E-flirting...is there a point to it all?

[JofromthaNO]

Definition: flirting over the internet, either on AIM, through Myspace, or Facebook. Some are in a league of their own in terms of e-flirtation. It can easily substitute meeting people in real life. Set up everything before, just execute in real life.

Years ago, flirting over the internet and then "hooking up" seemed to be taboo and often undiscussed. Now, openly co-workers and family members are sharing stories of e-flirting that led to long-term relationships, casual sex, or just friendship.

Do you e-flirt? Do you see a purpose or point in e-flirting if there IS no execution in real life?
Has e-flirting led to a hook-up in your personal experience?
If so, were you pleased or unpleased with your experience?

 

[AlexandMorgan]

what the e-fuck.

Fucking someone or setting up to fuck someone on the internet is risky but no more risky than dating i guess. You have usually established a level of comfort with one another but not on a physical level as yet. This sometimes results in one person being hot to trot and the other person not.

You can build up too much expectation though which may lead to disappointment for some. Met women online but to date i have never fucked any and dunno if i ever will.

 

[shanebp1978]

E-flirting...is there a point to it all?

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Good thread Jo. I anticipate this to be very relevant to my interests. Brandy anyone!

 

[onyxfemme]

Definition: flirting over the internet, either on AIM, through Myspace, or Facebook. Some are in a league of their own in terms of e-flirtation. It can easily substitute meeting people in real life. Set up everything before, just execute in real life.

Years ago, flirting over the internet and then "hooking up" seemed to be taboo and often undiscussed. Now, openly co-workers and family members are sharing stories of e-flirting that led to long-term relationships, casual sex, or just friendship.

Do you e-flirt? Do you see a purpose or point in e-flirting if there IS no execution in real life?
Has e-flirting led to a hook-up in your personal experience?
If so, were you pleased or unpleased with your experience?

I e-flirt....It isnt leading to no where unless it is
DaleMabry, LadyScorpio-My E-Woman (she is getting tired of ya'll trying to holla...) or HotMixx


I'm just kidding





For real...I am

 

[onyxfemme]

That wasnt cool!!!!!!!!!!!!! Doing that to Jalen

 

[cbm_redux]

Years ago, flirting over the internet and then "hooking up" seemed to be taboo and often undiscussed.

WTF is your young ass talking about? I was getting real live pussy off AOL (for DOS) back in '92. ...which is one among myriad reasons that I got divorced in '93.

 

[doggish_098]

leaves the board to listen to my recordings of JO doing what she does best...

 

[Izayoi]

Jo like anything e-flirting will mean whatever value one assigns to it.

The net in general is like watching TV to a large extent for me, so e-flirting/porn/chat its by and large entertainment.

Having said that, I have interacted with people in real life I "met" online over the years (friends/ and 2 more than friends)and have not been disappointed but again I kept my expectations LOW and treat it like any other stranger meeting or "blind date".

The bgolers I have met have all been very very cool, and I wouldn't mind meeting a few more. Lady S, time to gas up the van (but you paying because gas is too high now )

 

[Iron]

 

[femmenoire]

Everyone does it I think. Everyone who is online at some point.

And I think in some cases it can go further. And in many cases it's just innocent.

But I think vibes are harder to interpet online than in person and can cause lots of confusion, especially with these kids online now.

 

[Izayoi]

Ok retraction: I had the highest expectations for you Iron being that your posts were alway so enlightened AND you met them and exceeded them. Do you know one of the the med techs still asks about you ? Some people just have that aura about them.

 

[Pimpin KillBillABitch]

Yeah there's a point. It's entertaining and you meet new friends.

 

[Shadow]

I like the e-thing.

I think you can meet decent people here just like anywhere else.

 

[LeroyDibiase]

It should be done in private. Public e-flirting, to me, is sad and corny as fuck.
But it has/can be rewarding...

 

[Iron]

Ok retraction: I had the highest expectations for you Iron being that your posts were alway so enlightened AND you met them and exceeded them. Do you know one of the the med techs still asks about you ? Some people just have that aura about them.

Don't be retracting statements.

This question is too easy is all. I'am one of the biggest flirts on here.

What the med tech be saying?

She got a phone number?

Some people just have that aura about them

I know right. i've met four people like that I'll never forget their faces all of them absolutly beautiful. Me I was way too young to go up and approach them with any success. But let me see any one of them now.

 

[Izayoi]

Don't be retracting statements.

This question is too easy is all. I'am one of the biggest flirts on here.

What the med tech be saying?

She got a phone number?

She married and her husband is Suge Night size BUT she asks about the cutie that came to visit me all the time

 

[Iron]

She married and her husband is Suge Night size BUT she asks about the cutie that came to visit me all the time

ok no married women for me.


@suge night size.

 

[femmenoire]

I like the e-thing.

I think you can meet decent people here just like anywhere else.

I agree but I think it actually makes people a little lazy. Even with my e-friends. I don't like talking on the phone because chatting seems easier.

