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DarkOne

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How many SOL sisters prefer Dark Skin Brothers( Dark blue , Dark Chocolate ,Dark dark :lol:) and why do you prefer them ? And if you prefer Light Skin Dude , why is that the case for you ?

Simple Questions , Right ?
 
I like all black men, but I honestly am more attracted to men who are on the darker end of the spectrum. However, you will never catch me dating a guy just because he is dark....he has to be good looking too. I'm not color struck in anyway.
 
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They'll tell you they like the dark skinned bruhs cause thats the pc thing to say. But we all know otherwise. :rolleyes:

I bet they also hate thugs and like smart, intelligent men. And they never nag and let you watch the game whenever you want. And the pussy is the bomb.
 
Oh boy! :smh: I hope you are prepared for some of the answers.

They'll tell you they like the dark skinned bruhs cause thats the pc thing to say. But we all know otherwise. :rolleyes:

You two are so pessimistic!

I'll say that over my dating life I've gone through phases. When I was young in HS I dated a lot of latin guys or what I call Prince/ Al B Sure look alikes. That was the thing back then. Then I went through a golden-brown to dark chocolate phase in college. Now as a grown-up,I'm phaseless. I like it all.

...and let me just say that its not always a preference that dictates who we date. My best friend has accused me many times of only liking "pretty" ninjas (light) but I told her those are the men most likely to ask ME out!


Men are much more strict in my opinion about selecting a mate based on complexion preference. Look at the mainboard thread titles almost always specify complexion. On a female board the title will just say something like "Look at this fine brother- not look at this redbone brotha, redbone brother lovers only," or some stupid shit like that. But admittedly there are a lot of color struck clown ass women too. I get on women about it when they make stupid remarks. Its not fair to gripe and complain about black men and then turn around and do the same thing.

As long as the men that are attractive to me, likewise find me attractive I'm good! :)

Mcguyver and Pussy Krook that wasn't so bad was it?
 
I bet they also hate thugs and like smart, intelligent men. And they never nag and let you watch the game whenever you want. And the pussy is the bomb.

Another pessimist :rolleyes:

I don't like thugs, I adore smart men... and yes my pussy is the bomb thanks so much!!!!
 
I bet they also hate thugs and like smart, intelligent men. And they never nag and let you watch the game whenever you want. And the pussy is the bomb.

:rolleyes:


I don't have a preference as far as complexion. As long as you have no kids, are doing something productive with yourself, can have a decent conversation, can make me laugh, and are reasonably attractive, I'm good.
 
:rolleyes:


I don't have a preference as far as complexion. As long as you have no kids, are doing something productive with yourself, can have a decent conversation, can make me laugh, and are reasonably attractive, I'm good.

So high-maintenance. All I need is a woman with decent Photoshop skills...*checks hair thread*...well maybe we can just be friends??? :lol:
 
Another pessimist :rolleyes:

I don't like thugs, I adore smart men... and yes my pussy is the bomb thanks so much!!!!

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How many SOL sisters prefer Dark Skin Brothers( Dark blue , Dark Chocolate ,Dark dark :lol:) and why do you prefer them ? And if you prefer Light Skin Dude , why is that the case for you ?

Simple Questions , Right ?

Yeah, it's hard being an African Booty Snatcher huh!? :rolleyes:
 
I bet they also hate thugs and like smart, intelligent men. And they never nag and let you watch the game whenever you want. And the pussy is the bomb.

Yup. Just like black men hate white women and hoodrats, they always keep a job, they never live at home with their moms, they always take care of their children. And they all have big dicks and know how to use them.
 
And here I thought this question was for the ladies.:confused:


I love dark skinned men. But I've dated all complexions.

But oddly enough men who seem to be my complexion or a tad lighter or darker get at me the most.
 
:rolleyes:


I don't have a preference as far as complexion. As long as you have no kids, are doing something productive with yourself, can have a decent conversation, can make me laugh, and are reasonably attractive, I'm good.

:confused:
EUHHH .. What if you were introduced to two dudes(one light complexion ,and a dark one), both dudes having the same qualties and attributes as the one you have described , which one will catch your eyes first ?????
 
