The Sex Therapist turned State Rep who passed the law that is changing the online porn industry

Duece

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)n June 15, 2022, a freshman legislator in Louisiana’s House of Representatives accomplished something no other lawmaker or activist in the country could claim: She passed a law that is changing the online porn industry.

If you think this was the result of a bitter culture war battle, think again.

“Pornography is creating a public health crisis and having a corroding influence on minors,” asserts the bill that state Rep. Laurie Schlegel introduced. Almost no one in the capitol in Baton Rouge disputes the statement; the bill sailed through the Louisiana House 96-1 and the State Senate 34-0. The bill holds pornography websites liable unless the websites “perform reasonable age verification methods” — in short, requiring users to show government ID to prove they are 18 or older. Democratic Gov. John Bel Edwards, no fan of the legislature’s Republican super-majority, signed the bill about a week after it arrived on his desk.

“I promise you he has no qualms about vetoing our bills,” Schlegel told me. In fact, earlier this summer, the governor had unsuccessfully vetoed a bill banning puberty blockers, hormone therapy and elective surgery for minors, calling it “so blatantly defective on so many levels.”



These bills didn’t originate from some evangelical PAC or conservative think tank. Their actual origin was, ironically, The Howard Stern Show.

It was December 2021 and Schlegel was on her “daily news scroll” through Apple News when she saw an article describing popstar Billie Eilish’s appearance on the infamous shock jock’s show. Eilish told Stern, “I used to watch a lot of porn, to be honest. I started watching porn when I was like 11. ... I think it really destroyed my brain and I feel incredibly devastated that I was exposed to so much porn.”


Schlegel, 46, had only been sworn in as a state representative six months earlier, after winning a bitter, low-turnout special election by 217 votes against an opponent with a famous name in New Orleans politics. He sent out a mailer saying that sending a social worker like Schlegel to the state house would be like pouring money down the drain. She compared him to a faceless mannequin in response.

Schlegel isn’t a social worker. She’s a sex addiction therapist. “That’s my specialty,” she told me, proudly. It’s even in her X bio. Already aware of the problem of childhood exposure to pornography due to her work, the Eilish interview inspired Schlegel to act. “I just thought how courageous it was. … It just sort of re-emphasized to me what a problem this is, especially for our children.”

But how would Schlegel, a freshman representative, convince her colleagues to take on an industry that seemed too big to curtail? She needed an expert to persuade the legislature, she figured, and she had just the person in mind: Gail Dines, whose anti-porn research and activism had been on Schlegel’s radar for years.
Schlegel first discovered her work through a 2015 TEDx talk entitled “Growing Up in a Pornified Culture.”

Dines is a self-described radical feminist, sociologist and anti-porn crusader from Manchester, England who has lived in the United States for 37 years. It’s a strange coupling, between an anti-abortion Louisiana Republican and a professor who says her radical feminism “encompasses many socialist feminist principles.” But they know that.

“It’s not a marriage. Let’s be very clear on this,” Dines told me. Though they share the same goal of diverting kids from porn, they don’t necessarily see it as part of the same larger project. For Dines, “This is about doing the right thing when it comes to controlling capitalism that’s out of control.”

Dines is not subtle about the ills of pornography and hypersexualization. When her speaking tour stopped at my high school in 2017, she told my junior class, “I bet you, every woman here, all of you female students, could come up here right now, and you could do the ‘fuck me’ look,” referring to the Victoria’s Secret model displayed on the projector behind her. About a minute later, she told us, somewhat forlornly, “Men who rape are not deviants. They are over-conformists.”
 
Figures it would be a red state. But I hope more people will realize that stern has always been a lowkey limbaugh.
 
I might be in the minority but this could possibly be a good thing. I'm glad I grew up as a teen in the 90s because the only access I had to porn was some vhs tapes & magazines which was slow doses to my brain that I didn't see every day. By the early 2000s when porn online really took off I was in my young 20s and had to focus on real world shit.

These kids today all got smart phones & have access to porn literally 24/7. That shit wouldn't have been mentally healthy for the 13 or 15 year old me with a smartphone. It's no coincidence that porn addiction & incels are on the rise together. It starts in their early teens watching it non stop. By the time these cats reach their 20s their brain is fried & they're out of touch with getting pussy the natural way.

The top porn companies like Brazzers brand their movies to young teenagers in the majority of their ads online. Just like how cigarette companies were guilty of doing, getting them hooked young on their product.
 
I might be in the minority but this could possibly be a good thing. I'm glad I grew up as a teen in the 90s because the only access I had to porn was some vhs tapes & magazines which was slow doses to my brain that I didn't see every day. By the early 2000s when porn online really took off I was in my young 20s and had to focus on real world shit.

