I have noticed that many of my peers complain about the same thing (me included) about our teenagers / 20-something children not showing any aggressive moves towards independence and establishing their future prospects.
They have all the tools, and opportunities to learn and earn, but they are just not showing the same drive as we did at their age, or what is required to stand out and survive in this world.
Accountability is lacking and it is a constant task trying to explain the ramifications of wasting time and opportunity now, in such a competitive world.
Is anyone else going through this? How do you cope after exhausting yourself and making sacrifices for them, when it "seems" they are just not appreciative of the position they are in?
Where I'm from, we don't have the "get out at 18" culture, because its simply financially impossible to do, so you find them living at home a lot longer. If they aren't working and saving with a plan, you find that they are waiting on till you die to take over the house.
They have all the tools, and opportunities to learn and earn, but they are just not showing the same drive as we did at their age, or what is required to stand out and survive in this world.
Accountability is lacking and it is a constant task trying to explain the ramifications of wasting time and opportunity now, in such a competitive world.
Is anyone else going through this? How do you cope after exhausting yourself and making sacrifices for them, when it "seems" they are just not appreciative of the position they are in?
Where I'm from, we don't have the "get out at 18" culture, because its simply financially impossible to do, so you find them living at home a lot longer. If they aren't working and saving with a plan, you find that they are waiting on till you die to take over the house.
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