Serious Discussion - is intercourse suppose to last longer than 5 minutes?

see what happens when cats move goalposts ?

the topic is intercourse duration....

not foreplay

not if you squeeze out the first one before she gets there

not seconds after a sammich and a nap.

not numbing the head with some blow

stay focused young grasshopper

:lol::lol::lol::lol:
See, you have a narrow focus. Intercourse to me means start to finish.
Now had OP said, how long do you last after you first penetrate a pussy hole, that is a different question from intercourse. I might think you're a young grasshopper if you can't hold your first nutt for more than 5 minutes after you penetrate some pussy. I might have to tag you #PrematureBuster.


you know there was a study that found the closer to retardation you are the longer you last .

:yes::yes::yes::yes::yes:
What if you are just a long laster because that is what you have practiced?
How big and diverse was that sample size?



Whats a 10 minute broom closet fuck at break time doing for her REALLY?
Exactly, women I've been with don't like quick shit so I've trained myself to not be quick.
 
See, you have a narrow focus. Intercourse to me means start to finish.
Now had OP said, how long do you last after you first penetrate a pussy hole, that is a different question from intercourse. I might think you're a young grasshopper if you can't hold your first nutt for more than 5 minutes after you penetrate some pussy. I might have to tag you #PrematureBuster.


You sound like Bill Clinton talking bout that depends ,can yo define sex.


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You sound like Bill Clinton talking bout that depends ,can yo define sex.


:roflmao::roflmao::roflmao::roflmao::roflmao::roflmao:
Well, one has to define terms so that we do not speak about apples and oranges. In my world, a blowjob is not sex because when two people "have sex", penile penetration into a vagina is a requirement. If a chick tops me off, we didn't "have sex". She gave me a blowjob which is a sexual act but it was not sex.
 
See, you have a narrow focus. Intercourse to me means start to finish.
Now had OP said, how long do you last after you first penetrate a pussy hole, that is a different question from intercourse. I might think you're a young grasshopper if you can't hold your first nutt for more than 5 minutes after you penetrate some pussy. I might have to tag you #PrematureBuster.

Actually I did define why I used the term intercourse
Theres a difference between sex and foreplay and the humping bumping in out act of intercourse. Thats why I specifically used that term. If your pumping for 20-30 MINUTES.. SOMEBODY is tired they just ain't admitting it..

Definition of intercourse

1: connection or dealings between persons or groups
2: exchange especially of thoughts or feelings : communion
3: physical sexual contact between individuals that involves the genitalia of at least one person <anal intercourse> <oral intercourse>; especially : sexual intercourse 1 <heterosexual intercourse>


And I'm not asking how ANYONE lasts (still don't know why people are posting their own history) I said if on average the average MALE generally lasts around 5 minutes then why are we calling that PREMATURE?? Premature to what??
 
naw...he's wondering why people are posting their own personal sexual histories when the topic is how men and women are naturally wired differently for intercourse and instead of accepting that we turn it into a negative.

In nature men are at 5 minutes to reach orgasm on average and women are at 20 minutes... and theres a whole industry designed to have men hold out longer....

how about doing something that makes women orgasm faster?

Lets break it down...at those times then whats a quikie for women REALLY?? Whats a 10 minute broom closet fuck at break time doing for her REALLY?

Quickies work for men because we can bust a nut fast but whats it doing for HER if she needs more than 10 minutes just to get worked up??
a lot of women can cum in under 10 mins..hell some will get 2 nuts off in that same amount of time..u juss got to kn o how to stroke it rite or ger her aroused enough to she's extremely horny..some dudes have natural stamina, some kno how to control their nut, some dudes juss fuck so often that they've grown a natural numbness that makes them last(kinda like working out and u have to increase the exercise because your body gets use to the workout)... as far as the dick pills that industry is targeted towards cacs and asians..truss me on that info those are the biggest consumers of stamina pills and "growth" pills cause they feel inferior sexually..so please don't bring up an industry targeted towards cacs on a "black board"
 
a lot of women can cum in under 10 mins..hell some will get 2 nuts off in that same amount of time..u juss got to kn o how to stroke it rite or ger her aroused enough to she's extremely horny..some dudes have natural stamina, some kno how to control their nut, some dudes juss fuck so often that they've grown a natural numbness that makes them last(kinda like working out and u have to increase the exercise because your body gets use to the workout)... as far as the dick pills that industry is targeted towards cacs and asians..truss me on that info those are the biggest consumers of stamina pills and "growth" pills cause they feel inferior sexually..so please don't bring up an industry targeted towards cacs on a "black board"
ALOT of brothas take viagra and horny goat weed etc... lets not act like its rare.
 