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EUHHH .. What if you were introduced to two dudes(one light complexion ,and a dark one), both dudes having the same qualties and attributes as the one you have described , which one will catch your eyes first ?????

If they're both fine, she'll date them both :rolleyes:
 
So high-maintenance. All I need is a woman with decent Photoshop skills...*checks hair thread*...well maybe we can just be friends??? :lol:

:lol: I'm never gonna live that down I see....


:confused:
EUHHH .. What if you were introduced to two dudes(one light complexion ,and a dark one), both dudes having the same qualties and attributes as the one you have described , which one will catch your eyes first ?????

That's happened before. The light skinned one caught my eye first, but I left with the dark skinned one's phone number. He played the side and let the red bone make an ass of himself trying to play the chocolate brother.
 
And here I thought this question was for the ladies.:confused:


I love dark skinned men. But I've dated all complexions.

But oddly enough men who seem to be my complexion or a tad lighter or darker get at me the most.


Femme girl you should know better than that....lol


As for me I really don't check for complexion. However if the situation like DarkOne described were to come up it would be the darker skinned to get my attention. However if he cant hold a real convo and the lightskinned brother can I'll turn my attention to the one who wouldnt bore me.

HoneyBerry girl you have me rolling at your reply. :lol:
 
Yup. Just like black men hate white women and hoodrats, they always keep a job, they never live at home with their moms, they always take care of their children. And they all have big dicks and know how to use them.

The reason I said that is it seems that when you ask a question like the OP said, the responses you get are always "Oh I love dark-skinned men" when real world observation shows the opposite. The answers are always the exception to the rule. She "cooks everyday/cleans the house/sucks a mean dick/doesn't nag/the opposite of the negative behavior presented in the question".

However, if you ask a question of a man, you will get a variety of answers. Some brothers WILL say they like women of other races, etc etc. I'm just speaking from observation and not judging. Plus I was semi-joking.
 
The reason I said that is it seems that when you ask a question like the OP said, the responses you get are always "Oh I love dark-skinned men" when real world observation shows the opposite. The answers are always the exception to the rule. She "cooks everyday/cleans the house/sucks a mean dick/doesn't nag/the opposite of the negative behavior presented in the question".

However, if you ask a question of a man, you will get a variety of answers. Some brothers WILL say they like women of other races, etc etc. I'm just speaking from observation and not judging. Plus I was semi-joking.


Well dark skinned men never approach me. They go for the light skinned women.

Nothing I can do about that.
 
Well dark skinned men never approach me. They go for the light skinned women.

Nothing I can do about that.


Not always true. I don't look for anyskin color in particular. My ex was serena williams complexion and looks like her too body and all. (had to throw that in reminiscing)
 
It is not about complexion for me. It is about the heart, mind and soul of a person.
On a superficial level, I have seen beautiful dark skin guys and beautiful light skin guys.
 
Thank you Mc. Ninja's hatin heavily this fine Saturday!:lol:

Whatever.

Well dark skinned men never approach me. They go for the light skinned women.

Nothing I can do about that.

Black people, whether we realize it or not, all have been subjugated to years and years of "brainwashing". I find that most women who go for bright men do so because they think their children will be cute.
 
Black people, whether we realize it or not, all have been subjugated to years and years of "brainwashing". I find that most women who go for bright men do so because they think their children will be cute.

Nothing cuter to me than a fat dimply chocolate drop baby with a full head of hair. I could love em to death :)
 
Well dark skinned men never approach me. They go for the light skinned women.

Nothing I can do about that.

I find that hard to believe. When it comes to men booty trumps complexion.


And last time I checked Mr Darren Sharper wasn't on the dark end of the spectrum. :lol:
 
I find that hard to believe. When it comes to men booty trumps complexion.


And last time I checked Mr Darren Sharper wasn't on the dark end of the spectrum. :lol:

Yeah but he's not light skinned and so what anyway?

I think he's good looking. I think Idris Elba, Jesse Tuggle and Isaiah Washington are good looking too. I put one "brown" dude in the pic and I get flack? While y'all be sweating latin, asian, and white women on the regular? GMAFB.

Dark skinned men are still my preference.
 
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