Is she bitter or are y'all fuck niggas?
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Not even gonna listen
Bottom line up front: if you act like a lady, you'll be treated as such.
I stopped listening fairly soon after hitting play. She may have had some valid points, but not sounding or depicting herself as what I perceive is ladylike turned me off and may actually be the root cause to all of her issues with men.
Solution: act like a lady, have your own shit in order, persue quality men and 90% of your relationship problems will be solved.
I stopped listening fairly soon after hitting play. She may have had some valid points, but not sounding or depicting herself as what I perceive is ladylike turned me off and may actually be the root cause to all of her issues with men.
Solution: act like a lady, have your own shit in order, persue quality men and 90% of your relationship problems will be solved.
Dudes need to pick and respeck their ladies correctly. She should be able to maintain her own lifestyle as should the man. If she makes more than you, she should know better than to speak on it as if she's "better" than you or anyone else for that matter and vice versa.
If she's your LADY, she should be sucking and fucking without expectation because she already knows you're that dude. She should want to suck and fuck. In the meantime, take her stankin trash out, not because you have to or she needs you to, but because it's a gesture to her showing that you give a fuck.... assuming you do because she is your lady.
This is sucker proof give and take. She'll respeck you as a stand up dude and she'll stay on point with everything for you. If everything goes wrong, you know you were a stand-up guy and no a push over nigga and not a careless fuck nigga to a real woman.
MESSAGE!
If she's your LADY, she should be sucking and fucking without expectation because she already knows you're that dude. She should want to suck and fuck. In the meantime, take her stankin trash out, not because you have to or she needs you to, but because it's a gesture to her showing that you give a fuck.... assuming you do because she is your lady.
This is sucker proof give and take. She'll respeck you as a stand up dude and she'll stay on point with everything for you. If everything goes wrong, you know you were a stand-up guy and no a push over nigga and not a careless fuck nigga to a real woman.
MESSAGE!
#blacklivesmatter
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I watched 1:30 this bitch got a baby seat in her back car. Only reason she would be offended by a guy that dont got his shit together is that she dont have her own shit together
Playing vagina's advocate... what if she did actually have her shit together, including having a child?
Do you think she has a valid point in regards to how brother may treat her? I ask this ASSUMING she is a woman with integrity and a healthy value system, which not all woman have of course.
Lotta truth in this meme compared to the point she makes
Lotta truth in this meme compared to the point she makes
I agree 80% with her. The only thing that I don't agree with is that these women need to pick better men...
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Soon as I seen her face I thought to myself, "not the youtube girl with the annoying voice"....
Just another butthurt woman still mad at her babydaddy (and/or the new guy she is fucking);
The fact she is blowing off her past bad decisions just shows she is trying to justify not choosing good men, thus keeping the cycle going.
Just another butthurt woman still mad at her babydaddy (and/or the new guy she is fucking);
The fact she is blowing off her past bad decisions just shows she is trying to justify not choosing good men, thus keeping the cycle going.
I only needed to see the still shot of the video to know she was just bitter. Her posture, the baby seat in the back, and menacing resting bitch face told me everything I needed to know. I decided to click anyway, lasted about a minute. Yup... Just angry off the jump. Could be a reason for that, but that aint my issue. So with that said... Shes just a bitch...
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Gee,
Yet another Black man vs Black woman video posted online. (YouTube, Facebook, Twitter or WSHH). Big surprise...
This is a cottage industry on YouTube. You can actually set your clock by the frequency these things are uploaded weekly.
Have any of you noticed how Black men and women (seemingly more than any other race) seem to LOVE to go on YouTube to complain about, degrade, demean, belittle and vent their frustration about each other?
They usually fall into the same following categories.
- Black men ain't shit because:
(Their all liars. They have no backbone. They're untrustworthy. They have no goals in life. They're all incarcerated. They have multiple women. They only want White women. They have multiple children. They're all unemployed. They're on the DL, etc...)
On the flip side.
- Black women ain't shit because:
(They all want thugs. They don't recognize what a good man is. They have multiple kids by different baby daddies. The really want White men. They're all sluts. They're untrustworthy. They're superficial. They're greedy. They're unsupportive. etc...)
The purpose of these videos seems to be to do just enough to keep Black men & women apart rather than bring them together...