ALOT of brothas take viagra and horny goat weed etc... lets not act like its rare.
how many 20 yr old dudes u kno taking viagra??? what do u consider a lot???what percentage of the black male population are you talking about???is viagra the only sex pill..what are these age ranges u talking about??? u kno every tubesite u visit got nothing but ads for dick pills, dick exercises, etc..u kno who does most of the clicks for those ads??? u kno who orders most of those exercise guides and dick pills??..u kno how many visitors are cac males on them tubesites??/ hell u kno how many cacs brought a fleshlight??? the male sex toy bizz and sex enhancers is dominant by cac consumers..also asians
 
I'd have to agree 15 - 20 minutes....is the norm....especially now that i'm a little older.....use to be a beast though when i youth working with me....lol
15 minutes max now but in my youth I would have came 5 times in 15 minutes lol.
 
Actually I did define why I used the term intercourse


Definition of intercourse

1: connection or dealings between persons or groups
2: exchange especially of thoughts or feelings : communion
3: physical sexual contact between individuals that involves the genitalia of at least one person <anal intercourse> <oral intercourse>; especially : sexual intercourse 1 <heterosexual intercourse>


And I'm not asking how ANYONE lasts (still don't know why people are posting their own history) I said if on average the average MALE generally lasts around 5 minutes then why are we calling that PREMATURE?? Premature to what??
But I can not speak to how any other man performs. My sexual history does not involve other men. I can only speak on my own experience and I presume that other men are similar. If you are saying that a study said this or that, I need to know the sample size and the diversity of the sample. What is their margin of error?
 
Race Differences in Sexual Behavior: Testing an Evolutionary Hypothesis

Concomitant differences are found in sexual attitudes. In Ford and Beach's (1951) survey, the Asian groups were the most likely to endorse beliefs concerning the weakening effects of intercourse. A review by Vernon (1982) led him to conclude that both the Chinese and the Japanese were not only less experienced in premarital sex, but also less permissive, and less concerned with sexual display than Caucasians. For example, Connor (1975, 1976) found three generations of Japanese-Americans, as well as Japanese students in Japan, reported less interest in sex than caucasian samples.

Abramson and Imari-Marquez (1982) observed that each of three generations of Japanese-Americans showed more sex guilt than matched Caucasian Americans. In studies carried out in Britain and Japan using a sex fantasy questionnaire, Iwawaki and Wilson (1983) found that British men reported twice as many fantasies as Japanese men, and British women admitted to four times as much sex fantasy as Japanese women. In contrast, African-descended people are more permissive than Caucasians. Reiss (1967) observed this with several hundred black and white university students in the United States on scales measuring premarital sexual attitudes (e.g., approving of or feeling guilt about petting and intercourse in casual and romantic relationships), results replicated with other samples and measuring instruments (Heltsley & Broderick, 1969; Sutker & Gilliard, 1970). Johnson (1978) also compared black and white premarital sexual attitudes and behavior and included a Swedish sample who were expected to be (and were) more permissive than American whites. The black sample (particularly males) were found to have had intercourse earlier and with a greater number of casual partners, and with less feelings of guilt or distaste, than either white sample.

In a study of sex fantasies, Price and Miller (1984) found that black men and women had higher mean frequencies than white men and women, and that whites more than blacks were prone to feel guilt for having them.
The ethnographic record [e.g., A French Army Surgeon (1898/1972), a 30-year specialist in genitourinary diseases] makes reference to numerous anatomical distinctions which show a similar pattern of whites being between blacks and Orientals. These include the placement of female genitals (Orientals front and high; blacks back and low); angle and texture of erection (Orientals parallel to body and stiff, blacks at right angles to body and flexible); salient buttocks, breasts, and muscularity (Orientals least, blacks most); and size of genitalia (Orientals smallest, blacks largest). We averaged the ethnographic data on erect penis and found the means to approximate: Orientals, 4 to 5.5 in. in length and 1.25 in. in diameter; Caucasians, 5.5 to 6 in. in length and 1.5 in. in diameter; blacks, 6.25 to 8 in. in length and 2 in. in diameter. Women were proportionate to men, with Orientals having smaller vaginas and blacks larger ones, relative to Caucasians. Clitoral size differed in length: in European women, 1.2 in.; in African women, 2 in. variations were noted: in the French West Indies, the size of the penis and vagina covaried with amount of black admixture; Arab men, who were often mixed with black, had larger penises than Europeans.



