in Psychology

 

[RashaansGirl]

...why he still got a sippy cup...

Oh hell nall. My kid is 2 and drinks from a glass tumbler!! She was off pacifiers at 13 months. Wow, ole girl you described is in for it. She gonna be like my 85 year old grandmother with my 2 uncles (ages 45 & 60) who have NEVER MOVED out of the house. Pitiful.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

My point has been clearly made. The fact that you even wrote back tells me all I need to know about you. I thought about it last night, two reasons why you'd even come at me like that,

You thought about me nigga? Really? At night too? Damn.

1. your father either left your mother, or he passed away, either way it was sad and life changing to you as a young child. Your mother dated a variety of men, never gave you any real attention. You use to witness your mother being beaten by boyfriends, men that you called "uncle", and no one ever came to her rescue. You use to cry as a little boy, and felt so helpless because your mother would cry out for help, and you couldn't save her. You use to sleep with your mother as a child because you felt sorry for her, and you felt like she needed you. You were the "comfort" for her !

Actually, I became a MAN at an early age. Mom's been remarried for 16 years son. I'm not even gonna address all that other bullshit.

2. As a grown man, you are searching for validations of your manhood, hiding behind your failures, subliminially wishing for a better childhood. Had you had a better childhood your life would be different right ? Had you had a loving father figure, you'd have a blueprint of manhood to look up to right ? No man in ya life to talk to about a variety of issues. You'd never blame your bad childhood on your mother, because momma had it rough, and you feel that she raised you "as strong" as she was capable of doing.

This shit is hilarious son. Never lacking in father figures, 3 uncles, grandfather, stepfather, and my real father. You can take that bullshit "degree" you got out of a box of Frosted Flakes and tip on. Nigga. I'm not a failure at shit right about now. While you tryna analyze, analyze my original point. Number one. HOW THE FUCK can you chastise a little BOY'S manhood? It ain't got shit to do with a single mom and more to do with a GIRL playing a WOMAN'S role. You think Obama is less than a man for being raised by a single WHITE woman?

Second point, is how can you chastise ANYONE'S manhood when you had an ex-girl of yours come to your crib at three in the morning after having been beaten on by her man. Instead of turning her away and saying "I'm not involved" or grabbing your coat and manning up, you take her in and you cry on each other's shoulders like bitches. That's what she would do with her girlfriend. With Whitney and CeCe Winans playing in the background like a scene from Waiting to Exhale. CALL ON ME THROUGH THICK AND THIN, A FRIENDSHIP THAT WILL NEVER END. And then she fell asleep in your bosom and you woke up and cooked her breakfast wearing nothing but an apron. She left you and went right back to that man. I bet you thought you could build back with her.

Your psychological analysis is benign. In the psychological world, we call it psychological projection nigga. It's a defense mechanism developed by Freud. You should know him since you minored in psych. Hahaha, read up nigga. All that shit about mom's being beaten and you being too small to defend her, that was YOU nigga. All that shit about mom's being open like a 7-11, that was YOU nigga. Crying in your room when "Uncle Ron" would come around and play circus and make you juggle his balls, that was YOU nigga. You're projecting your life on me. You display the classical signs. You grew up and what do you do now? You're a trainer. Of course, you hit the gym, vowing never to let anyone punk you the way you were treated as a child. Who cares if you spend a little extra time in the gym showers. Now you got some size on you, however when it was time to put up or shut up, you teared up. Fight or flight (there's another psychological term) is a natural instinct and all the barbells and dumbbells can't put muscles on the bitch in you.

 

[leebo]

i just got full custody of my 3 boys in april 07, i moved them out of nyc and we relocated to the south, this is by far the biggest challenge that i have ever faced in my life, but its a challenge that im looking forward to.

 

[cameo]

You thought about me nigga? Really? At night too? Damn.



