I was just playing with what I said earlier, but I do think its bullshit that women can have a mans child without his approval, because she can damn sure get an abortion without his approval. Its one of those things I feel you cant have both ways.
You can spot the dead beats in this thread. Get a woman pregnant then turn her into the villain for not having an abortion. Only if you there was a law to force women to have an abortion or a law for dead beats who didn't want to have a child in the first place to have no responsibility right?
How would you be a father without providing financial support?who said anything about denial, Im talking finances not visitation rights..
you guys are just makin shit up now...
His greatest fear is that he starts paying child support then one day see's the mother with a new purse because God forbid the mother of his child buys anything that isn't food or diapers.How would you be a father without providing financial support?
you dont have a right to make her do anything,
Im just saying a man should be allowed to be part of the decision making process..
and if soley her decision to have the baby then its soley her financial responsibility to take care of it.......
since it came out of HER body and its HER choice it should be HER financial responsibilty....
its a different world we live in now... women can drive trucks and become police officers....
thats all Im saying..
if a man cant take part in the decision making process it should
relieve him of any financial responsibility...
How would you be a father without providing financial support?
Again.....when you go in unprotected that's you making your decision.
Full Financial responsibility? What kind of coward shit is that....Smh....y'all Kat's please stay protected
The reason why the courts are setup like this is because guys like you would probably drop off some clothes or food at the kid's door and tap yourself on the back like you did your part.being a good father is more than just
throwing money at the situation...
Im not saying not help out financially, Im just saying legally
the courts shouldnt be able to stick you with a bill because of another persons choices...
why should he be financially responsible if it is soley her choice is the real question??
ive been looking into that shit legally. It's totally unfair to men how the law is. The same thing goes for the reverse situation.. If she gets pregnant and he wants it, she has 100% say if the baby gets aborted or not. These laws need to be evened out. If America is all for equal rights then men's issues need to be addressedI don't like that this happened at all. Two people had sex but only one gets to make a decision on whether to bring a child into the world. It is the male who is usually financially responsible for 18-21 years.
There are women who would keep the baby as a tie to keeping the man. There should be a fuck contract. It would say something like "We enter into sex knowing that a pregnancy could result, while we will both take measures to avoid this, if it should happen the father will not be financially responsible if he does not want the child and the mother does not wish to abort it."
Sounds cruel and low level but if people knew going in that there was a legal and binding contract in place they would make different decisions. My 2 cents
what if you go in protected and she still gets pregnito,
you do know just because you wear a hat, doesnt ensure she will NOT get pregnant..
and what if she pokes holes in the condom??
what if she gets your condom out the garbage and saves your seeds??
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...-steal-husbands-sperm-ultimate-deception.html
again you aint got to preach to me son....
Im good in the hood!!
They already have contracts with men who agree to donate their sperm to a chick they know that wants a baby. Under the condition that they are not held liable for child support. No court has recognized such contracts yet and the men all have had to pay child support.I don't like that this happened at all. Two people had sex but only one gets to make a decision on whether to bring a child into the world. It is the male who is usually financially responsible for 18-21 years.
There are women who would keep the baby as a tie to keeping the man. There should be a fuck contract. It would say something like "We enter into sex knowing that a pregnancy could result, while we will both take measures to avoid this, if it should happen the father will not be financially responsible if he does not want the child and the mother does not wish to abort it."
Sounds cruel and low level but if people knew going in that there was a legal and binding contract in place they would make different decisions. My 2 cents
Whilst I agree it's unfair that a woman can have an abortion at her own choice, with or without the man's consent, that's just one of the many double standards in life you have to accept.
As men, we don't carry the child for 9 months nor do we have to give birth. No one held a gun to this "man's" head and forced him to nut in her. He's a piece of shit for laying his hands on her. Now he can add convict, deadbeat and woman beater to his shitty repertoire.
this is why I'm never serious on Bgol.