RESULTS

The items from Gebhard and Johnson (1979), along with their table numbers and our computations, are presented in Table 3. Almost all of the items show statistically significant mean differences such that blacks are more precocious and less sexually restrained than whites. Their parents were younger when they were born (19,20), had more children (31), and died earlier (28,29). Compared to whites the black respondents in this sample entered puberty at a later age (53), but did tend to leave home earlier (30).

They experienced a variety of premarital, marital, and extramarital sexual events earlier (100, 135, 199 ,218 ,297 ,348), had a greater number of premarital and extramarital sexual partners (239,342,351), a greater frequency of intercourse (326, but see 327), used fewer contraceptives (308), and had a greater incidence of pregnancy (268), at a faster rate (301). The black men had larger penises than the white men (69,70,71,72), at a different angle of erection (74), and maintained intromission longer (324). Black women had shorter menstrual cycles than white women (90,91), showed a nonsignificant tendency to more periodicity of sexual response (99), and to a greater number of orgasms per act of coitus (340). Whites varied their sexual activity more than blacks, both with their spouses (322,323,329) and with prostitutes (374), although blacks consorted with prostitutes more frequently (367). Compared to whites, blacks also had a shorter duration of marriage (29 I) and had more permissive sexual attitudes (183,227,228,355).

http://philipperushton.net/wp-conte...-John-Philippe-Rushton-Anthony-F.-Bogaert.pdf

in·tro·mis·sion - noun: the action or process of inserting the penis into the vagina in sexual intercourse.

That was the closest I could find.. if anyone knows how to read the chart then explain the duration difference please.

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The democratic response...

Race differences in sexual behavior: A critique of Rushton and Bogaert's evolutionary hypothesis

Abstract
Rushton and Bogaert (1987) presented evidence of race differences in sexual behavior, sex-related physical characteristics, and sex-related physiological processes. They argued that these data supported a theory of genetic race differences in [img class="imgLazyJSB inlineImage" height="18" width="32" alt="Full-size image (<1>reproductive strategies. Rushton and Bogaert's (1987) article is criticized here on four grounds. First, they did not explain why natural selection would have favored different reproductive strategies for different races. Second, their data on race differences are of questionable validity because their literature review was selective and their original analyses were based on self-reports. Third, they provided no evidence that these race differences had significant effects on reproduction or that sexual restraint is a K characteristic. Finally, they did not adequately rule out environmental explanations for their data.
 
Sad state of affairs, lasting more than 20 min in the sack=Superman.
well..yeah..if the average duration of non stop stroking is less than 10 minutes then yeah lasting 20 minutes IS a significant jump

question..are you doing this
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for 20 minutes straight?
 
Imho...if a dude is fucking a girls pussy for over 45 mins and he hasnt bust yet..then her pussy is either useless/blewout or he aint got enough dick to feel any friction. I dont understand how a dude can last longer than 45mins in some GOOD PUSSY. Great mind control??

Your relationship with the female should also be a factor. You shouldnt be putting in too much work and sweating your ass off if you fucking jumpsoffs & side bitches. Pleasing jumpoffs and side bitches shouldnt be a concern of yours. If she gets off, cool. If she doesnt, thats cool as well.

Theres no universal pleasure button. Different strokes for different folks. But imho, once you got some years under your belt and u got a understanding of who youre dealing with, then you should be able to satisfy her in 20-30 mins (foreplay excluded). If youre younger and youre learning...then it takes more time.
 
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this dude busts TWO nuts in UNDER 2 MINUTES and cats are saying youre supposed to do more than 45 minutes in the pussy??
 
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Race Differences in Sexual Behavior: Testing an Evolutionary Hypothesis

Concomitant differences are found in sexual attitudes. In Ford and Beach's (1951) survey, the Asian groups were the most likely to endorse beliefs concerning the weakening effects of intercourse. A review by Vernon (1982) led him to conclude that both the Chinese and the Japanese were not only less experienced in premarital sex, but also less permissive, and less concerned with sexual display than Caucasians. For example, Connor (1975, 1976) found three generations of Japanese-Americans, as well as Japanese students in Japan, reported less interest in sex than caucasian samples.

Abramson and Imari-Marquez (1982) observed that each of three generations of Japanese-Americans showed more sex guilt than matched Caucasian Americans. In studies carried out in Britain and Japan using a sex fantasy questionnaire, Iwawaki and Wilson (1983) found that British men reported twice as many fantasies as Japanese men, and British women admitted to four times as much sex fantasy as Japanese women. In contrast, African-descended people are more permissive than Caucasians. Reiss (1967) observed this with several hundred black and white university students in the United States on scales measuring premarital sexual attitudes (e.g., approving of or feeling guilt about petting and intercourse in casual and romantic relationships), results replicated with other samples and measuring instruments (Heltsley & Broderick, 1969; Sutker & Gilliard, 1970). Johnson (1978) also compared black and white premarital sexual attitudes and behavior and included a Swedish sample who were expected to be (and were) more permissive than American whites. The black sample (particularly males) were found to have had intercourse earlier and with a greater number of casual partners, and with less feelings of guilt or distaste, than either white sample.