Actually, I became a MAN at an early age. Mom's been remarried for 16 years son. I'm not even gonna address all that other bullshit. See ! I knew another man was involved that's why you got so defensive, SO you had to become a man early why ?, because your mom got a new man, and didn't have time for you anymore ! I knew bruh, it's cool, let it out here on BGOL, we're all friends here



This shit is hilarious son. Never lacking in father figures, 3 uncles, grandfather, stepfather, and my real father. so you say, but you still yearned for your father to be with your mother. Keep it real nigga, that shit hurt you to see ya dad and mom break up. You dealing with a pro ! You can take that bullshit "degree" you got out of a box of Frosted Flakes and tip on. what's wrong with having a college education, why it gotta be bullshit. Guess you don't have a degree, or maybe you do, and it's not what you wanted to really do in life, talk to me bruh Nigga. I'm not a failure at shit right about now. are you sure ? ask yourself, are you really happy with YOU right nowWhile you tryna analyze, analyze my original point. Number one. HOW THE FUCK can you chastise a little BOY'S manhood? My point was clear, the child is not being nurtured to become independent, mentally strong. The first 5 years of life are what set the groundwork for a child's personality. I like to bring up topics on the board, just to see what responses might be generated. I am sorry for reminding you of such a rough life, I know, but it will be OK. It ain't got shit to do with a single mom defending your mother, just like a good son should. Your right, it has nothing to do with being a single mother, it has to do with a single mother that lacks the skills to raise her sonand more to do with a GIRL playing a WOMAN'S role. You think Obama is less than a man for being raised by a single WHITE woman? oh yeah, and you'll see it come out later. The ****** that was RAISED by the white woman, so HE is more acceptable, because THE WHITE WOMAN, has a hand in raising the future president, so he's NOT LIKE typical blacks

Second point, is how can you chastise ANYONE'S manhood when you had an ex-girl of yours come to your crib at three in the morning after having been beaten on by her man. man, whatever. I knew her, she's a friend, apparently i was a good enough friend to trust in that situation. Instead of turning her away and saying "I'm not involved" or grabbing your coat and manning up, man up ? WHAT, go fight her dude ? I'm grown, 35 years old, I did exactly what I should have done. I took care of her, and helped her move on the next day. Fight him for what ? If there are any grown men reading this post, inform young weezy, that at our age, if we fight, someone might get fuckin killed. MAKE NO MISTAKE NIGGA, I WANTED TO, I WANTED TO, AND WOULD HAVE SMASH DUDE IN A FIGHT ! you take her in and you cry on each other's shoulders like bitches. That's what she would do with her girlfriend. With Whitney and CeCe Winans playing in the background like a scene from Waiting to Exhale. CALL ON ME THROUGH THICK AND THIN, A FRIENDSHIP THAT WILL NEVER END. And then she fell asleep in your bosom and you woke up and cooked her breakfast wearing nothing but an apron. nah man, I see you still got alot of growin to do. She left you and went right back to that man. she broke up with him, has moved on, living a better life. I bet you thought you could build back with her. at my age, I feel comfortable being a friend to a beautiful woman. Never tried to fuck again or nothing. We did, longtime ago, but now we're just good friends, it's called MATURITY !

Your psychological analysis is benignuse spell check. In the psychological world, we call it psychological projection nigga. It's a defense mechanism developed by Freud. You should know him since you minored in psych. Hahaha, read up nigga. All that shit about mom's being beaten and you being too small to defend her, that was YOU nigga. denial, the first sign of worst to come All that shit about mom's being open like a 7-11, that was YOU nigga. and now you realize you're mother sucked dicks and allowed your step father to sodomize her in the ass, just to keep the lights onCrying in your room when "Uncle Ron" would come around and play circus and make you juggle his balls, that was YOU nigga. so uncle ron rape you in the ass, man I'm so sorry ! You're projecting your life on me. google is a muthafucka huh ? You goggle the word "phschology", and wanted to know what ol Cameo was talkin about huhYou display the classical signs. BITCH I BEEN IN YOUR HEAD SINCE MY POST ABOUT MY EX, nigga I got youYou grew up and what do you do now? You're a trainer. LISCENSED NIGGA, LIKE A DOCTOR. LISCENED !!!!! I do a minimum of 65K, that's the lowest. I cleared over 85K JUST THIS YEAR. I am a degreed professional stupid, and my minor in physcology helps understand people's habits, and moods, things I should know as a professional Of course, you hit the gym, vowing never to let anyone punk you the way you were treated as a child. Who cares if you spend a little extra time in the gym showers. Now you got some size on you, however when it was time to put up or shut up, you teared up. Fight or flight (there's another psychological term) is a natural instinct and all the barbells and dumbbells can't put muscles on the bitch in you.look at you, pouring out all that to me, and you don't even know me. I'm like Dr. Hannibal Lecter to you. Please don't respond, you probably still livin with ya momma !

