Ray Rice video punching then-fiancee emerges

She just has PTSD, she's concussed and doesn't know what she's talking about.







Sometimes others care about you more than you do...


Is she consistently being beat? People don't care about her. They care about the story and their own hypocritical self-righteousness.
 
Is she consistently being beat? People don't care about her. They care about the story and their own hypocritical self-righteousness.

You're real silly if you think he only hit her that one time

The way some of you are so casual about excusing this shit is frightening

Is this normal in y'all's lives? Cus it's definitely not normal in mine or alot of other people's. Hence the outrage from US
 
Is she consistently being beat? People don't care about her. They care about the story and their own hypocritical self-righteousness.

It looks like getting spit on and beat aren't new to her.

I think people look at it as if that were their relative how would the feel, especially since it's on video.

Should it be as big of a story as it is? I don't believe so.
 
Ain't nar person in this thread about to volunteer at a women's shelter. Faux outrage at its finest. lol
 
You're real silly if you think he only hit her that one time



The way some of you are so casual about excusing this shit is frightening



Is this normal in y'all's lives? Cus it's definitely not normal in mine or alot of other people's. Hence the outrage from US


I don't like to make assumptions either way. They were both drunk. I don't drink and don't really fuck with women that do so shit has never reached that level of angst in my relationships.
 
I hate when people say that "obama jumped in" he was ASKED a question.. this is the only president whom the media demands a answer from for damn near any negative issue involving black people:smh: Does anyone recall any other president asked to weigh in every time a white person in a fucked up situation??

How many times has he been asked about some shit Kanye did?? WTF is that?

Thank you.
 
Can I get each bgol poster in this thread to donate a few hours of their time to a women's shelter?
 
Can I get each bgol poster in this thread to donate a few hours of their time to a women's shelter?

You going too far.

Seeing domestic abuse with your own two eyes is somewhat traumatic. Not at all the same as reading or hearing about it. The video leaves a completely different impression than we had before. Thats just normal.

I wanna beat the shit outta parents who physically abuse their kids. I would do that shit for free. But ive never signed up to volunteer at a youth services center. Is something wrong with that?

It is true that the outrage is misplaced however. Being mad at the NFL but not at the actual JUSTICE SYSTEM whose sole purpose is keeping people safe and punishing those who commit crimes, well thats just plain old retarded. I dont see the judge who let Rice off in the news having to explain himself, and aint no one calling for his removal either.

But white people only get mad at the law when other white people are the victims.
 
Can I get each bgol poster in this thread to donate a few hours of their time to a women's shelter?

I currently serve the community by teaching males around me not to hit women and to just walk away.

Is that adequate for you?
 
I currently serve the community by teaching males around me not to hit women and to just walk away.



Is that adequate for you?

Nope. I'm saying this can be an opportunity for BGOLers to help on the front lines in shelters. Talk to women (and men) at the shelters to get a different perspective. Use all this outrage and energy to make a monumental change. We can do it. :yes:
 
As a woman what are your feelings about janay? I feel like Ray should have been suspended for a year but the showing of the video re-victimizes the victim.

She's been abused. Odds are that's not the first time. The sheer magnitude of things going through her mind, the conflict in her own self is beyond anything a man could understand. It's something i barely understand. I don't agree with it. I believe and i know for a fact... if he's hit you once he'll hit you again. And it'll keep escalating.

She said it best. "i had gotten past this and everyone now is dredging it back up." She married the dude. I feel sorry for the woman. My sympathy goes out to her. My empathy is hers. But then she could be going into some very dangerous territory in the future with all this stress that he's going to be going through. I feel for the sister.
 
Janya Rice is taking the public to task today. According to the New York Daily News, she made the following IG post (she's private on IG and I don't follow her)
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In an Instagram post, Janay Rice wrote that she felt like she awoke from a "horrible nightmare" and "I'm mourning the death of my closest friend."
"No one knows the pain that the media and unwanted options from the public has caused my family," her post continued. "To make us relive a moment in our lives that we regret everyday is a horrible thing. To take something away from the man I love that he has worked his ass off for all his life just to gain ratings is horrific. THIS IS OUR LIFE!"