In a study of sex fantasies, Price and Miller (1984) found that black men and women had higher mean frequencies than white men and women, and that whites more than blacks were prone to feel guilt for having them.
The ethnographic record [e.g., A French Army Surgeon (1898/1972), a 30-year specialist in genitourinary diseases] makes reference to numerous anatomical distinctions which show a similar pattern of whites being between blacks and Orientals. These include the placement of female genitals (Orientals front and high; blacks back and low); angle and texture of erection (Orientals parallel to body and stiff, blacks at right angles to body and flexible); salient buttocks, breasts, and muscularity (Orientals least, blacks most); and size of genitalia (Orientals smallest, blacks largest). We averaged the ethnographic data on erect penis and found the means to approximate: Orientals, 4 to 5.5 in. in length and 1.25 in. in diameter; Caucasians, 5.5 to 6 in. in length and 1.5 in. in diameter; blacks, 6.25 to 8 in. in length and 2 in. in diameter. Women were proportionate to men, with Orientals having smaller vaginas and blacks larger ones, relative to Caucasians. Clitoral size differed in length: in European women, 1.2 in.; in African women, 2 in. variations were noted: in the French West Indies, the size of the penis and vagina covaried with amount of black admixture; Arab men, who were often mixed with black, had larger penises than Europeans.



RESULTS

The items from Gebhard and Johnson (1979), along with their table numbers and our computations, are presented in Table 3. Almost all of the items show statistically significant mean differences such that blacks are more precocious and less sexually restrained than whites. Their parents were younger when they were born (19,20), had more children (31), and died earlier (28,29). Compared to whites the black respondents in this sample entered puberty at a later age (53), but did tend to leave home earlier (30).

They experienced a variety of premarital, marital, and extramarital sexual events earlier (100, 135, 199 ,218 ,297 ,348), had a greater number of premarital and extramarital sexual partners (239,342,351), a greater frequency of intercourse (326, but see 327), used fewer contraceptives (308), and had a greater incidence of pregnancy (268), at a faster rate (301). The black men had larger penises than the white men (69,70,71,72), at a different angle of erection (74), and maintained intromission longer (324). Black women had shorter menstrual cycles than white women (90,91), showed a nonsignificant tendency to more periodicity of sexual response (99), and to a greater number of orgasms per act of coitus (340). Whites varied their sexual activity more than blacks, both with their spouses (322,323,329) and with prostitutes (374), although blacks consorted with prostitutes more frequently (367). Compared to whites, blacks also had a shorter duration of marriage (29 I) and had more permissive sexual attitudes (183,227,228,355).

http://philipperushton.net/wp-conte...-John-Philippe-Rushton-Anthony-F.-Bogaert.pdf

in·tro·mis·sion - noun: the action or process of inserting the penis into the vagina in sexual intercourse.

That was the closest I could find.. if anyone knows how to read the chart then explain the duration difference please.

charts.png

Man. You white guys just expose yourselves. What's next? You're going to start posting stats from the Bell Curve?

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The author of this bullshit used to run the Pioneer Fund.
 
Race Differences in Sexual Behavior: Testing an Evolutionary Hypothesis

Concomitant differences are found in sexual attitudes. In Ford and Beach's (1951) survey, the Asian groups were the most likely to endorse beliefs concerning the weakening effects of intercourse. A review by Vernon (1982) led him to conclude that both the Chinese and the Japanese were not only less experienced in premarital sex, but also less permissive, and less concerned with sexual display than Caucasians. For example, Connor (1975, 1976) found three generations of Japanese-Americans, as well as Japanese students in Japan, reported less interest in sex than caucasian samples.

Abramson and Imari-Marquez (1982) observed that each of three generations of Japanese-Americans showed more sex guilt than matched Caucasian Americans. In studies carried out in Britain and Japan using a sex fantasy questionnaire, Iwawaki and Wilson (1983) found that British men reported twice as many fantasies as Japanese men, and British women admitted to four times as much sex fantasy as Japanese women. In contrast, African-descended people are more permissive than Caucasians. Reiss (1967) observed this with several hundred black and white university students in the United States on scales measuring premarital sexual attitudes (e.g., approving of or feeling guilt about petting and intercourse in casual and romantic relationships), results replicated with other samples and measuring instruments (Heltsley & Broderick, 1969; Sutker & Gilliard, 1970). Johnson (1978) also compared black and white premarital sexual attitudes and behavior and included a Swedish sample who were expected to be (and were) more permissive than American whites. The black sample (particularly males) were found to have had intercourse earlier and with a greater number of casual partners, and with less feelings of guilt or distaste, than either white sample.

