Serious question...HOW MANY OF YOU ARE YOUR FATHER'S BASTARD?

[Djmarkxr7]

I was very fortunate enough to have the angels I have for biological parents..

but there is no such thing as bastard children, only bastard societies..which treat children as pieces of shit... just look at all the children that go missing every year... that shit is an epidemic but does society ring the alarm.. nope....thats the way they planned it!

bastard society led by bastard people..

children are innocent!!

I seriously NEVER understood the concept of ostracizing the child, I could understand the Mom or the Dad but the child has absolutely NO choice in this matter yet societies ALL OVER THE WORLD treat(ed) them like pure shit!

There was a western called "The Big Valley" that used to come on when I was a kid (comes on MeTV now ) with a young Lee Majors playing Heath Barkley, who was a bastard child who went to his now dead rich Father's family to claim his "birth rite", while the family accepted him throughout the show's run he ALWAYS ran into trouble and got into fights because men would clown and ridicule him for being a "bastard", a few times the Dads or brothers of women he liked would do their best to break them up because, even though the rich family accepted him and he had full access to their money, they didn't want their families degrading themselves getting involved with "a mutt!" as they put it!

 

[Non-StopJFK2TAB]

Bruh, you going for kid not having your last name?

What's a name?

 

[keone]

i wasnt born

 

[Rocky Miavia]

Too many people hate me here I do not feel comfortable telling it since they like to post rocky from mask gifs of me already as it is I dont need to give them extra shit to throw back at me any time I say something they dont like. I will just say my story is a wild one and leave it at that. You braver than me. Props and respect.

 

[Cock Head Jones]

parents married but what is the reason for this thread and title?
this nigga rocky is a clown.

i wasnt born

yea u was hatched from a egg that was laid in the sand and then saved by some white folks.

ole pampered baby turtle lookin ass...

 

[mrbillcollecta]

I am. Just recently met my 3 beautiful sister and their kids. Never met my dad face to face. Talked to the nigga a few times. They all say I look and act like him....

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I think it's better off this way. I have two other kids I have an agreement with their mother. I pay for everything the kids need and she can claim one on her taxes. As long as I control the school, doctor activities and they live with me at least four days out of the week. Everything works fine.

This new chick does not want the kid with my last name. She says her mom is going to be the father. She also said I can't put him in private school because her other kid goes to public school. The dumb broad thinks buying Jordans for an infant is being a good parent. I can't put up with that dumb shit.

If I try to be their for him in the beginning I risk being able to protect my other kids. And she won't allow me to do right by him anyway.

I like how nobody addressed this. But i'm not going to attack you for it. I just like how no one addresses it. Why are you laying with women and having children with them? You laid with a chick who had a child already by another dude. I'm saluting you in a way because at LEAST you're honest about it.

Most of the guys on this board won't even be honest about THAT.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

I seriously NEVER understood the concept of ostracizing the child, I could understand the Mom or the Dad but the child has absolutely NO choice in this matter yet societies ALL OVER THE WORLD treat(ed) them like pure shit!

There was a western called "The Big Valley" that used to come on when I was a kid (comes on MeTV now ) with a young Lee Majors playing Heath Barkley, who was a bastard child who went to his now dead rich Father's family to claim his "birth rite", while the family accepted him throughout the show's run he ALWAYS ran into trouble and got into fights because men would clown and ridicule him for being a "bastard", a few times the Dads or brothers of women he liked would do their best to break them up because, even though the rich family accepted him and he had full access to their money, they didn't want their families degrading themselves getting involved with "a mutt!" as they put it!

I remember this show. And it's that old adage. "The sins of the father". The children have nothing to do with what the father did. But yet they have to suffer for it. They didn't ask to be here. They were forced. It's a horrible HORRIBLE thing. And MOST european based societies are like this. African societies, Not so much. All children were taken care of. South American, Natives, Not so much.

This is the value the euros place on themselves.

 

[Darrkman]

Nope. Had a great relationship with my dad until he passed away. Still have a great relationship with my mom.

 

[dHustla]

What's a name?

Lineage. And a way to trace it

 

[dHustla]

Why while I'm listening to music on my phone (shuffle), this song just came on?

 

[incogneg]

Should ask how many of these dudes have illegitimate children..

Taking pleasure in shitting on mothers on mothers day

My thoughts exactly! All these deadbeats/immature/selfish dudes on here coming at the mothers like it was an immaculate conception or something... Man up...

 

[incogneg]

I am.

I have talked about this before on here.

I never met my father but talked(chatted) with him on AIM (circa '99-'00) when I was about 17-19.