 

[nyyyyce]

you have babies raising babies.

co-sign.

But is it more than that. You have babies having babies but they have no morals, ethics, training or spiritual guidance to make adjustments as they grow into parents. Back in my moms era, if you got pregnant you were sent to a relatives house (usually in the country) to have a kid because it was embarrassing. It was really a mistake. Not having a kid because it was cute, fashionable or reckless for reckless sake. You would come back, but you still had family that tutored you. Or you were in church and took you kid with you and trained him/her up to be respectful. The relatives, neighborhood and church groomed us.

Kids today are lawless and they can only impart into their kids what they have attained...which is usually nothing. We have failed, collectively, and it shows.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

I won't even waste the time and energy on some beneath me nigga to respond to this. I've made my factual point, you've made your fictional ones.

 

[cameo]

I won't even waste the time and energy on some beneath me nigga to respond to this. I've made my factual point, you've made your fictional ones.

ol sensitive ass nigga, stay the fuck outta the thread if you gonna get all bitchy on me. Where ya comeback at, this BGOL, young ass, LEARN YA PLACE AND STAY IN IT !, make you sit in the corner till I say come out. Man up bitch and write a comeback bout how you never sucked dick as a child.

The name is "MR CAMEO" to you !

NEXT !

 

[LeroyDibiase]

ol sensitive ass nigga, stay the fuck outta the thread if you gonna get all bitchy on me. Where ya comeback at, this BGOL, young ass, LEARN YA PLACE AND STAY IN IT !, make you sit in the corner till I say come out. Man up bitch and write a comeback bout how you never sucked dick as a child.

The name is "MR CAMEO" to you !

NEXT !

You showing ya ass here. I've made my points based on truth. Continue writing fiction. Word up.

 

[blackmouth]

you have babies raising babies.

and you have single moms raising boys to be men, and in my world, that can't or shouldn't happen.

just like a man can't teach a young girl ALL she needs to know, a woman can't teach a young MAN all he needs to know.

leave it up to a single mom, and she'll have that boy buying shit for his 1st girlfriend, giving her all his allowance money, and begging for her attention.

 

[cameo]

You showing ya ass here. I've made my points based on truth. Continue writing fiction. Word up.

I figured you wasn't no bitch. Everything I've ever written on here is actually true. I played ball at a SWAC school, pledged Que, I graduated with a sports degree, minor in Pychology. I played for a canadian team, that was actually when Canada tried to add football teams in America, Memphis Mad Dogs, check it out. I developed an irregular heart beat, which is my reason for being so healthy. I talk real shit dog, REAL SHIT. Nothing about me is fictioned at all. The hoes I claimed to have fucked, GOT FUCKED, the money I make, I make it. I got friends in the league, nigs you see playin right now. I might be training a few Chicago Bears over the winter. I just be fuckin with you cause you try and fuck wit me. Nigga I'll slam ya ass, AND YOU BETTER GET UP AN FIGHT BACK, OR I'D SLAM YOU AGAIN !