In a study of sex fantasies, Price and Miller (1984) found that black men and women had higher mean frequencies than white men and women, and that whites more than blacks were prone to feel guilt for having them.
The ethnographic record [e.g., A French Army Surgeon (1898/1972), a 30-year specialist in genitourinary diseases] makes reference to numerous anatomical distinctions which show a similar pattern of whites being between blacks and Orientals. These include the placement of female genitals (Orientals front and high; blacks back and low); angle and texture of erection (Orientals parallel to body and stiff, blacks at right angles to body and flexible); salient buttocks, breasts, and muscularity (Orientals least, blacks most); and size of genitalia (Orientals smallest, blacks largest). We averaged the ethnographic data on erect penis and found the means to approximate: Orientals, 4 to 5.5 in. in length and 1.25 in. in diameter; Caucasians, 5.5 to 6 in. in length and 1.5 in. in diameter; blacks, 6.25 to 8 in. in length and 2 in. in diameter. Women were proportionate to men, with Orientals having smaller vaginas and blacks larger ones, relative to Caucasians. Clitoral size differed in length: in European women, 1.2 in.; in African women, 2 in. variations were noted: in the French West Indies, the size of the penis and vagina covaried with amount of black admixture; Arab men, who were often mixed with black, had larger penises than Europeans.



RESULTS

The items from Gebhard and Johnson (1979), along with their table numbers and our computations, are presented in Table 3. Almost all of the items show statistically significant mean differences such that blacks are more precocious and less sexually restrained than whites. Their parents were younger when they were born (19,20), had more children (31), and died earlier (28,29). Compared to whites the black respondents in this sample entered puberty at a later age (53), but did tend to leave home earlier (30).

They experienced a variety of premarital, marital, and extramarital sexual events earlier (100, 135, 199 ,218 ,297 ,348), had a greater number of premarital and extramarital sexual partners (239,342,351), a greater frequency of intercourse (326, but see 327), used fewer contraceptives (308), and had a greater incidence of pregnancy (268), at a faster rate (301). The black men had larger penises than the white men (69,70,71,72), at a different angle of erection (74), and maintained intromission longer (324). Black women had shorter menstrual cycles than white women (90,91), showed a nonsignificant tendency to more periodicity of sexual response (99), and to a greater number of orgasms per act of coitus (340). Whites varied their sexual activity more than blacks, both with their spouses (322,323,329) and with prostitutes (374), although blacks consorted with prostitutes more frequently (367). Compared to whites, blacks also had a shorter duration of marriage (29 I) and had more permissive sexual attitudes (183,227,228,355).

http://philipperushton.net/wp-conte...-John-Philippe-Rushton-Anthony-F.-Bogaert.pdf

in·tro·mis·sion - noun: the action or process of inserting the penis into the vagina in sexual intercourse.

That was the closest I could find.. if anyone knows how to read the chart then explain the duration difference please.

charts.png
Wait, they put this much research into fucking??:eek:
:lol::lol:
 
30 minutes. 4 times a week.

Playing with that ass and those tittties for about 5-10 minutes.

Eating pussy for about 10-15 minutes until she busts.

Slow stroking from the back or side for about 5-10 minutes. Change position when I feel the nut coming.

Hard fucking with legs up for about 5-10 minutes.

Nut.

Randomly insert a fingering session, spanking or dirty talk once in a while.

This does not include dinner, entertainment, and dancing... or the post fuck spooning and caressing which is all part of it.



I don't fuck on counter tops or the floor anymore. Splinters and carpet burns got old.

Don't fuck in the car anymore - tired of pussy juice and nut on my upholstery.

Don't fuck on the couch anymore - hard to clean out the post-fuck funk that seeps into the cushions. Everybody can smell that shit when they stretch out on it. (I will fuck on anyone's IKEA couch though...)
That is what old towels are for..
 
The article is good. Naturally, i'd tend to want to cum in a few min. That said, sex isn't about self gratification. Ego,fear, and social norms are factors too. Because of this, i've worked diligently to be able to either last a long time or to be able to get right back in the pussy. If it was 100% about my personal sexual gratification with no thought of hers, then yes i'd try to cum as soon as possible which could very well be under 5 min.
sex is about procreation...it feels good because if you could produce offspring by doing stomach crunches
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the world population would be about 300 people :giggle::giggle::giggle:
 
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