Why are there so many Single Moms in the Black Community

The institution of marriage isn't seen as necessary in the Black community. We claim to be a Church based community but not really.

Maybe we are ahead of the times because most people are calling bullshit on Marriage.
 
The institution of marriage isn't seen as necessary in the Black community. We claim to be a Church based community but not really.

A woman will "accidentally" get pregnant or say "it just happened", but you rarely hear black women say they "accidentally" got married or "it just happened".

All of the "strong" women are single moms, very rarely do you hear married black women defined as that. Even black married women no longer want to be grouped with the low hanging fruit.
 
This is how a lot of black males get trapped... They get a chick pregnant, don't put his name on the birth certificate, get state aid and section 8, while stacking their chips off the book... Sounds like a great plan, that is until the chick catches you doing something your not supposed to do, then its fuck you, I know who the daddy is, then you are sent to jail for failing to pay the back log of money you owe..
Think about it, one of every five men are in jail due to child support, we need to open our eyes and know how the game is designed to destroy us!!!

Or take the steps to prevent this from happening.
if you get a test taken and its your kid your name should be on the birth certificate period.

everything else is natural order of things.

guys don't catch girls cheating and go oh alright then its all part of the game ill move on and not try and get back at her or call her any names or act hurt lol
 
A woman will "accidentally" get pregnant or say "it just happened", but you rarely hear black women say they "accidentally" got married or "it just happened".

All of the "strong" women are single moms, very rarely do you hear married black women defined as that. Even black married women no longer want to be grouped with the low hanging fruit.

If its an accident like let, hmmmm me think of one :puzzled:. Ok I got one, getting hit by falling trees... Why does it not happen randomly impacting everyone equally..
Because according to every stat I've read, these so called accident with kids happens to one group of women way more than others. This group of course is the poor and uneducated women.... Here is the twist it only started spiraling out of control right after they started rewarding them for their so called "accidents"..:rolleyes:
 
So dudes are proposing to chicks and the chicks are saying we don't want to get married lol?

that's what you're saying.

you and i both know that shit ain't got no kernel of truth to it.
they not opting to be single mothers
dudes are opting to be deadbeat dads

That's not what I'm saying. I never said women are turning down men who propose.

By choosing not to delay pregnancy until marriage instead choosing to be single parents they have essentially opted out of marriage for single morherhood.
 
That's not what I'm saying. I never said women are turning down men who propose.

By choosing not to delay pregnancy until marriage instead choosing to be single parents they have essentially opted out of marriage for single morherhood.

so by that same token the guys choosing to have kids out of wedlock are choosing out of being married for single father hood?
 
Or take the steps to prevent this from happening.
if you get a test taken and its your kid your name should be on the birth certificate period.

everything else is natural order of things.

guys don't catch girls cheating and go oh alright then its all part of the game ill move on and not try and get back at her or call her any names or act hurt lol

Man most simps arn't thinking that way... All they see is free pussy, a cheap place to crash, smoke sum dubs play video games and chill.. In all of their minds their shorty is chill and all that talk about bitches being foul is a bunch of old bitter men who fucked themselves over in life.. But also remember the best laid traps are lined with honey and sugar...
Remember I am old and wise enough to see this shit happen to three generations first hand so I know how the game is played..
 
so by that same token the guys choosing to have kids out of wedlock are choosing out of being married for single father hood?

Ask a hundred men if they had a choice in having a child out of wedlock, and I bet you 90% would say very little... However every woman having a baby is out of choice.. This is why smart women choose not to, and dumb women do..
 
So dudes are proposing to chicks and the chicks are saying we don't want to get married lol?

that's what you're saying.

you and i both know that shit ain't got no kernel of truth to it.
they not opting to be single mothers
dudes are opting to be deadbeat dads

and look up what single means. it means not married. doesn't mean both parents aren't in the household raising the kids.

so maybe we need to revise the world single when it comes to black single mothers
i know plenty of relationships where they are together, going to be together, live together raise a family together but don't want to get married because it ain't necessary to define their relationship.

Well then why question women opting out of single motherhood whether they turned down a man who propsosed or just had an unplanned pregancy to term? Either way they've opted out.

Single moms is typically defined by unmarried woman with children even if the man is present. For the purposes of welfare and other state benefits she is classified as a single mother. Could the definition be changed, perhaps.

Point is it's a decision being made by them. No one is forcing them into it and they are not the victim of someone else's wrong doing.

Why are they dead beat dads?

So men have no choice in deciding when they should become fathers?
 
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Just sorry ass dudes nuttin sorry ass chics, nothin more.

Smart women with money get nutted in also... Remember, don't get caught up in the hype thinking hetro sex is bad... The difference is smart women do what it takes to protect herself and her children, no relying on the man...
Think of it this way fellas... If we had birth control pills, the morning after pills, all the other shit that you can protect yourself, and abortions, by a show of hands how many of you would ever in your lifetime accidentally get a chick pregnant?
If you find one man to say yes, then he has to be the dumbest man on the planet... Point Blank...
 
so by that same token the guys choosing to have kids out of wedlock are choosing out of being married for single father hood?

Essentially yes.

It takes two to get married if one decides they don't want to then there will be no marriage.

If women insisted on marriage before sex there would be less single mothers.

Women choose to have babies out of wedlock because they can.
 
