Wanted to toss this out to the board. I posted part of this in another thread, but I would love to hear what folks had to say.
Basically, I’m from DC and I’m living in Cali. Admittedly, my view might be slanted. Hell, Los Angeles might be in it’s own crazy microcosm, but…
I work at MTV in the gaming division. It’s a majority white office (I’m one of 4 blacks in a staff of 43). The age range falls between 24-35 (I’m one of the oldest at 33)…
Anyway, most of the people here are either married or engaged to be married. While that might not seem peculiar, the stickler is that none of us here can be considered financial ‘ballers’. Talking to some of these guys, you get the impression that while the marriage might not always be rosy, there’s certainly NO idolizing or celebrating of ‘pimps’, ‘playas’, or ‘Gigolos’.
I started thinking about my people, and how differently our paths at the same age range/statistics have gone. At 33, many black guys still love having lots of women to run between. Also – and this is from my experience – black women still chase after the guys that are the ‘obvious bad looks’ unless they’ve already reached ‘baller’ status.
If this was a majority black office, would the marriage/relationship ratio be the same? In North Hollywood where I live, it’s a predominantly Spanish community. You should see how these Latin folk cherish family (even the bangers), and how they’ll put EVERYTHING toward building fam. Hell, even their relationship choices and what they’re looking for in partners seems different.
Thoughts?
Basically, I’m from DC and I’m living in Cali. Admittedly, my view might be slanted. Hell, Los Angeles might be in it’s own crazy microcosm, but…
I work at MTV in the gaming division. It’s a majority white office (I’m one of 4 blacks in a staff of 43). The age range falls between 24-35 (I’m one of the oldest at 33)…
Anyway, most of the people here are either married or engaged to be married. While that might not seem peculiar, the stickler is that none of us here can be considered financial ‘ballers’. Talking to some of these guys, you get the impression that while the marriage might not always be rosy, there’s certainly NO idolizing or celebrating of ‘pimps’, ‘playas’, or ‘Gigolos’.
I started thinking about my people, and how differently our paths at the same age range/statistics have gone. At 33, many black guys still love having lots of women to run between. Also – and this is from my experience – black women still chase after the guys that are the ‘obvious bad looks’ unless they’ve already reached ‘baller’ status.
If this was a majority black office, would the marriage/relationship ratio be the same? In North Hollywood where I live, it’s a predominantly Spanish community. You should see how these Latin folk cherish family (even the bangers), and how they’ll put EVERYTHING toward building fam. Hell, even their relationship choices and what they’re looking for in partners seems different.
Thoughts?