BE COOL

 

[LeroyDibiase]

I figured you wasn't no bitch. Everything I've ever written on here is actually true. I played ball at a SWAC school, pledged Que, I graduated with a sports degree, minor in Pychology. I played for a canadian team, that was actually when Canada tried to add football teams in America, Memphis Mad Dogs, check it out. I developed an irregular heart beat, which is my reason for being so healthy. I talk real shit dog, REAL SHIT. Nothing about me is fictioned at all. The hoes I claimed to have fucked, GOT FUCKED, the money I make, I make it. I got friends in the league, nigs you see playin right now. I might be training a few Chicago Bears over the winter. I just be fuckin with you cause you try and fuck wit me. Nigga I'll slam ya ass, AND YOU BETTER GET UP AN FIGHT BACK, OR I'D SLAM YOU AGAIN !
BE COOL

Man, I think you fail to realize that nobody gives a fuck about your background. Seriously. What I typed about you was fact straight from your mouth. Conversely everything that you typed about me was fiction straight from the pen of Guy de Maupassant. Stick to what you know.

 

[cameo]

Man, I think you fail to realize that nobody gives a fuck about your background. Seriously. What I typed about you was fact straight from your mouth. Conversely everything that you typed about me was fiction straight from the pen of Guy de Maupassant. Stick to what you know.

do your momma know that you been on her computer ? Did you take out the trash, make ya bed, make more kool-aid ? I know you still live with her. man, i come at you with the peace sign, cause I been blazin ya ass, you too stupid to shut up, so I'll give you more jabs !

You are the biggest fuckin hoe ass I've ever met on this board. you stalk my post, damn n***a did I fuck your bitch, did I fuck your momma, what ? Post back whatever lie makes you feel better, but the bottomline is this, you sucked dicks as a child, ya moms knew, and I think it bothers you that you AND YA MOMMA, was suckin on the same dick !

Merry Kwanzaa homo !

 

[femmenoire]

Well this was a waste of a perfectly good thread.

Perhaps I should delete it.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

A lot of Cameo projecting his insecurities on others.

Damn you tell some good stories. Let's talk facts. How old are you? Where are your kids? Oh, you don't have any. So your seed dies with you. I think it's for the better. Onward. I think I know why ol' Cameo ain't got no kids:

you love everything about him.......but he CAN'T GET IT UP ! - cameo
Temporary impotency - don't worry it happens ! - cameo
Had my yearly physical today, doctor gave me Viagra for free ? - cameo

Cameo can't get it up, can he? People "PMing" you for advice, nigga please. That's you. No doctor just gives a healthy man with no "problems" down there Viagra for the fun of it. I kinda feel bad for you. Again, this is straight from your mouth, not made up like the shit you say.

My doctor knows I'm a ladies man, he knows I get alot pussy . I've referred fine ass chicks to him, and he'll be like " DAMN !" One time he was like " that last one you referred to me, you fucked her too !" My doctor is cool, he would never put me in danger, I just thought the shit was funny that he gave me 30 pills ! I counted the packs, I got 5 packs of 6 pills, 50 mg each !

Nigga please. And I guess when you do get it up, you can't get no pussy because you're too busy playing with yourself. From your own mouth.

How many times a day do you, have sex with yourself? - cameo

I know you sleep with a penis-shaped pillow because you STAY lying on your dick. Or bragging on it.

I broke the rules of the "friend game", I fucked her, and she changed on me - cameo
REAL TALK - kinds of woman ( THAT FUCK ) - cameo
Juanita Byrum needs one thing : A REAL NIGGA, WITH A REAL DICK ! - cameo

I wish I had the time to post more but anyone can look at your post history and see. Again, these are straight from your mouth. A real pussy-getting nigga don't have to brag about it, a real money-making nigga don't have to talk about it, a real successful nigga don't speak on it. They just do. But a nigga on the Internet constantly bragging on they money, the hoes they get, how built they are is FULL OF SHIT. You even bragging on your nephews.

All you do is talk about hoes this, bitches this, who you fucked, pumping weights and how you can't get your dick up. Nobody believes your Ducktales nigga. You aren't respected at all, in real life and on this board. Walk away nigga. Read your post history, you simple bitch and tell me why I should take you seriously. You write like an uneducated chimp. You ever heard of a paragraph, or capitalizing the first word in each sentence.