If you probably wear a condom its 99% effective...ie she wont get pregnant...bring your own condoms and dispose of your own condoms....although I know you're just being extra....you sound like a teen boy![]()
The reason why the courts are setup like this is because guys like you would probably drop off some clothes or food at the kid's door and tap yourself on the back like you did your part.
if a chick thinks having a baby is soley her decision,
then she should be in a position to take care of the child..
because its her choice in the man she choose to spread her legs open for, and her choice to have the child,
then she should be financially responsible...
these laws were written at a time when most women stayed home and the man was the sole bread winner..
again its a different time now....
you act like you stuck in the late fifties....
when it comes to reality...
get grip ol fart, get a grip!!!
Agree. Double standards means no solution to satisfy both individuals. So the man must adapt and be mindful.
This is due to the way the human anatomy constituted, where women tend to get worn out both mentally and physically the more they get fucked... All you have to do is look at porn starts and see how fucked up the females stars get after ten years in the business as opposed to the male actors.Well in the Keisha Knight Pulliam thread I was told the double standard of men being able to have multiple partners and be a stud while women were hoes was part of society and God's set up and that women just have to deal because that's just the way it is. I suggest they take their own advice in these types of situations.
This is due to the way the human anatomy constituted, where women tend to get worn out both mentally and physically the more they get fucked... All you have to do is look at porn starts and see how fucked up the females stars get after ten years in the business as opposed to the male actors.
But you girls have it good when it comes to money, if you look good and you are broke no one holds it against y'all, but let a male not have that money he ain't shit.
Bottom line, there are certain things that work out for women while others that work out for us guys, so it makes no sense gripping and fighting for things that women are not equal at while ignoring the things that work out for you women... Thats my main gripe with most fems, they only want things equal when if benefits them never when it works in their favor!!!!
Somebody spoke about having to accept double standards. I guess this is one of them.Really? So you think it is the being fucked and not the drugs, the violence and the being used that goes along with all that?
I'm not speaking of career sex workers anyway. I'm speaking of regular women. A man can fuck a different woman every week for the next 10 years but let a woman state she's had 10 partners and she's no longer fit for polite company. SMH.
The male porn guys do all that stuff too.. But from what I've seen no matter how much a woman says they like sex, if they have a number of sex partners it seems to fuck with them more than us guys.Really? So you think it is the being fucked and not the drugs, the violence and the being used that goes along with all that?
I'm not speaking of career sex workers anyway. I'm speaking of regular women. A man can fuck a different woman every week for the next 10 years but let a woman state she's had 10 partners and she's no longer fit for polite company. SMH.
Somebody spoke about having to accept double standards. I guess this is one of them.
Really? So you think it is the being fucked and not the drugs, the violence and the being used that goes along with all that?
I'm not speaking of career sex workers anyway. I'm speaking of regular women. A man can fuck a different woman every week for the next 10 years but let a woman state she's had 10 partners and she's no longer fit for polite company. SMH.
Well in the Keisha Knight Pulliam thread I was told the double standard of men being able to have multiple partners and be a stud while women were hoes was part of society and God's set up and that women just have to deal because that's just the way it is. I suggest they take their own advice in these types of situations.
But that would be your child. How could you simply walk away
As far as regular women, their pussy elasticity wears out the more she is fucked, so........ Yeah every man knows this....
I sound like I'm in the 50's yet you sound like a cave man, go figure....
When it comes to reality you can't and never will be able to force a woman to get an abortion....and a MAN wouldn't want a woman to have full Financial responsibility for his child
Smoke is killing your brain cells
Look I know you want the world to be one way, but its not...Seriously? So yall limiting the number of times you fuck your wives to keep the pussy tight? Or is that the excuse for multiple partners now? You realize muscles control that and babies pass through there, right? SMH please do me a favor and just stop typing.
what makes a woman think she can make choices alone that effects another man financially..
it takes two to tango so it should take two to
make a decision...
its HER body but HIS seed...
why is the latter always left out of the equation??
told u. Fuckbois will do this. And believe the drivel they say.Seriously? So yall limiting the number of times you fuck your wives to keep the pussy tight? Or is that the excuse for multiple partners now? You realize muscles control that and babies pass through there, right? SMH please do me a favor and just stop typing.