TOs kids are by Black women. He has a Black American daughter. He'd rather say this then say the truth that he's whitewashed and prefers white women to Black women. Imagine hearing your dad say he isn't attracted to women that look like you. It damages her psyche. So he says they picked on him instead so it looks like he tried and his daughter will sympathize with daddy. 
Another self hating Gen X'er, they come a dime a dozen.

Another self hating Gen X'er, they come a dime a dozen.