It wasn't until I was 18 and I found out he was celebrating his 20th or 25th anniversary (either way it was longer than I had been alive) by remarrying his wife or re-exchanging vows or having some ceremony, that I learned that he was married before my my mother and while they were together.

I'm still not sure of his last name. I think I knew it around '99-'00, but I forgot since everybody stopped communicating (his sis sparsely kept in touch with my mama over the years).

The only pic I have of him is a polaroid, but I can't see his face. I'll post it if I can get it scanned.

Your father is a pussy and a piece of shit... Although some things are genetic, hopefully you didn't inherit his sense of apathy...

No offense...

 

[incogneg]

Yes...I am, then my father won custody of me when I was 5. Raised by my father and his only wife with my half brother and sister. Never seemed like a big deal to me

My relationship with my biological mother has been strained at best. It has improved since my father passed in 2010. My relationship with my step mother was good until my brother and sister were born then she replaced me and somewhat shunned me. I didn't call either one of them this past Mother's Day... My dad was all I really had and I had a great childhood for the most part

Stuff is deep my friend... Glad things worked out... human beings are resilient... And we all have shit deals in some way...

 

[Tdot_firestarta]

Folks been together for 38 years

 

[34real]

From what I've come across the bastards come out doing better in life than the kids he had with his wife,who are all fucked up,even down to the grandkids.

This is one hella of a question but it's as real as anything else and it's something that needs to be talked about more because as sad as it is,it happens more than you would think.

 

[largebillsonlyplease]

I think it's better off this way. I have two other kids I have an agreement with their mother. I pay for everything the kids need and she can claim one on her taxes. As long as I control the school, doctor activities and they live with me at least four days out of the week. Everything works fine.

This new chick does not want the kid with my last name. She says her mom is going to be the father. She also said I can't put him in private school because her other kid goes to public school. The dumb broad thinks buying Jordans for an infant is being a good parent. I can't put up with that dumb shit.

If I try to be their for him in the beginning I risk being able to protect my other kids. And she won't allow me to do right by him anyway.

so does the whole irresponsible high horse that's been going on around here apply to you too then?

sounds like that chick wasn't ever shit to begin with and you still went in raw and nutted. now you're at her mercy, and instead of fighting you're just throwing in the flag already cause you don't want to deal with her bs.

i can't tell you what you should do with that child but not being a part of its life is punishing it regardless of how difficult the child's mother is.

you take care of your others i don't see you just leaving this one out there.. i could be wrong

 

[bigirl]

From what I've come across the bastards come out doing better in life than the kids he had with his wife,who are all fucked up,even down to the grandkids.

This is one hella of a question but it's as real as anything else and it's something that needs to be talked about more because as sad as it is,it happens more than you would think.

Maybe because they learned how to take care of themselves from young and were not over coddled and spoiled

 

[shaka38]

I am the youngest of my father's six children...born out of wedlock. I was the product of a fling between two people that never could quite connect. He was killed when I was 11 and now when my relatives see me, their reactions are like , as though he was still walking the Earth.

 

[playahaitian]

a lot of grown folk talk on BGOL 2013.

I like it.

 

[dHustla]

so does the whole irresponsible high horse that's been going on around here apply to you too then?

sounds like that chick wasn't ever shit to begin with and you still went in raw and nutted. now you're at her mercy, and instead of fighting you're just throwing in the flag already cause you don't want to deal with her bs.

i can't tell you what you should do with that child but not being a part of its life is punishing it regardless of how difficult the child's mother is.

you take care of your others i don't see you just leaving this one out there.. i could be wrong

Bruh, you judging.

I understand where you're trying to go wit it, but this could been worded better.

 

[dHustla]

a lot of grown folk talk on BGOL 2013.

I like it.

Yes

 

[dHustla]

Your father is a pussy and a piece of shit... Although some things are genetic, hopefully you didn't inherit his sense of apathy...

No offense...

No offense taken, but I wouldn't go so far as to call him all that and pass judgment.

There are too many UNKNOWN variables for me to come to a conclusion on him or the situation.
Like my mama moving me to another state, his wife denying I was his after seeing me (so the story goes), & all kinda other shit.

 

[dHustla]

From what I've come across the bastards come out doing better in life than the kids he had with his wife,who are all fucked up,even down to the grandkids.

This is one hella of a question but it's as real as anything else and it's something that needs to be talked about more because as sad as it is,it happens more than you would think.

Interesting..

 

[cocobeauty]

It's a lot of hidden emotions in this thread, but this is funny because some of yall acting like yall don't know what the word bastard means.

My parents have been married 47 years and still going strong. I don't have bastard kids and I thank God because the shit yall say on here is ridiculous about women, but you sensitive about being a bastard.

