DAMN, PAM! Tichina Arnold mass texts sex tape names 20+ hoes raw dogged by her husband
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its hard to control your emotions when your trust has been violated. Could she have handled it low key sure but she wants him to hurt like he hurt her.
Looking at some of the posts its clear that a good number of cats have absolutely NO IDEA what the words TRUST, LOYALTY AND FIDELITY mean at all. And whats really fucked up is to see their victim blaming attitude even when its crystal clear that she was wronged..somehow its STILL her fault.
Some cats on bgol feel and think about women who've been cheated on the SAME EXACT WAY racist cacs feel and think about black people and police brutality. And the statements are almost identical:
IF ONLY THEY (blacks with police or women with cheating men) HAD JUST.... or THEY SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER THAN TO.... THE COP OR MAN WAS WRONG BUT...
Always some excuse or deflection from the person who fucked up someone elses life...
Don't get what, wanting to see his homegrown sex tapes???Uh, you must be new here. Aint that what BGOL is about???
She fucked up by sending those texts out. I understand her position considering he violated her trust. He may have had the go ahead to sleep with other women but with stipulations. If not he fucked up no matter what. Under any circumstances, you should never raw dog a woman who doesn't mean that much to you. Shit... I am too afraid to do it because I don't want to catch some shit, but this cat had 20 women.
A woman can be great in bed and make a cat feel like a king but he is still going to want to fuck other women. The same for women. A lot of men don't realize that women would do a lot more things if they weren't so easily damaged by that type of behavior.
A woman can be great in bed and make a cat feel like a king but he is still going to want to fuck other women. The same for women. A lot of men don't realize that women would do a lot more things if they weren't so easily damaged by that type of behavior.
in what way exactly???
as to the last part...its about control. Sexism and racism are almost identical twins in that it boils down to controlling the other. Slut shaming is way of controlling womens sexual behavior.
She sent out revenge porn. It is not a good move for her. Give that shit to her lawyer to use in the court, but don't send it out to a bunch of people which could in turn be sent out to others.
I think I alluded to stifling women's sexuality about being about control.
Because we want to watch it later. Duh
Exactly. She fucked up. Now when you think of her she's not just "Pam from Martin" she's now "Pam from Martin that got cheated on by her husband"... first thing comes to mind after all the sad feeling for her is "what wasn't she doing as a wife that had dude cheating"???
Is she a bitch at home? Stingy with the pussy? Is she emotionally unavailable??
-If you're not ready (or capable) of fidelity, why get married?
-If you're gonna fuck around on your spouse, why would you do it RAW??
-If you're gonna fuck around on your spouse, and do it raw, why would you tape yourself???
Deceit, Disrespect & Stupidity in vast amounts...
I don't understand that shit at all.
You have issues with women
its hard to control your emotions when your trust has been violated. Could she have handled it low key sure but she wants him to hurt like he hurt her.
Looking at some of the posts its clear that a good number of cats have absolutely NO IDEA what the words TRUST, LOYALTY AND FIDELITY mean at all. And whats really fucked up is to see their victim blaming attitude even when its crystal clear that she was wronged..somehow its STILL her fault.
Some cats on bgol feel and think about women who've been cheated on the SAME EXACT WAY racist cacs feel and think about black people and police brutality. And the statements are almost identical:
IF ONLY THEY (blacks with police or women with cheating men) HAD JUST.... or THEY SHOULD HAVE KNOWN BETTER THAN TO.... THE COP OR MAN WAS WRONG BUT...
Always some excuse or deflection from the person who fucked up someone elses life...
You sound more female than Esther with this one
Yeah, in trying to embarrass him, she also embarrassed herself.
"Niggas" never had loyalty from the get
All the mangina thinkin dudes on BGOL always say "you have issues with women" when you actually hold them accountable for their fuckery and dont put them on a pedestal. You can tell the dudes who grew up raised by single moms that identify more with a woman than a man.
According to the average person here it wouldn't matter if she was the perfect wife.she should expect her husband to cheat at some point and it has nothing to do with anything she is lacking.
If she has never cheated during their marriage, I can't fault her for what she did or expecting her husband to be faithful.now if at any point she has done the same, she was completely wrong.I also have to question if dude even cared that much about her considering he recorded the shit.
If he wanted that type of relationship, he could have found someone who was like minded and married that person. The problem is the average man can't handle the idea of sharing their wife and even in an open relationship he still broke too many rules.
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Thank you!!!!
A lot of these dudes be spending quality time with fuck buddies.
Kissing em....eating jump offfs pussies...having deep conversations with em
Skeet and go home!!
Btw...even if u film yourself with your girl, make sure you keep the copy. Especially if your girl aint afraid of you. Cause when a female gets pissed off over the smallest of things.....the gloves come off.
All that is irrelevant. You can provide your partner with the best sex, all the money etc etc. They aint gonna stop cheating until they get that cheating shit out their system.
Only thing that she can be blamed for is being blind or acting phony.
More than likely she knew about his ways long before....yet she waited.....
What for???
Blame yourself for your bad decision making skills
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I wouldn't say you hate women but you may be excusing his behavior because you do similar or don't see a problem with it when a man does it. If this would have been the other way around, I could see some people here having the same attitude but most of you would be calling her a bitch etc and praising him for putting her out there.i would just want to see the video.
