Why won't shorty let me come home with her?

[Bigmario23]

Ok I'm on my 3rd date with this chick
I got her number a month ago and we
have been having good phone convos.


1st date-She was like "you cute but looks alone don't
do it for me" I hated that like i'm a brother with no depth
or something and she supposedly read me.

2nd date-Almost let me come home to watch some movie with her but reneged when I walked her to her car
i notice her rolling slow as hell on the highway
as I sped past her in the fast lane on the highway after our date.
I called her she was like "are you following me" i was like "hell no!"-just
seen you driving slow you ok"

She won't let me come back to her house not even to chill. We hit it off
very well. I make her laugh,we talked about everything.
I've kiss her, hugged her, massage her shoulders threw
all kind of hints like tonight she was like what time you go to work
friday. I was like 3pm but I will leave your house about 9am
she was like whatever and i was like.....
she did tell me she was dating this cop and dude had followed her to work once.
I told her I'm not that cop!! as i noticed her ass jiggle in
those velour sweatpants on the way out the restaurant...damn
Even outside she almost seemed to be contemplating taking me home. As I squeeze her ass in close from the cold weather to put in yet another bid.

I have not been this frustrated in awhile whats the window for the courting
process...... I'm I wanting too much to soon? Or I'm I getting played to the left to the left

 

[femmenoire]

Well it could be a number of things.

I know that I don't like alot of dudes that I date coming to my house. Strange considering I've sold stuff on craigslist and have had people I haven't even talk to come to the crib.

Nonetheless homegirl may had had an experience that spooked her.

Dudes can get psycho too.

 

[capcomq]

Might be hidin' something mi amigo. Women aren't the most trusting creatures so it could be that your value isn't accredited yet. See if she feels safe with you if she does then she's hiding something at home....simple

 

[lilsexii]

She's STILL dating that stalker cop - just trying to save your life

 

[json]

She's still living at home with mommy and and her 3 older brothers or her people are telling her to take it slow after what happened with jake.

 

[Jam_Jam]

Listen dude. Some women are not rushing into bed after three dates. She's obviously a smart woman who is not ruled by what's between her legs...or yours. Give her the respect she deserves and stop trying to figure out why she wants to take it slow. Could it possibly be that she has respect for herself...and for you?

 

[BS2011]

Ok I'm on my 3rd date with this chick
I got her number a month ago and we
have been having good phone convos.


1st date-She was like "you cute but looks alone don't
do it for me" I hated that like i'm a brother with no depth
or something and she supposedly read me.

2nd date-Almost let me come home to watch some movie with her but reneged when I walked her to her car
i notice her rolling slow as hell on the highway
as I sped past her in the fast lane on the highway after our date.
I called her she was like "are you following me" i was like "hell no!"-just
seen you driving slow you ok"

She won't let me come back to her house not even to chill. We hit it off
very well. I make her laugh,we talked about everything.
I've kiss her, hugged her, massage her shoulders threw
all kind of hints like tonight she was like what time you go to work
friday. I was like 3pm but I will leave your house about 9am
she was like whatever and i was like.....
she did tell me she was dating this cop and dude had followed her to work once.
I told her I'm not that cop!! as i noticed her ass jiggle in
those velour sweatpants on the way out the restaurant...damn
Even outside she almost seemed to be contemplating taking me home. As I squeeze her ass in close from the cold weather to put in yet another bid.

I have not been this frustrated in awhile whats the window for the courting
process...... I'm I wanting too much to soon? Or I'm I getting played to the left to the left

The bitch is only using you for a free meal. Bounce my dude.

 

[Bigmario23]

She's STILL dating that stalker cop - just trying to save your life

you know what...... dude has came up in convo more than once.
I was telling her how many times I got pulled by cops when I got my
new whip for no reason. And she was hot saying thats why I hate
cops they are to controlling...next time i'm gonna be like "please,do tell"

 

[Bigmario23]

The bitch is only using you for a free meal. Bounce my dude.

Well shorty did pay for the first date and offered to
go dutch on our last outing. thanks for all yall feedback
though yall keeps it real.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

I think she is still messing with dude,and doesnt want any shit between yall

 

[Word]

dude if its that serious find someother girl. Chics give it away like free lunch.

 

[bigirl]

I have found that if I let a guy come to my house, then it will always be at my house for the rest of the association. If I can't go to his house then I get mad suspicious that he either still lives with his mama or lives with another woman. It also gets real old being hostess all the time. Its nice to get a change of scenery sometimes.I also have had guys who feel WAY too comfortable and start showing up without calling or even lurking and spying. At this point if they guy doesn't have somewhere to take me its not going to happen.

In your situation it sounds to me like maybe shes not done with the cop and doesn't want any trouble.

 

[Bigmario23]

Listen dude. Some women are not rushing into bed after three dates. She's obviously a smart woman who is not ruled by what's between her legs...or yours. Give her the respect she deserves and stop trying to figure out why she wants to take it slow. Could it possibly be that she has respect for herself...and for you?

Trust Jam Jam I don't have tunnel vision. I'm not exactly "expecting"
sex if she invites me in her home. I will CONTINUE to respect shorty...I have been nothing less than a gentlemen. The courting process is just getting
to be longer than what I'm use to. But I'm not gone trip..I will see where
things lead in due time.

 

[tig 'ol bittays]

Well shorty did pay for the first date and offered to
go dutch on our last outing. thanks for all yall feedback
though yall keeps it real.

Good thinking and asking for advice from peers is good too.

On the whole situation though, Red Flag
If you are having all those problems relating to each other already, imagine when a couple of weeks past and you have been intimate?

 

[Pussy Krook]

Why don't you take her back to your pad? If she still resisting give her her papers brawd just fucking with you.

 

[ladyscorpio]

Good thinking and asking for advice from peers is good too.

On the whole situation though, Red Flag
If you are having all those problems relating to each other already, imagine when a couple of weeks past and you have been intimate?

tig'ol bittays welcome to SOL if you'd be so kind as to add to the roll call


peace

 

[TittyMaster404]

Wow, I'm was going through the same thing a with young lady I'm was seeing. I just decided to let go. when she told me that I have to prove myself worthy enough to be with her. that when i decided i had it. I guess the phone calls throughout the day,changing my schedule around to see her, and spending quality time with her wasn't enough.

 

[femmenoire]

Wow, I'm was going through the same thing a with young lady I'm was seeing. I just decided to let go. when she told me that I have to prove myself worthy enough to be with her. that when i decided i had it. I guess the phone calls throughout the day,changing my schedule around to see her, and spending quality time with her wasn't enough.

Wow sweetie. I'm sorry to hear that.

 

[SuperGenius]

She's STILL dating that stalker cop - just trying to save your life

Sounds like it to me....tread slowly. Plus, she can prolly smell your testosterones overheating. Fallback on trying to get in her guts. No expectations, no regrets. A female would make it but so hard to let you know "it's time", but not at her crib.

 

[TittyMaster404]

Wow sweetie. I'm sorry to hear that.

It's cool Femm. Thanks. But, I learn in life some people are just not worth my time to invest in them.

 

[mc2]

It could be a few things....

She could have a dirty crib and is embarassed to show you

Could have had a bad experience with males stalking her. Like you said she had a Police Officer that would follow her to work.

Or she could be using you as a "friend" someone to go to the movie with, pay for her food, but not give any action

She may not be that in to you..


Another thing... Has she already been to your place?