Exactly. It's really important to live within your means. Fuck what anyone else thinks. Especially in markets wherein real estate prices are way out of touch. Was saying in the Real Estate / Bursting thread ... place I grew up in my parents bought in the early-1980s. It's a 3-bedroom, 2-bathroom built in 1959. Modest place. My mom sold it in the spring of 2001 for $318,000. The new homeowners sold it at a loss in 2004 for just under $198,000. The assessed value of the home as of July 2022 is just under $1,800,000 now.
* Keep in mind the "building" value is just under 60,000 ... and the land / lot value is the rest. What the fuck?
It's a 60+ year-old home that needs plenty of renovations still. Think about how much the bigger, better, modern places are going for ...