How come when you show Black women some love they get this funky attitude?

I was in the mall earlier me and my crew so we was in line at the Chick-fil-a right and I spot this cute sista in front of us and I compliment her and she had this stank attitude like she didn't want to be complimented when all I said was you look nice today. This never happens when I compliment white women they are always so gracious and welcoming. Black women need to get it together cause the world owes you nothing and you aren't so special that you gotta be all up in your feelings all the time.


For real tho, how much do you
weigh because that pic of your
hand and that pistola tells us
that you weigh at minimum
3 hunnid. If you weigh under
3 hun, then you're about 4
foot 10 inches.
 
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Never mind those "other brothers" you know. You came here and made a thread about the issue. So I can say honestly from my observation of you over the years no Black woman I know would ever want to entertain the company of someone who has exhibited the characteristics we know you for here on BGOL.
That's not true I've been with my beautiful Black Queen going on 5 years now.
 
Most women don’t wanna be approached. That means compliments or even nice gestures are seen as a prelude to an approach. The younger generation gets all their attention on social media and so real life interaction is awkward for them. Also, attractive women hate being told their are attractive. It’s the oldest line in the book. Finally, far too many women are assholes because of male validation.
 
I’m an average clean cut dark black man. I walk past some black women and speak or say good morning/afternoon and they look at me sideways.

I've also seen this behavior . I love black women and prefer them over anything else. But I do feel some have issues on how to take compliment or just show some common courtesy. I think some of it is because they get bombarded with dudes try to holla at them 24/7 and use having an attitude or being non responsive as a defense mechanism.

Hold a door open for a black woman while going/leaving a store. And half of them will act like it's hurting their pride to say thank you. Just because I hold the door open for you doesn't mean I'm trying to fuck.

I go for a evening walk on a trail during the week. I'll usually speak and say hello when passing someone going the opposite direction. I notice white women, no matter the age will usually say something back. It could be out of fear, lol..but they speak. The black women usually stare off into the distance or pretend to be super focused and won't say shit. Not all, but enough to notice difference. Older black women usually speak. The younger ones in the 21-35 range could care less.
 
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I've also seen this behavior . I love black women and prefer them over anything else. But I do feel some have issues on how to take compliment or just show some common courtesy. I think some of it is because they get bombarded with dudes try to holla at them 24/7 and use having an attitude or being non responsive as a defense mechanism.

Hold a door open for a black woman while going/leaving a store. And half of them will act like it's hurting their pride to say thank you. Just because I hold the door open for you doesn't mean I'm trying to fuck.

I go for a evening walk on a trail during the week. I'll usually speak and say hello when passing someone going the opposite direction. I notice white women, no matter the age will usually say something back. It could be out of fear, lol..but they speak. The black women usually stare off into the distance or pretend to be super focused and won't say shit. Not all, but enough to notice difference. Older black women usually speak. The younger ones in the 21-35 range could care less.

Women want to be equal...now...brah..treat em as you equal...you will get way more pussycat.. when you figure this out
 
Women from each race demographic reacts differently to being spoke to and complimented by a random guy.

Age has a lot to do with reactions as well. For the most part, I do not compliment any demographic of women on their looks I believe is between the ages of 18 and 25 at my current age in life. There are exceptions, such as professional events, but not randomly. I’m an older guy to these younger women, so the creep factor is heighten slightly if I compliment them.

most women 30 and up love little compliments or chivalries like opening the door for them, ESPECIALLY if they have/had kids.

I’ve gotten the least amount of reaction from middle eastern and Asian women that are still very connect with their native culture.

I know how to read eyes and faces pretty well when it comes to people. Anxious women looks down when walking by me. I will not compliment them, but will speak by saying something like “I hope you’re doing well today” to try to ease their anxiousness.

In my opinion, if you’re catching consistent negative reactions, then that’s a you problem. Also, not every chick is looking to be complimented. Read their body language and respect their space. Don’t take it personal. While your intentions may be non-threatening and honest, they don’t know that.

I have zero issues with bad attitudes from black women when it comes to compliments. Plus, complimenting their hair, nails, shoes, or clothes goes way further for me. I pay attention to the thing they cared about that day. 95% of black women will take a hair compliment any day of the week even to the point of blushing.
 
Most women don’t wanna be approached. That means compliments or even nice gestures are seen as a prelude to an approach. The younger generation gets all their attention on social media and so real life interaction is awkward for them. Also, attractive women hate being told their are attractive. It’s the oldest line in the book. Finally, far too many women are assholes because of male validation.
Yeah now I see this being true.
 
I've also seen this behavior . I love black women and prefer them over anything else. But I do feel some have issues on how to take compliment or just show some common courtesy. I think some of it is because they get bombarded with dudes try to holla at them 24/7 and use having an attitude or being non responsive as a defense mechanism.

Hold a door open for a black woman while going/leaving a store. And half of them will act like it's hurting their pride to say thank you. Just because I hold the door open for you doesn't mean I'm trying to fuck.

I go for a evening walk on a trail during the week. I'll usually speak and say hello when passing someone going the opposite direction. I notice white women, no matter the age will usually say something back. It could be out of fear, lol..but they speak. The black women usually stare off into the distance or pretend to be super focused and won't say shit. Not all, but enough to notice difference. Older black women usually speak. The younger ones in the 21-35 range could care less.
Yep I've done thie before as well I hold the door for a Black woman and they just walk right in not saying thank you or anything.
 
