ladies, WTF is "quality" time?

[blackmouth]

after a significant amount of fucking on the "regular & plenty," why do y'all start all that "when are we gonna spend some quality time together" bullshit?

nuccas on here say, "the pussy is free." that means, i should be able to cum & go without any hassles, right?

 

[nogatco]

I guess it would be what these brothers are singing about:

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"Quality time" is time spent together w/o fucking. Some females eventually get tired of just being fuck buddies.

 

[ladyscorpio]

Hmmm cuz guys NEVER do this....hmmmm

after a significant amount of fucking on the "regular & plenty," why do y'all start all that "when are we gonna spend some quality time together" bullshit?

 

[femmenoire]

I take it you don't spend "quality time" with your parents either or kids for that matter.

 

[blackmouth]

I take it you don't spend "quality time" with your parents either or kids for that matter.

wtf does kids or parents have to do with YOU?

i'm talking about YOUR time, not THEIR time.

a good man is spending time with his kids.
a good man is spending time with his parents.

but a man doesn't necessarily have to be "good" keep you as a fuck buddy, right?

don't deflect from the question.

 

[femmenoire]

wtf does kids or parents have to do with YOU?

i'm talking about YOUR time, not THEIR time.

a good man is spending time with his kids.
a good man is spending time with his parents.

but a man doesn't necessarily have to be "good" keep you as a fuck buddy, right?

don't deflect from the question.

You asked what is "quality" time. It's the same fucking answer if it's your woman, your child, your friend or your parents.

Here's the Wikipedia answer:

Quality time is an informal reference to time spent with loved ones (eg. close family, partners or friends) which is in some way important or special. It may also refer to time spent performing some favored activity (eg. a hobby).



You tend to ask the same questions on BGOL just recycled.

You should have just copied and pasted some of your older posts.

 

[blackmouth]

You asked what is "quality" time. It's the same fucking answer if it's your woman, your child, your friend or your parents.

Here's the Wikipedia answer:

Quality time is an informal reference to time spent with loved ones (eg. close family, partners or friends) which is in some way important or special. It may also refer to time spent performing some favored activity (eg. a hobby).



You tend to ask the same questions on BGOL just recycled.

You should have just copied and pasted some of your older posts.

wikipedia? I define quality time on MY terms. if i want to dig a fucking ditch with what i call "quality time," then, that's what it is.

but please don't equate my time chasing pussy with time with my kids or my parents. some things you HAVE to do; some things you choose to do.

i simply asked wtf is quality time, and here you are with your condescending attitude. again. ever since this board started, you seem to be VERY judgmental.

you are a mod-not a god. get over your damn self.

 

[Pussy Krook]

Maybe the fucking ain't the quality she expect

 

[Bridgep0rt]

Maybe the fucking ain't the quality she expect

Lol

 

[femmenoire]

wikipedia? I define quality time on MY terms. if i want to dig a fucking ditch with what i call "quality time," then, that's what it is.

but please don't equate my time chasing pussy with time with my kids or my parents. some things you HAVE to do; some things you choose to do.

i simply asked wtf is quality time, and here you are with your condescending attitude. again. ever since this board started, you seem to be VERY judgmental.

you are a mod-not a god. get over your damn self.

If you define quality time yourself then why are you asking the board the question?

LOL @ God. And if I'm being judgmental about anything, it's the fact that some people like to recycle the same thing over and over and over again. Just because you have a different ID doesn't make the message you continually want to tell us any different.

We get it already.

Maybe the fucking ain't the quality she expect

OUCH!!!!

 

[blackmouth]

If you define quality time yourself then why are you asking the board the question?

LOL @ God. And if I'm being judgmental about anything, it's the fact that some people like to recycle the same thing over and over and over again. Just because you have a different ID doesn't make the message you continually want to tell us any different.

We get it already.

OUCH!!!!

 

[water]

You tend to ask the same questions on BGOL just recycled.

You should have just copied and pasted some of your older posts.

ever since this board started, you seem to be VERY judgmental.

you are a mod-not a god. get over your damn self.

And if I'm being judgmental about anything, it's the fact that some people like to recycle the same thing over and over and over again. Just because you have a different ID doesn't make the message you continually want to tell us any different.

We get it already.




OUCH!!!!

Funny shit............ Hollywood writers could strike if they want, ain't no beating BGOL............


Anyway,

I think some women give up the pussy upfront in exchange for companionship later on.

They figure that men will stick around.

The funny thing is that sometimes the more you spend that quality time, the less you want to be around that person not even for sex.