You think I stalk you? No, I read your dumbass statement about you judging a little boy's sexuality as a so-called man and called you on it. You don't even have a point to your post because you talk about your sister who is a single mother and her boys are ok. Seems to me you wrote this to brag on your nephews and talk shit about a kid. Every boy grows through a stage where an idiot might label him a punk. But he grows through it. You studied psychology, you would know about gender roles and the adolescent development of them. If this kid is 13-14, then you have a problem. Why don't you focus on your own children...wait, you don't have any. Don't get mad because I bring up you crying like a little bitch with a woman and then getting up and posting your bullshit story at 6am. GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE. Juice bar working ass nigga.

Well this was a waste of a perfectly good thread.

It's a great topic to be discussed and explored, just piss poor presentation. Sorry Femme.

 

[cameo]

First of all, to me you ain't no man to lay up and fuck a woman, gain her trust, make a baby, and then duck out like the baby and her don't exsist. No excuses black men, NO FUCKIN EXCUSE. I fuck, all the time, BUT I DON'T MAKE BABIES IRRESPONSIBLY, that's suppose to be special. Women, do your homework before you let a man cum in ya pussy, here's the original statement. what's wrong with this statement ! IT'S A TRUE FACT STATEMENT !, SO what is the issue !TO THE POINT , NOW MY ENCOUNTER TONIGHT AT MY MOMS HOUSE !

My sister has a friend, cute, she has a son, he's almost 5. Why this lil guy cry every 5 minutes, why he still got a sippy cup, why she still hold him like a newborn ! that's not normal for 4 years old, did I question his manhood, no ! I never identified the child as a man, thank you !He don't say thank you, he don't say please. Remember, I'm from the OLD SCHOOL, I'm 35, born in 1972, my grandmother RAISED US ! If you could walk, no more bottles, no more holding, when you cried, she investigated quickly " BOY ! HUSH THAT DAMN NOISE ! " You learned to be independent. I talked to her for a minute, all thru the convo "ma, ma, ma, ma" , jumpin at her to pick him up, cryin cause his piece of pizza fell on the floor. She told me that he sleeps with her, she rocks him to sleep. NOT NORMAL, parents should define the role of the child. Once again, I NEVER IDENTIFIED HIM AS A MANI told her, you need to find time for yourself too, being a mom is not just scarificing your life for the child. I was positive, respectful, concerned, ENCOURAGING !Is this normal ? Man, my lil nephews would destroy this lil guy. Both my nephew box, play football, and they just turned 7. But they was always tough lil warriors, fightin since 2 years old. My sis is single and she got hard nose sons, and no they not around uncle Cameo all the time so .......... I gave an example of how my nephews compare to the 4 year old. ONCE AGAIN, I never bashed him, put him down, I was asking for additional input. I "MINORED" in Psyc, I am not a professional doctor that deals with adolescents

Input please !

the thread was going well, real talk, then you come in with hoe bullshit, the kinda silly girly shit that IN REAL LIFE, would get you hoe smacked. This told me the level of your mind & thinking. It wasn't about the issue we were discussing, it was about you being a hoe ass bitch made hiding behind a computer. Now you see, you stepped to me, and exposed YOURSELF

read what you wrote :

Re: Raising young boys to men, and being single moms !

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But will your nephews take in an abused EX-woman and cry all night with her? a real life situation. A man abuses a woman, she seeks help, and that's a joke to you. Your a sick man. Or would they go and beat the dude up? Which one of these is the man act and which one is the punk act? I hope it ain't genetic. this again shows the level of your mind !

Was raised by a STRONG Black woman and have 3+ sisters, no bitch in me. It's not about being a single mom, it's about being a single GIRL and not a single WOMAN. guess you need to validate that because you sucked a nigga dick as a child, you ain't gay. I feel you


Femme, if you need to delete this thread do so, this HOMO is DONE !