I'm not sure if I'm reading you correctly but it seems like you are saying we should all be sheep/group think because we are men.for me it doesn't matter if it is sex or race right is right and wrong is wrong.he made the mistake and hopefully can handle the backlash as a man.there are times I may support people just because they are black, men, from my city etc, but this isn't one of them.
His wife is holding him accountable for his infidelity and none of us have the right to question or judge her punishment.
I'm not excusing his behavior. She needs to bounce from dude and could've did so without making a spectacle of herself. All Im saying is, handling it in the manner she is is very telling and there's more to this story than is being presented. If a man did this same woe is me Im gonna mass text everybody bullshit I'd say the same thing.
Blame the black man action is in full effect.
Even tho he didn't send not one text about they business
It's always the black man fault.
She could have kept it private and got him some additional help for his problems
Nope
She wanted to air him out.
This shit made me laugh
No, you can tell people who were taught morals and live by certain codes.
You being a fuck boy and not being able to get women has caused you to hate and lash out at them. Instead of looking in the mirror to evaluate the problem, you've chosen the unhealthy diversion route.
His actions caused a reaction. What he did was wrong, bottom line. Not only was it dangerous for himself, it was dangerous for her. A man is supposed to protect his woman and family. Not bring the risk of AIDS or numerous other STD's. Raw? Besides being dishonorable and disrespectful. Filming it? When you're cheating you know the results might not end well. Filming it, dude just didn't give a fuck about her or their marriage. He just wanted to marry Beady B, because it was a good look. If he couldn't stay faithful, he shouldn't have married or or asked for a divorce. It's 2016, he didn't have to be married.
See this is what a MAN learns. Maybe some day you will be one boy. Just because you had a father doesn't mean he taught you shit, because obviously he didn't. It's obvious you never saw a healthy relationship at home. Read my shit a couple of times and learn, maybe some of the fuck boy juice will go away and you'll get on the way to maintaining a healthy relationship.
Complex typing paragraphs and shit. Just like a woman. All emotion. You still a bitch that dont got 1. 
Complex typing paragraphs and shit. Just like a woman. All emotion. You still a bitch that dont got 1.
I get women, can you say the same? Isn't that why you're bitter?
Ironic you said emotion, because there's been nothing logical about anything you've typed.
But hey, at least you have Cam and Lebron to keep you warm at night.
I agree. If you foolish enough to cheat on your wife at least protect yourself.
He did in fact start the the problem. She reacted to the situation at hand. Without the video, there would be no airing out.if she keeps to her word, she is helping him by allowing him to be himself and potentially helping anyone who may deal with him in the future make an educated decision before becoming serious with him. this guy was not addicted to drugs and she put his business out there.
She didn't play the back and forth cheating game as far as we know or try to kill him. If making it a public matter is a healthy outlet for her to vent or express herself, I know I wouldn't care especially if I was guilty and she was faithful.
But you didn't say I was wrong
you can't admit it so you try to insult.Also she ALREADY been embarrassed by her husband cheating on with 20 women..no matter how you look at it its ALWAYS going to be "Pam from Martin that got cheated on by her husband" SHE'S the most well known person in that couple not him..so her getting out in front of the news publicly doesn't matter as far as her embarrassment goes that horse already left the barn the second he started fucking around.
A phrase commonly used by ULTRA - Feminist types and the men that identify with them.
Not at all. People don't know in MOST cases what's going on in your home UNLESS you tell them. Her being famous has nothing to do with it. Shit my neighbor has 4 kids with his wife and recently moved out it took us months to figure out he wasn't living there anymore. We still don't know the whole story.
cmon dude those two things are even in the same galaxy... you really think if pam (note we refer to her as her most famous character name) quietly got divorced that NOBODY would inquire in black media?? Not media takeout not nicole bitchy not any of those gossip blogs?? you don't think some "unnamed source" wouldn't drop that her husband pulled a tiger woods and because shes more famous and clearly the bigger bread winner she can't even get paid off his ass for putting her thru bullshit??
There is NO WAY this is going to stay quiet and behind closed doors in today's social media climate for even a C list celebrity like her...you know it and I know it.
AAAAAaaaaaaaAAAAAAnnnnnddd she could have talked about it when she was ready. It could have all been speculation until she confirmed it. She's not THAT famous and isn't an A-list actress. Tell me why Kadeem Hardison and Chante' Moore got divorced? Quick! Quick..!....right....
no one knows and no one cares.
I see Complex is still a huge faggot. I'll wait for his predictable emotional rebuttal.
AAAAAaaaaaaaAAAAAAnnnnnddd she could have talked about it when she was ready. It could have all been speculation until she confirmed it. She's not THAT famous and isn't an A-list actress. Tell me why Kadeem Hardison and Chante' Moore got divorced? Quick! Quick..!....right....
she DID talk about when she was ready..she tweeted about in detail...so what was your point again??
she DID talk about when she was ready..she tweeted about in detail...so what was your point again??
My point was you are saying SHE had to put it out there to get in front of it when SHE didn't need to. It wasn't that important that the world needed to know. She was just mad and made a rash decision as most women do when they are mad. She acted in the moment. I feel sad for the husband the poor guy...LOL
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nothing any celebrity does at any level is important for the world to know
Where was she when her husband was fucking all those women?
You get called one often?
I see in 2016 you're still on my dick after my attention.
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