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It's become larger than her, because it was never about her! It was always about attacking the "ENEMY" ....where was the outrage over Tito Ortiz, Jason Kidd, or Bret Myers ????

 
Since numerous bgol members be begging for links to ghetto gaggers,and similar type videos.

no surprise to me with some of these comments on here.

porn is fuggin kats minds up.
 
I edited my original post. Read it.

I read it. I'm sure all of the pre-battered women will respect and appreciate my efforts. Professionals can assist with the actual domestic violence victims.

Maybe you can arrange a movement regarding domestic violence on the grounds that "People Get Beat Everyday So Keep It Movin"... :lol:
 
Wasn't she charged with domestic violence as well? Cause if so that puts a lot of what you negroes defending her actions to shame. Domestic violence goes both ways you idiots. She may have a part to play in it as well. Now she got the end result but it doesn't excuse her part in it at all. Now I could be wrong but I don't know and neither do any of you. And that's a fact jack!
 
It's become larger than her, because it was never about her! It was always about attacking the "ENEMY" ....where was the outrage over Tito Ortiz, Jason Kidd, or Bret Myers ????




Jason Kidd been bulletproof as a mofo.

Always wondered why.

Dude beat his wife, gets DUIs...

But i never ever heard a negative thing said about him in the media.
 
It's about much more than that. NFL did fuck up.

Different issue but that cop in St. Louis still has a job. I don't see the same intensity from white folks for him to be made an example of... Shit he has support and has raised quarter of a million dollars.

All that to say, there is always a race component.. And you dismissing it is a mistake.

I'm not dismissing anything.

They are trying to make him the face of domestic violence and that's bullshit

HOWEVER

he knocked her out on video tape.

All this other shit is suspect. especially the white house responding to this shit immediately but had nothing to say about mike brown independently

HOWEVER

we can't sit here and try to defend ray rice.. he fucked all the way up.

and again of course they're going to cut him and suspend him. watch what else happens to other people other than rice......
 
She's been abused. Odds are that's not the first time. The sheer magnitude of things going through her mind, the conflict in her own self is beyond anything a man could understand. It's something i barely understand. I don't agree with it. I believe and i know for a fact... if he's hit you once he'll hit you again. And it'll keep escalating.



She said it best. "i had gotten past this and everyone now is dredging it back up." She married the dude. I feel sorry for the woman. My sympathy goes out to her. My empathy is hers. But then she could be going into some very dangerous territory in the future with all this stress that he's going to be going through. I feel for the sister.


What makes you think she hasn't abused him either? I think she did get charged as well. So she had to have been getting her hands dirty too. When people see domestic abuse, they only see the female getting abused and not the male. What happened was wrong but she has to take credit her part of the abuse she dealt out as well which she did. And when she did that, people say it's only cause she is the victim. Maybe she actually was abusing him too. The door does swing both ways. And if comes to find that I'm wrong then so be it, but I'm not going to automatically eat the food the media is putting out.
 
They don't get it, Janay. She speaks the truth. Shit happened in Feb. She moved past it, he moved past it, and the league had moved past it. Fuck a video.

now i can agree with her on that. but they don't give a fuck about that shit dude.

they just want the story.
 
When you around someone long enough fights happen. Everyone who hits a woman is not some abuser or womanizer.
 
I can't believe people are defending this dude. He knocked the bitch out with a left hook dragged her out the elevator. If somebody did that to my sister...:angry:
 
Wasn't she charged with domestic violence as well? Cause if so that puts a lot of what you negroes defending her actions to shame. Domestic violence goes both ways you idiots. She may have a part to play in it as well. Now she got the end result but it doesn't excuse her part in it at all. Now I could be wrong but I don't know and neither do any of you. And that's a fact jack!

you could've just not posted.

next time you wanna post something like this, there's a red x in the upper right hand corner.. click it, it'll make the post go through quicker.
 
Wasn't she charged with domestic violence as well? Cause if so that puts a lot of what you negroes defending her actions to shame. Domestic violence goes both ways you idiots. She may have a part to play in it as well. Now she got the end result but it doesn't excuse her part in it at all. Now I could be wrong but I don't know and neither do any of you. And that's a fact jack!