Sometimes a girl will say something that will totally turn me off.

To avoid that I ensure we go to things like comedy shows, broadways, concerts, live shows etc where someone else is doing the talking..........

 

[bigirl]

To avoid that I ensure we go to things like comedy shows, broadways, concerts, live shows etc where someone else is doing the talking..........

that is not exactly quality time

 

[HoneyDip]

[QUOTE "Quality time" is time spent together w/o fucking. Some females eventually get tired of just being fuck buddies.[/QUOTE]

co sign

 

[femmenoire]

that is not exactly quality time

Why not? It's quality time if both enjoy whatever they are doing. Be it a hobby or going to an event or just sitting back watching the sun go down.

 

[bigirl]

Why not? It's quality time if both enjoy whatever they are doing. Be it a hobby or going to an event or just sitting back watching the sun go down.

If a man is taking me to some formatted activity to avoid having to talk to me how is that quality time? Thats a bunch of bullshit. Talking does not necessarily have to be involved in quality time but the way he put that is just fucking disgusting.

 

[femmenoire]

If a man is taking me to some formatted activity to avoid having to talk to me how is that quality time? Thats a bunch of bullshit. Talking does not necessarily have to be involved in quality time but the way he put that is just fucking disgusting.

Oh yeah you're right. To partake in any activity as to avoid talking is definitely not quality time. It's escapism.

And quality time is not doing something only that only one party enjoys. I never thought it was fair for let's say a dad making his son play football when his son clearly doesn't want to is not quality time. Or a wife making her husband go to the mall shopping with her if he clearly doesn't want to go, etc. etc.

 

[bigirl]

Oh yeah you're right. To partake in any activity as to avoid talking is definitely not quality time. It's escapism.

And quality time is not doing something only that only one party enjoys. I never thought it was fair for let's say a dad making his son play football when his son clearly doesn't want to is not quality time. Or a wife making her husband go to the mall shopping with her if he clearly doesn't want to go, etc. etc.

Exactly. Something both people enjoy.

 

[Izayoi]

Maybe the fucking ain't the quality she expect

 

[Killacut]

after a significant amount of fucking on the "regular & plenty," why do y'all start all that "when are we gonna spend some quality time together" bullshit?

nuccas on here say, "the pussy is free." that means, i should be able to cum & go without any hassles, right?

gud question

 

[owl]

Funny shit............ Hollywood writers could strike if they want, ain't no beating BGOL............


Anyway,

I think some women give up the pussy upfront in exchange for companionship later on.

They figure that men will stick around.

The funny thing is that sometimes the more you spend that quality time, the less you want to be around that person not even for sex.

Sometimes a girl will say something that will totally turn me off.

To avoid that I ensure we go to things like comedy shows, broadways, concerts, live shows etc where someone else is doing the talking..........

and that sums up the contention with poignancy....woman are allowed their space and freedom based on the "just one of them dayz" quotient and men have to suffer being called insensitive when they want some fucking peace of mind...somedays I wish men and women could honestly sit down and discuss what the other party is ACTUALLY interested when the term "committed relationship" is tossed out...




YBO

 

[blackmouth]

Funny shit............ Hollywood writers could strike if they want, ain't no beating BGOL............

Anyway,

I think some women give up the pussy upfront in exchange for companionship later on.

They figure that men will stick around.

The funny thing is that sometimes the more you spend that quality time, the less you want to be around that person not even for sex.

Sometimes a girl will say something that will totally turn me off.

To avoid that I ensure we go to things like comedy shows, broadways, concerts, live shows etc where someone else is doing the talking..........

women give up sex to hear, "i love you." and men say, "i love you" to get the sex.

i asked a simple question: WTF is quality time to you ladies, and the thread took a turn towards time with your family, etc.

i guess are upset cause they're still in the "fuck buddy" stage and don't have the nerve to ask the nucca when the relationship starts.

 

[femmenoire]

women give up sex to hear, "i love you." and men say, "i love you" to get the sex.

i asked a simple question: WTF is quality time to you ladies, and the thread took a turn towards time with your family, etc.

i guess are upset cause they're still in the "fuck buddy" stage and don't have the nerve to ask the nucca when the relationship starts.

And as usual, you guess wrong.

 

[MissStarKitty]

wikipedia? I define quality time on MY terms.

Then WTF was the point of asking for??? Damn that was ass backwards...

 

[mcguyver]

Then WTF was the point of asking for??? Damn that was ass backwards...

I think you ladies are too hard on the guys.

