Dating costs. No way around that
Why men ghost women, just be a man and tell the woman
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She was the most extreme example but I had a woman invite me over to smoke weed and chill, got to her house and she had four of her friends there. Ghosted
Dated another woman and found out she had a psychotically jealous ex-boyfriend who live 2 blocks away from me. Ghosted.
Dated a girl from out of town. I found out she was racist. Ghosted.
Don't get me wrong, if a woman has potential and a few bad qualities then yes, I will let her know what the issue is. But when she displays behavior or a situation that bad or dangerous then what's the point?
And no, I would never ghost a women just for having some Marilyn Monroe shit. However, it is a symptom of a drama queen. It's a reason to start asking about psych medication, suicide attempts, abortions, criminal records and so forth.
I never ghost on women, just never make myself readily accessible to them under any circumstances, that eliminates all bullshit.
I never burn bridges with women, never know when you might need them. In 2018, if you fuck a bitch and ghost, you might get exposed on social media or get hit with a fake rape charge years later from a bitter bitch.
I never lie to women, just to get what I want from them, never had a reason to ghost on them.
I make every woman "put up or shut up", so I have no reason to ghost on a woman. Most women that know me won't contact me unless its business or entertainment, because I never make myself easily assessible. Most black women are habitual time wasters and procrastinators.
I never burn bridges with women, never know when you might need them. In 2018, if you fuck a bitch and ghost, you might get exposed on social media or get hit with a fake rape charge years later from a bitter bitch.
I never lie to women, just to get what I want from them, never had a reason to ghost on them.
I make every woman "put up or shut up", so I have no reason to ghost on a woman. Most women that know me won't contact me unless its business or entertainment, because I never make myself easily assessible. Most black women are habitual time wasters and procrastinators.
There's ghosting done on both sides
but seriously just say I don't want to talk to you anymore.
but seriously just say I don't want to talk to you anymore.
lol where you been the last 4,000 years?
What I'm trying to say is that women have been placed on this very lofty pedestal as a prize. men have to constantly strive for a group of beings (women) that call themselves equal but at the same time they are superior? The game is all fucked up right now. That's why men who are dating want to keep things really simple, Be friends, have great sex, and keep disputes to a minimum with the opposite sex. Nothing more nothing less, Women are equal now!
Haha
I know, i know...
But seriously they're taking like ALL of the slang...
Mfkrs out here saying "YAAASSSS" and "ghosting" like they're Websters.... The point of slang is to stay within a group or culture.
But i guess when your culture has a history of appropriation / theft......
Be friend and have great sex? Why should a woman give a man the best years of her fertile life when that is the time a woman should be looking for a husband.
Any relationship that does not have marriage as it's main goal is a waste of time.
So a woman supposed to waste 4 years of her child bearing years to be a f.w.b?
All day long. Career women, asian women, wealthy women, tons of white chicks, don’t have kids. I’m in my 40s. The young ones have all the damn kids.
They are not, nor do they want to be.
ShitDamn that might be worse, you’re gonna have the woman jump off the roof!
Rather the roof than out the bushes looking for closure
Who hurt you girl?
Agreed
Right??? Up in here..
There's an emotional poster in here. Look, I don't ghost but when it happens to be I see it as a bullet dodged and a person I shouldn't be dealing with at my age. With that said, IF YOU GHOST JUST BE SURE YOU CAN DEAL WITH BEING GHOSTED ON TOO. Too much people dishing shit but can't deal with the same treatment themselves, hypocritical shit. And don't justify it by how long you've known the person, ghosting is ghosting. "It was only one date", "We've been together for so long" same thing.
If it's a real legit relationship you want to get out of, then ghosting is wrong. But just a female you sort of dating, nothing real been established, then who cares if you ghost them. Women do it all the time, and as men we just move on, so they can do the same and move on. In my experience those women that I was upfront with, pretty much all cussed me out. Or was on some ignorant shit. All of a sudden I ain't shit, just some fuck boi, who only wanted to hit and quit, and not a real man. So fuck that, they all get ghosted now.
At first I wasnt sure, but this right here^^^ confirms you're a woman
A video I saw said it best: Treat it like you're their employer. If they have unexcused absences then fire them and move on.
If a anyone goes ghost then they don't want to fuck with you and leave it at that.
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That nukka the females in the relationship or he transitioning .....
No she does not have to waste her time being a f.w.b,she shouldn't have to do anything.... it's her life and her choice, but understand that as a man I may not feel the need to make a relationship legally binding because it has no benefit for me.... Women and the state enslave men with these types of contracts and men have rights as well, so if we can't meet somewhere in between, Well......... CONSIDER YOURSELF GHOSTED!
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