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Pussy(from all races of American women) is too easy to get. This isn't the 1940s or 50s when women were ashamed to be single with children. Now, it's a badge of honor. :smh:

Hey, this is what feminism gets you. Pussy easier to get than ever, but a family breakdown as a result.
 
Sex is a very primordial force and depending on the amount of testosterone a man has the controlling forces of sex may vary...
But its not the act of sex that produces bastard children, because if thats the case porn chicks would all have at least 15..
What causes children is choice and right now the only choices men have is to abstain (not realistic, thats like telling a fag not to be a fag) or to wear rubbers taking away from the pleasure in only the male...
Women on the other hand have many choices and none of them takes away from her pleasure and her ability to enjoy sex..
The trap is planted around this concept.. By rewarding women to trick men in to pregnancy and punishing them, it give the women a sense of entitlement and power while giving little regard to the well being of her children..
She is allowed to make mistake after mistake, while being rewarded for her actions, while the man is often thrown in jail after one mistake...
Here is a perfect example of this bullshit in action...
Notice how this bitch feels that its the world responsibility (see vidio below) to care for her mistakes...
Now imagine a deadbeat dad with 15 kids demanding the world to take care of his mistakes like this....:smh:
If you take away the women golden parachute, I bet you overnight the amounts of bastard birth would drop dramatically...
Notice its the dumb ass chicks with out any money that seem to be having these accidental births, hardly anyone else.., because according to the chart when they get money or brains the accidental birth stop occurring... What they not fucking??
Dont believe, fuck oppinion lets go to the charts..


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Maybe the question should be is why is it so hard for dumb broke bitches to protect themselves, hmmmm could it be because they see having bastards as a come up or hustle? And their stupid baby daddies too dumb or caught up into getting easy pussy to realize that its a trap..
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Well...said.

* two cents *
 
Essentially yes.

It takes two to get married if one decides they don't want to then there will be no marriage.

If women insisted on marriage before sex there would be less single mothers.

Women choose to have babies out of wedlock because they can.

The reason why there are less marriages is because marriages are just a shell of what it used to be... Back then it was sacred institution created for the well being of families and children..
That is until the Fems led by the CAC's decided they were better at governing and raising black children than black fathers and mothers together..
This is when Uncle Sam became Pappa Sam, bribed black women to get rid of the black fathers and payed them to raise them the way they want the black children raised..
Shit started kicking in around 1970 and the black family has been shit ever since...
Want to have more marriages in the black community then make marragies the way it used to be by kicking out government money and government stipulations...
 
Niggas can't resist this topic.

Because those who know, understand that the real topic is how white supremacy is using our own greed and selfishness to destroy us... The operative word is destroy. Now until we are no longer in the position of being destroyed, then this topic will remain very important and poignant in the black community..
On the contrary I find crying about the cops and racism pointless and down right stupid, that is unless you also talk about doing things to change the situation...
This subject is key to changing all of that bullshit...
 
There are to many men and women who are raised in a system designed to destroy them. The system is not conducive to the natural human mind. To many women without hope and education. And to many men without without the damn same.
 
Smart women with money get nutted in also... Remember, don't get caught up in the hype thinking hetro sex is bad... The difference is smart women do what it takes to protect herself and her children, no relying on the man...
Think of it this way fellas... If we had birth control pills, the morning after pills, all the other shit that you can protect yourself, and abortions, by a show of hands how many of you would ever in your lifetime accidentally get a chick pregnant?
If you find one man to say yes, then he has to be the dumbest man on the planet... Point Blank...

I said sorry, you can be poor or rich and still be sorry
 
I said sorry, you can be poor or rich and still be sorry

True but according to the numbers, you are much better off with a woman with brains and money making rational decisions than a woman who is dumb, and greedy..
I will say this, and many in the loop know this already... Women born outside of the U.S. tend not to have as many accidental pregnancies also.. And trust me they usually fuck more and are better at it than women in the US..
 
True but according to the numbers, you are much better off with a woman with brains and money making rational decisions than a woman who is dumb, and greedy..
I will say this, and many in the loop know this already... Women born outside of the U.S. tend not to have as many accidental pregnancies also.. And trust me they usually fuck more and are better at it than women in the US..

I said sorry, you can be smart or dumb and still be sorry
 
the guys watch too much tmz and see all these millionaires losing half their net worth, so all those broke cats are afraid that the woman might get their Xbox or shoe collection in a divorce. While ignoring the benefits of having double income under one house.

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I agree with what one dude said, these girls are getting knocked up, not by boyfriends, but by guys they are fucking whom they know - or should know - that they wasn't shit from jump.

You can say this is what happens when women judge a guy by his fuck game rather than something relevant. You could also say that these women never had a clue of what good qualities to look for in a man to start with since many have never seen a decent one...almost ever. I know that they are going to stay single, because unless it is one VERY special woman with a damned near angel of a kid - I AIN'T FUCKING WITH NO CHICK WHO GOT PROOF SHE AIN'T A VIRGIN. I'm Black, single, government job, house in the burbs, burgeoning entrepreneur with no debt and no kids of my own - Bitch please.
 
Shit a lot of women say that if they can't have a man they will wind up being one, and wind up looking just like that pic..
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Bull dykes. [emoji14]uke:

I'd fire on one of them for no apparent reason. Have them crying and calling the man like a woman again. :yes:

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