 

[blackmouth]

And as usual, you guess wrong.

ain't guessing at anything. i simply asked what quality time meant to you ladies.

and as expected, half of y'all wanna throw insults, and the other half want to play internet psychiatrist.

why? cause half of y'all use that "quality time" bullshit to "test" a man and figure out "where the relationship is going."

Then WTF was the point of asking for??? Damn that was ass backwards...

i asked the ladies what quality time meant to them. they turned around and equated quality time for me in terms of kids and parents. the question was for you ladies to answer if you had time-not to get your opinion on how or what i should do with MY time.

I think you ladies are too hard on the guys.

power corrupts.
absolute power corrupts absolutely.
some people here are simply in a "power" trip-wanting to play psychiatrist instead of either answering or ignoring the question asked.

 

[femmenoire]

^^^First of all you didn't ask "What does quality time mean to you ladies?"

You asked "WTF is quality time?"

I gave you the definition of quality time.

 

[bigirl]

^^^First of all you didn't ask "What does quality time mean to you ladies?"

You asked "WTF is quality time?"

I gave you the definition of quality time.

you make me laugh femme

*meanwhile* men claim we don't say what we mean

 

[lilsexii]

I guess the problem is that QUALITY TIME is usually a no-brainer for people who actually WANT to spend time together. Children and parents were mentioned because those are also the types of relationships where you love and care about the people and you tend to want to spend time with them.

If you're asking about it in relation to a fuck buddy, clearly, she wants to take it to a higher level. But you're still viewing her as a fuck buddy, so of course its going to feel like an imposition...you don't care to spend any time with her outside of the bedroom. Be honest about that. If you don't want to change your arrangement, say so. Don't fake it just to keep the pussy around.

If you're asking about it in relation to a person you have a committed relationship with, it it seems that she's simply made a logical assumption. Because of the fact that you entered into a committed relationship with her, she should feel safe in assuming that you might actually like her enough to want to spend some time with her. Yeah, it's cliche and some people use it to manipulate others, but the concept itself isn't that outlandish...

To me, quality time = engaging in a non-sexual, mutually rewarding activity with a person you care about.

 

[Blu Diablo]

Bruh in all honesty you you probably won't get a real answer to this question because the answer is subjective and not concrete.

Quality time to one woman may be just having a chill/cuddle night where yah can have dinner, and just chill and talk (i.e. "blockbuster night"), while other women see it as a time to be wined and dined and made the center of elaborately planned attention.

The definition varies from woman to woman with the only common factor being time yah spend together thats "non-fucking" time.

Enough with my thoughts, back to what the ladies have to say.....

 

[Mo-Better]

In what you seem to be describing, "IF" this is her statement to you, "when are we gonna spend some quality time together" seems like you and she are either always sharing time with your friends or family, you are always with your friends (she left alone) or that's all you to do is screw and she's looking for more from the relationship. I'm banking on "you are always with your friends." Especially after that immature comment about "i should be able to cum & go without any hassles"

 

[water]

If a man is taking me to some formatted activity to avoid having to talk to me how is that quality time? Thats a bunch of bullshit. Talking does not necessarily have to be involved in quality time but the way he put that is just fucking disgusting.

It may be disgusting but it is the truth.


Have any of you ladies been around other ladies?

Some women can't even stand talking to other women but we men must be able to 24/7?

We men have shit to plan and strategize, we need time to ourselves.

We men have to be one step ahead of the game especially as a black man.

If I get a black woman who understands the system and is willing to sacrifice to get us where we need to go, then the ring is already on her finger.

Until then I don't want to hear too much from the average chick who has no idea what is taking place with the black family on a systematic level.

I have had women complain about time I spend studying

Studying???? that is time INVESTED in future growth. Why complain???

The shit will benefit BOTH of us in the long run.............

I think "3rd world" women understand this.

We don't need competition.......... we need co-operation.

I guess it comes down to common interest between parties.

I'm from a different culture so finding someone on a conscious level is a little difficult in the land of materialism.

N.B. I'm speaking for the men who are not up to shit.
The others are just full of shit (excessive consumption of entertainment).

 

[femmenoire]

I guess it comes down to common interest between parties.

This was all that needed to be said.

 

[Twistyaaliyah]

^^^First of all you didn't ask "What does quality time mean to you ladies?"

You asked "WTF is quality time?"

I gave you the definition of quality time.

he said " ladies, wtf is quality time"

keyword ladies. He means us. Wat the fuck is quality time to us. Thats is basically. HE dont want no definition from wikipedia

 

[water]

This was all that needed to be said.