These kids today all got smart phones & have access to porn literally 24/7. That shit wouldn't have been mentally healthy for the 13 or 15 year old me with a smartphone. It's no coincidence that porn addiction & incels are on the rise together. It starts in their early teens watching it non stop. By the time these cats reach their 20s their brain is fried & they're out of touch with getting pussy the natural way.

The top porn companies like Brazzers brand their movies to young teenagers in the majority of their ads online. Just like how cigarette companies were guilty of doing, getting them hooked young on their product.


I actually agree with you, while most dudes on BGOL don't want to admit it because it's not cool, this generation of young people is having less sex, than the generations before them, this generation of young men is largely lonely and not having sex at all. We're catching up to Japanese men at this point. The 80/20 rule must feel like 99/1 to some young men out there. I think back to a story of high-speed internet being brought to a small, rural southern town and the town subsequently reporting that birthrates dropped off the map.

Also, I do think constant porn for sexually inexperienced people, especially pre-teens, teens, and very young adults is not healthy. Porn is much more tasteless than it was in previous years. In 1990, you had to really hunt for a video of Jeannie Pepper urinating during a scene, now 5 out of every 10 female pornstars have either peed or been peed on in a scene. Also this constant fake incest, step-parents/siblings, the extremely young-looking male talent being paired with 40-plus-year-old women or other porn that is made to invoke something "else". This is not healthy for young minds and I believe this porn-positive attitude that some women have in the wake OnlyFans is a bubble that eventually burst because young women will start to take into account the negative effects of porn on the men in their generation. Either these men are too shy to interact because they feel they can't compete with the men in porn, have no interest because excessive masturbation is sapping their desire to interact with women or porn is giving unrealistic expectations about sex and women, women are on Reddit reporting instances of being injured during sex after being coerced into anal without proper prep or being sent to the ER with a serious infection due to doing anal to vaginal switching.

The issue that keeps me from supporting age verification is the fact that conservatives will politicize this issue and issue use it as a stepping to curtail other rights and privileges. While I understand public health crises and governments need to handle them, I don't want to live in a world where all of my decision-making is taken away from me. At the end of the day, I am grown.
 
I actually agree with you, while most dudes on BGOL don't want to admit it because it's not cool, this generation of young people is having less sex, than the generations before them, this generation of young men is largely lonely and not having sex at all. We're catching up to Japanese men at this point. The 80/20 rule must feel like 99/1 to some young men out there. I think back to a story of high-speed internet being brought to a small, rural southern town and the town subsequently reporting that birthrates dropped off the map.

Also, I do think constant porn for sexually inexperienced people, especially pre-teens, teens, and very young adults is not healthy. Porn is much more tasteless than it was in previous years. In 1990, you had to really hunt for a video of Jeannie Pepper urinating during a scene, now 5 out of every 10 female pornstars have either peed or been peed on in a scene. Also this constant fake incest, step-parents/siblings, the extremely young-looking male talent being paired with 40-plus-year-old women or other porn that is made to invoke something "else". This is not healthy for young minds and I believe this porn-positive attitude that some women have in the wake OnlyFans is a bubble that eventually burst because young women will start to take into account the negative effects of porn on the men in their generation. Either these men are too shy to interact because they feel they can't compete with the men in porn, have no interest because excessive masturbation is sapping their desire to interact with women or porn is giving unrealistic expectations about sex and women, women are on Reddit reporting instances of being injured during sex after being coerced into anal without proper prep or being sent to the ER with a serious infection due to doing anal to vaginal switching.

The issue that keeps me from supporting age verification is the fact that conservatives will politicize this issue and issue use it as a stepping to curtail other rights and privileges. While I understand public health crises and governments need to handle them, I don't want to live in a world where all of my decision-making is taken away from me. At the end of the day, I am grown.

No doubt. As a grown man I definitely don't want the government or authorities in my business on what I look at online. On the other hand though something has to be done to make porn less accessible to these kids.
 
I see both side of the debate, what I don’t trust is government telling me to show ID to look at porn when these muthafuckas won’t let me vote on online. If a picture of an ID is enough to prove I’m an actual adult and can watch porn why can’t I do the same when picking who represents me in an election.
 
Kids are shooting up schools and people are concerned about them watching porn?

It depends on which side of the political spectrum you're on.

Republicans are more concerned with this

While Democrats are more concerned with gun control.
 
Kids are shooting up schools and people are concerned about them watching porn?

Also I want to add, that some will say there is a correlation to sexually frustrated, lonely, porn addicted men and mass shootings.
 
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