All bullshit aside, Arizona or Nevada has a bastard law...not sure which and I refuse to Google.

 

[D-TOWN REP]

Nope

Parents were married before I was born and still married now

 

[Rocky Miavia]

I asked this question because of Game of Thrones treatment of bastards initially but the truth is that I could've been a bastard too had God not looked out for my father. I was conceived out of wedlock but my parent married after my dad survived an ordeal that could've taken him away from this life. Trust, I wasn't trying to be on my usual smartass shit in here.

As I said before, if you are a bastard it's not your fault and it doesn't have to be a reflection of who you grew up to become. Some of us had both parents and still grew up to be pieces of shit and amount to nothing.

 

[cocobeauty]

I asked this question because of Game of Thrones treatment of bastards initially but the truth is that I could've been a bastard too had God not looked out for my father. I was conceived out of wedlock but my parent married after my dad survived an ordeal that could've taken him away from this life. Trust, I wasn't trying to be on my usual smartass shit in here.

As I said before, if you are a bastard it's not your fault and it doesn't have to be a reflection of who you grew up to become. Some of us had both parents and still grew up to be pieces of shit and amount to nothing.

You don't owe these emotional niggas and crackers an excuse. I think it was a good question.


There's a lot of successful people that are "bastards" if we must use the word.

 

[WhenTheGoingGetsTtuff]

Bruh, you judging.

I understand where you're trying to go wit it, but this could been worded better.

So it's all good when it's a woman, You guys judge women all day, all night long. But someone speaks to cade about his stuff it's judging?

Bgol man. lol Bgol.

 

[code_pirahna]

Sorry, but my older brother was conceived out of wedlock......but was born after they already walked down the aisle.....

thank God they ve been married for almost 4 decades now.....

 

[thoughtone]

Lineage. And a way to trace it

You like most are sorely lacking in knowledge at the history of Black folk. Ain't too many Jones', Jacksons, Smiths, etc traditionally in West Africa.

After the emancipation, Black folk were free to choose their own surnames. Whether it be from the slave master or an historical figure or whatever.

And many of us are the product of rape from the crime s of slavery.

So this thread is trying to be funny is actually sickening.

souce: Atlantic

How 'Washington' Became the Blackest Name in America

This Presidents' Day, the A.P. takes a moment to ponder how the name of our first president has become a last name used almost entirely to African-Americans:

George Washington's name is inseparable from America, and not only from the nation's history. It identifies countless streets, buildings, mountains, bridges, monuments, cities -- and people.

In a puzzling twist, most of these people are black. The 2000 U.S. Census counted 163,036 people with the surname Washington. Ninety percent of them were African-American, a far higher black percentage than for any other common name.

The story of how Washington became the "blackest name" begins with slavery and takes a sharp turn after the Civil War, when all blacks were allowed the dignity of a surname.

Even before Emancipation, many enslaved black people chose their own surnames to establish their identities. Afterward, some historians theorize, large numbers of blacks chose the name Washington in the process of asserting their freedom.

Today there are black Washingtons, like this writer, who are often identified as African-American by people they have never met. There are white Washingtons who are sometimes misidentified and have felt discrimination. There are Washingtons of both races who view the name as a special -- if complicated -- gift.

And there remains the presence of George, born 279 years ago on Feb. 22, whose complex relationship with slavery echoes in the blackness of his name today.
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[Lola]

Too many people hate me here I do not feel comfortable telling it since they like to post rocky from mask gifs of me already as it is I dont need to give them extra shit to throw back at me any time I say something they dont like. I will just say my story is a wild one and leave it at that. You braver than me. Props and respect.

I'm sorry..but...



Even though you used to be a total BITCH to me, I kind of feel sorry for you, but this right here is funny.

 

[darkninja7000]

My parents were married 52 years before my dad passed.

Same here except it was 30 before my dad died.

 

[da_monumental_1]

Yes. Didn't become aware of my biological father until I was 25 on Christmas Day '99. I have no animosity towards him as my mother didn't raise me that way nor did she ever tell him that he was the father. Mom met the man whom I call "Pops" after my first birthday and this will be their 35 anniversary this year.

There was a little confusion and ire directed at my parents and other family members who knew. But as time past, it eventually faded away. So instead of having two sides of family that most people only have, I lucky to have three (four takes too long to explain here).

 

[CPT Callamity]

My parents were married when they had my sister and I. They divorced when I was 5 but Pops got custody. They never threw shade at each other and worked as a team to raise us. No sad Stories here. Ive avoided making little bastard children. I take my DNA more serious than that and wanted to do it right if at all.