Iyanla Vanzant Says Women Are Sleeping With Men Too Soon & Should Wait 90 Days Before Having Sex
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If this shit works....where is her dude
I honestly agree! It has also been said not spending dough on that broad. And I agree with that as well. Coffee dates, THE MOVIES, dinners at a spot like Applebee's. I am cool with waiting, but we aren't doing "extravagant" dates either! This is the time period of us getting to know each other, so if you're taking sex off the table I am taking my wallet off the table. The same conversations we can have at a Michelin star restaurant we can have at Applebee's.
And don't let your birthday, valentines or Christmas come around those 90 days either cause that shyt is dead during that time frame.
And don't let your birthday, valentines or Christmas come around those 90 days either cause that shyt is dead during that time frame.
That's Law!
Broads think they're slick 362 days of the year she want to be single but on those three days she want to start dating someone! FOH!!!That's Law!
Right, I never believe in that 90 day rule bullshit and there's a lot of simps who would wait for 90days to get some when she would get her back blown out from someone else. But either way, when I feel like I need to fuck best believe I'm gonna be fucking during those 90 days.
I'm not waiting that long at all. All that 90 days
wait or no sex til marriage talk is a power play by women to see if they can control cats from the jump. Only simps fall for that.
I've had a couple women try to run the same game on me back in the day & I tell them right at that moment good luck with that cause I'm not the one. I smashed damn near all of them after telling them that. My ex fiance gave me the pussy the same night after I told her that lol.
Shes absolutely right. And shes the right messenger. Only thing women really control is sex.. And they should manipulate that shit as long as they can while they can. She also clearly says this is if you want to get to know a person as a mate but if you just want some dick go get some.
Now this shit wont work for everyone and there will be draw backs... but im cool with her overall advice.
Now this shit wont work for everyone and there will be draw backs... but im cool with her overall advice.
Lmfao
This is a new generation and we are trying to be nothing like the older niggas
This is a new generation and we are trying to be nothing like the older niggas
Facts....
This.
A nigga will wait 3 years for some pussy fuck other chicks and get the pussy he been waiting on and be like....deuces!
Does this 90 rule apply to lesbian women?
Is it okay for two lesbian women to hook up sexually before 90 days, but it's wrong for straight women to have sex with men before 90 days?
Hell yeah its definitely a double standard when it comes to chicks fuckin with chicks because they be all over each other eating each out at the drop of a hat with no strings attached and then call it a phase while tellin a nigga he gotta wait 90days.
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Ayanla is old. Every man should NOT be able to fuck. If the women are allowing, both good men and no good men gonna go RAW.
one of these influences said about women and the clothes they wear...
"based on what they all wear, it's hard to tell the good women from the hoes"
So errebody can't fuck for 90 days? More and more brothers gonna get passports at best or at worst become tricks that cant date becuase dating means paying for pussy.
one of these influences said about women and the clothes they wear...
"based on what they all wear, it's hard to tell the good women from the hoes"
So errebody can't fuck for 90 days? More and more brothers gonna get passports at best or at worst become tricks that cant date becuase dating means paying for pussy.
The fundamental issue lies with the way women discern/select mates. Women are 100% accountable to whom they let in. Whether a man waits a week or 90 days, if he just wanted to hit and quit, he’s doing that at all cost.
Exactly, i'm telling her up front. tomorrow isn't a promise and I'm not waiting 90 days to fuck especially when I know she wants it too.
They act like it’s a one way street but truth be told they want to get fucked too. They are 100% accountable!
They can't run that game on me, she can get away with that shit telling it to a simp!
I think she just got exposed as a fake Yoruba practitioner on one of her youtube videos as well
I can't stand her, most take what she says as gospel.
yanla Vanzant was born as Rhonda Eva Harris in Brooklyn, New York on September 13, 1953. In 1983, after being ordained as a Yoruba priestess, she renamed herself Iyanla, meaning “great mother.” Vanzant is now a famous relationship coach, author, TV host, ordained minister, and motivational speaker
this chick been married more times than steve harvey she can go sit the fuck down somewhere
hanging out with Oprah gassed her up
yet, people still want advice from her and she always getting booked for these shitty shows.
you would have thought she would chill after all the death threats she's received
Anyone can be a Yoruba Priest or Priestess at the right price.
I think she has it wrong. We should make them wait 90 days before we give them the D.
Boom pow pow
Exactly. I'll wait 90 days, but I'll be digging someone else out until the probation period is up
Just tell her cool! Well shit I'll see you in 90 days then boo.
Chick tried to run that on me, I was at her place and saw she had takeout bags from maggiano's, cheesecake factory and all those type joint, I was like oh different dudes taking you out every night huh?
Then she said she'd never fuck someone in their 40s, she was 28 and I'm in my 40s so I was like ok cool this is going nowhere and I just wanted my turn anyway.
Fast forward a month and she was knocked up...with TWINS...by a dude in his 40s/50s. And she valued her carefree lifestyle above all else.
Life comes at you fast!
Or never. I would have lost interest in 90 days.
If the most valuable thing about you is your pussy, you have to work on some personality and hobbies.
“Equal.. fair .. level..”
These are not words that resonate well with the female sex.