And I think that it makes men & women less willing to work. If they don't like some little thing, they can just click on myspace and find 50 more people to mass and do it all over again with ease.

 

[AlexandMorgan]

She married and her husband is Suge Night size BUT she asks about the cutie that came to visit me all the time

Upon reading these words a deep pain ran through Alexand's heart because he realised that things had progressed to far for his liking.

He grabbed a STEEL bar and headed for the door prepared to bring a rusty end to the boy who would play at being a man in this cruel world.

He paused slightly as he got to the door "was it fair to end a young ho's career so fast?" he asked himself. He steeled himself again as he realised just what he might lose if he hesitated too long.

 

[doggish_098]

She married and her husband is Suge Night size BUT she asks about the cutie that came to visit me all the time

damn iron you better leave that cougar in the cage...

 

[DeSiRe]

personally i dont actively persue online relationships/hookups

but i am open to them....

i dunno why finding someone online is so taboo...its the same as finding someone at the store...hell u might know more about if u meet them online

not to mention i know a few people who take online pimping to the extreme and they get more pussy than the ones who dont

 

[Iron]

Upon reading these words a deep pain ran through Alexand's heart because he realised that things had progressed to far for his liking.

He grabbed a STEEL bar and headed for the door prepared to bring a rusty end to the boy who would play at being a man in this cruel world.

He paused slightly as he got to the door "was it fair to end a young ho's career so fast?" he asked himself. He steeled himself again as he realised just what he might lose if he hesitated too long.

 

[gonzo8402]

Definition: flirting over the internet, either on AIM, through Myspace, or Facebook. Some are in a league of their own in terms of e-flirtation. It can easily substitute meeting people in real life. Set up everything before, just execute in real life.

Years ago, flirting over the internet and then "hooking up" seemed to be taboo and often undiscussed. Now, openly co-workers and family members are sharing stories of e-flirting that led to long-term relationships, casual sex, or just friendship.

Do you e-flirt? Do you see a purpose or point in e-flirting if there IS no execution in real life?
Has e-flirting led to a hook-up in your personal experience?
If so, were you pleased or unpleased with your experience?

Didn't read a word of the post, I'm responding to the title.


No, there's not point to it at all, unless y'all in the same city and something can really pop off...

The e-flirting is pointless and the reason I don't stay in the chat or talk much when I'm in there

 

[DarkCity]

I am not much of a flirt at all whether its in reality or online. Just not my thing. I am attracted to looks and intelligent conversation. That's why I don't "talk" to any jump-offs. If I did I would get so annoyed that I would send them packing.

I talk to this female now that is always talking dirty to me and saying what she wants to do to me. AND I CANT STAND IT. I want to tell her to shut the fuck up so bad.

Don't talk/type about it be about it

 

[ladyscorpio]

I e-flirt....It isnt leading to no where unless it is
DaleMabry, LadyScorpio-My E-Woman (she is getting tired of ya'll trying to holla...) or HotMixx


I'm just kidding





For real...I am

 

[onyxfemme]

What???

 

[ladyscorpio]

What???

hmmm Dale i dont mind cuz well you know but ummm Mixxy I see that I gonna have to start "laying" down the law yes

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

*cough*

 

[followup]

Don't talk/type about it be about it

I agree with this for the most part, but when people start falling in love with an online personality I have a problem with it.

 

[Cleopatra_J]

HHmmmm.... I tihnk e-flirting is all about staying in your own comfort level. I mean, in reality, if you want to really flirt you have to put out the effort and go out and do something. But I can e-flirt from at home in my flannel pajamas... I can still be me and all that good stuff with half the effort....


Me, personally, I dont really do the e-flirting thing as a habit.. sometimes yeah.. can't say I've ever really taken it from the internet to the real world... but I won't say that it won't ever happen....

 

[SinaminDelite]

*cough*

E-flirting is what it is in my book. I'm a natural flirt, been like that since a teen. I have a fresh-ass mouth, can't help it. There's no on/off switch for me, but I do know when to tone it down, for the sake of others.

 

[SEXY_SCORPIO]

E-flirting is what it is in my book. I'm a natural flirt, been like that since a teen. I have a fresh-ass mouth, can't help it. There's no on/off switch for me, but I do know when to tone it down, for the sake of others.

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*cough*

 

[SinaminDelite]

^^^^

If you don't know why I laugh, then I don't either...

 

[bigirl]

most of you already know how I feel about e flirting

 

[alyric]

I used to e-flirt big time. I guess I was lucky in that I could be upfront with hubby and he understood it was all in fun (for us). I was just like that... saw it as inevitable and as an activity that consensual adults on a porno board eventually seek out anyway

now I just don't have time for it. too many people play games and take things too far. now if I'm going to flirt, I do it in person. that way I can smack the hell out of any brotha who fails to recognize that I'm not suddenly a whore just because I decline to sleep with him