No it doesn't, it shows what kind of man Ray Rice is, before this video came out his lawyer put out a "hypothetical" scenario where she was drunk and attacking Rice in the video and when he pushed her off him she fell and hit her head and she went along with it, even got on national tv and apologized further giving people the belief that she had attacked Rice in the elevator.
 
When you around someone long enough fights happen. Everyone who hits a woman is not some abuser or womanizer.

Remember the movie BabyBoy where they were arguing and she hit him and he hit her back and then immediately felt remorse? If this situation was like that then your statement would hold some weight, but the way Rice acted in that video were the acts of an abuser
 
Is she consistently being beat? People don't care about her. They care about the story and their own hypocritical self-righteousness.

You are totally right. I highly doubt if the media would have played this video over and over if it was a white women. At least no unedited.


You're real silly if you think he only hit her that one time

The way some of you are so casual about excusing this shit is frightening

Is this normal in y'all's lives? Cus it's definitely not normal in mine or alot of other people's. Hence the outrage from US

Is there ever a first time?
 
already have....

Thank God

Cus according to the united black women beaters of bgol, you can't give a fuck about a woman being ko'd unless you work with abused women

That's an interesting logic though. I wonder if him and the others upset about police shootings are working with the police to try and stop it? Probably not. Cus we all know chauvinists are cowards who are incapable of taking their own fucking advice

Bunch of bitch niggas on here for real :smh:
 
Thank God

Cus according to the united black women beaters of bgol, you can't give a fuck about a woman being ko'd unless you work with abused women

That's an interesting logic though. I wonder if him and the others upset about police shootings are working with the police to try and stop it? Probably not. Cus we all know chauvinists are cowards who are incapable of taking their own fucking advice

Bunch of bitch niggas on here for real :smh:

there's 3 things at work.

1 ray rice was dead wrong for what he did, there is no defense for it and one shouldn't be made.

2 they shouldn't have shown the video on national tv for an entire day, that's not fair to her it was irresponsible and they don't care about her at all not one bit

3 they are trying to make a black couple the face of domestic violence in this country. images are powerful, watch how much shit follows it trying to lead us further apart than we already are. the president spoke out on this shit same day but we had to wait how long for him to talk mike brown?


Rice should've been suspended. Because he was gonna cost them money I knew he'd be cut. The face of domestic violence in this country like white dudes just don't do the shit.. Obama saying he isn't a real man?


Messages we gotta peep ALL of it.
 
there's 3 things at work.

1 ray rice was dead wrong for what he did, there is no defense for it and one shouldn't be made.

2 they shouldn't have shown the video on national tv for an entire day, that's not fair to her it was irresponsible and they don't care about her at all not one bit

3 they are trying to make a black couple the face of domestic violence in this country. images are powerful, watch how much shit follows it trying to lead us further apart than we already are. the president spoke out on this shit same day but we had to wait how long for him to talk mike brown?


Rice should've been suspended. Because he was gonna cost them money I knew he'd be cut. The face of domestic violence in this country like white dudes just don't do the shit.. Obama saying he isn't a real man?


Messages we gotta peep ALL of it.

You're not peeping the entire message though

Bw were there in droves to support bm in ferguson. Hell I got homegirls in another state who drove down to protest

Now all of a sudden a video is released of a bm beating a bw ... and bm in droves are rushing to defend the mans money, career and name while dismissing the abuse and shitting on the abused bw

That's all they needed to create a divide in the wake of such a crucial moment for us. We were all coming together then BOOM. They didn't make shit up. They used bm's own words against us to do it

I dont think you get that the focus is more on the reactions of bm collectively. It's not about rays individual actions as much

If anything is going to "tear us apart" it's going to be THAT. The reactions of bm towards us. Not the outsiders influence. It will be what we see from bm

Y'all are so self absorbed though. This is where the #blackpowerisonlyforblackmen shit came from. A bw gets ko'd and all you guys can talk about is the white mans conspiracy against bm. Everything is about y'all. Every damn thing :smh:
 
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