Women from each race demographic reacts differently to being spoke to and complimented by a random guy.

Age has a lot to do with reactions as well. For the most part, I do not compliment any demographic of women on their looks I believe is between the ages of 18 and 25 at my current age in life. There are exceptions, such as professional events, but not randomly. I’m an older guy to these younger women, so the creep factor is heighten slightly if I compliment them.

most women 30 and up love little compliments or chivalries like opening the door for them, ESPECIALLY if they have/had kids.

I’ve gotten the least amount of reaction from middle eastern and Asian women that are still very connect with their native culture.

I know how to read eyes and faces pretty well when it comes to people. Anxious women looks down when walking by me. I will not compliment them, but will speak by saying something like “I hope you’re doing well today” to try to ease their anxiousness.

In my opinion, if you’re catching consistent negative reactions, then that’s a you problem. Also, not every chick is looking to be complimented. Read their body language and respect their space. Don’t take it personal. While your intentions may be non-threatening and honest, they don’t know that.

I have zero issues with bad attitudes from black women when it comes to compliments. Plus, complimenting their hair, nails, shoes, or clothes goes way further for me. I pay attention to the thing they cared about that day. 95% of black women will take a hair compliment any day of the week even to the point of blushing.
I think that 95% is quite high on Black women blushing when you compliment their hair. Plus I come off as being a real gentleman and they still have the type of attitude like a man has done them wrong so they take it off on the next man.
 
Yeah now I see this being true.
Yup. Can’t just feel rejected like you’re unattractive to her. It could be any reason. She could have been starving and only on getting food. She could have a man who was over in the cut. Her friends could be sneaky bitches who talk too much. You may have been the 12th dude that day in her face. She may like you visually but know her friends won’t. You could have been with more dudes than she was with friends. I’m a regular ass dude and I know like attention. I drive a nice car and sometimes I just don’t wanna fucking talk to you while I pump gas. Yes, it’s fast. CLEARLY! And you can google the top speed. No I’m not popping the hood! Yes, it’s an unusual color! I catch myself just not having it some days. Women deal with a fuck ton more attention, questions and interruptions than THAT. Nice eyes, pretty smile, love that dress, good morning, good afternoon, what’s your name? I hate people being in my space if I don’t invite em. Somewhat friend in my building has a red Lambo truck. Bro, DUDES be in his face! Lmao!!! I’ve only been in it a few times but the stories he tells. Annoying. In the end, if you say ANYTHING to a woman on the street, neeeeeever make it a compliment. It’s tired. A teenage girl is tired of compliments! Women wanna be left alone until they’re tired of being left alone.
 
Yup. Can’t just feel rejected like you’re unattractive to her. It could be any reason. She could have been starving and only on getting food. She could have a man who was over in the cut. Her friends could be sneaky bitches who talk too much. You may have been the 12th dude that day in her face. She may like you visually but know her friends won’t. You could have been with more dudes than she was with friends. I’m a regular ass dude and I know like attention. I drive a nice car and sometimes I just don’t wanna fucking talk to you while I pump gas. Yes, it’s fast. CLEARLY! And you can google the top speed. No I’m not popping the hood! Yes, it’s an unusual color! I catch myself just not having it some days. Women deal with a fuck ton more attention, questions and interruptions than THAT. Nice eyes, pretty smile, love that dress, good morning, good afternoon, what’s your name? I hate people being in my space if I don’t invite em. Somewhat friend in my building has a red Lambo truck. Bro, DUDES be in his face! Lmao!!! I’ve only been in it a few times but the stories he tells. Annoying. In the end, if you say ANYTHING to a woman on the street, neeeeeever make it a compliment. It’s tired. A teenage girl is tired of compliments! Women wanna be left alone until they’re tired of being left alone.
Exactly!
 
Most black people don’t like rodents..since your a coon they are definitely scared of you… white women like you cause they think they can use your hair to make a fur coat + white people naturally like to get up close with nature than get fucked up by them.. hell the serious when animals attack was created off this premise
 
I don't think we can figure out why Black women have an issue with me. It's not just me by the way my friends say the same thing happens to them. I believe Black women are so emotionally scarred that they don't know how to express themselves or even be nice. I was at the checkout line at McDonald's yesterday and this Black female cashier didn't have any manners, I had to ask for her manager and I told her manager on her and the manager got on her.

Again, if every person that I came into contact told me that I stunk. I can’t blame everyone’s nose for feeling that way.

It’s not always everyone else, but you’re free to black Black women all that you want.

Myself and my friends don’t have that problem.
 
Most black people don’t like rodents..since your a coon they are definitely scared of you… white women like you cause they think they can use your hair to make a fur coat + white people naturally like to get up close with nature than get fucked up by them.. hell the serious when animals attack was created off this premise
You are not making any sense.

Carry on...
 
Again, if every person that I came into contact told me that I stunk. I can’t blame everyone’s nose for feeling that way.

It’s not always everyone else, but you’re free to black Black women all that you want.

Myself and my friends don’t have that problem.
Like I said before I'm gonna still be nice to Black women but I'm not gonna go out my way in doing it.
 
i know its from a movie but it explained so much to me

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If I may ask, and of course you don't need to answer. Why waste so much time with topics about black women then? Are you unsatisfied with White and Latin women?
Because I'm just posting what type of treatment I receive from Black women sometimes. Y'all get on me but if Kevin Samuels would have said it y'all would be all ears listening to him.
 
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