Meanwhile, the rest of the world sits back and laughs knowing that they were right about how they think about us...
Yet another Black man vs Black woman video posted online. (YouTube, Facebook, Twitter or WSHH). Big surprise...
This is a cottage industry on YouTube. You can actually set your clock by the frequency these things are uploaded weekly.
Have any of you noticed how Black men and women (seemingly more than any other race) seem to LOVE to go on YouTube to complain about, degrade, demean, belittle and vent their frustration about each other?
They usually fall into the same following categories.
- Black men ain't shit because:
(Their all liars. They have no backbone. They're untrustworthy. They have no goals in life. They're all incarcerated. They have multiple women. They only want White women. They have multiple children. They're all unemployed. They're on the DL, etc...)
On the flip side.
- Black women ain't shit because:
(They all want thugs. They don't recognize what a good man is. They have multiple kids by different baby daddies. The really want White men. They're all sluts. They're untrustworthy. They're superficial. They're greedy. They're unsupportive. etc...)
The purpose of these videos seems to be to do just enough to keep Black men & women apart rather than bring them together...
Meanwhile, the rest of the world sits back and laughs knowing that they were right about how they think about us...
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Gee,
Yet another Black man vs Black woman video posted online. (YouTube, Facebook, Twitter or WSHH). Big surprise...
This is a cottage industry on YouTube. You can actually set your clock by the frequency these things are uploaded weekly.
Have any of you noticed how Black men and women (seemingly more than any other race) seem to LOVE to go on YouTube to complain about, degrade, demean, belittle and vent their frustration about each other?
They usually fall into the same following categories.
- Black men ain't shit because:
(Their all liars. They have no backbone. They're untrustworthy. They have no goals in life. They're all incarcerated. They have multiple women. They only want White women. They have multiple children. They're all unemployed. They're on the DL, etc...)
On the flip side.
- Black women ain't shit because:
(They all want thugs. They don't recognize what a good man is. They have multiple kids by different baby daddies. The really want White men. They're all sluts. They're untrustworthy. They're superficial. They're greedy. They're unsupportive. etc...)
The purpose of these videos seems to be to do just enough to keep Black men & women apart rather than bring them together...
Meanwhile, the rest of the world sits back and laughs knowing that they were right about how they think about us...
Not saying you're wrong. You have a point. But in my experience these types of videos only cater to a small, buy very loud segment of our population. Most of my friends with their shut together male or female are in productive relationships with blackwomen/men. Simply put... This isn't my reality and thus I don't think it's really that bad among the people that get it.
Smart move , waists of time
Gee,
Yet another Black man vs Black woman video posted online. (YouTube, Facebook, Twitter or WSHH). Big surprise...
This is a cottage industry on YouTube. You can actually set your clock by the frequency these things are uploaded weekly.
Have any of you noticed how Black men and women (seemingly more than any other race) seem to LOVE to go on YouTube to complain about, degrade, demean, belittle and vent their frustration about each other?
They usually fall into the same following categories.
- Black men ain't shit because:
(Their all liars. They have no backbone. They're untrustworthy. They have no goals in life. They're all incarcerated. They have multiple women. They only want White women. They have multiple children. They're all unemployed. They're on the DL, etc...)
On the flip side.
- Black women ain't shit because:
(They all want thugs. They don't recognize what a good man is. They have multiple kids by different baby daddies. The really want White men. They're all sluts. They're untrustworthy. They're superficial. They're greedy. They're unsupportive. etc...)
The purpose of these videos seems to be to do just enough to keep Black men & women apart rather than bring them together...
Meanwhile, the rest of the world sits back and laughs knowing that they were right about how they think about us...
People have a right. And should speak on what they feel.
As I said, this shit only seems to be an issue with those who don't have their shit together. Not to be confused with balling. But people who make good decisions on a consistent basis.
I'm gonna be blunt. As a dude that "has his own" I ain't checking for a chick that lacks "her own." I slugged it out with these chicks throughout college, grad school, and the job market. These are my competitors and I no longer have the instinct to nurture and protect them, at least not in the way that she wants. When it came to scholarships they caked up on those women only programs, which were meant for white women, but a fraction went to black women. There's so much of that shit that damn near every sista could get something. When it came to the black scholarships it was a bunch of woman dominated committees who damn near only awarded women, or the occasional gay brother. The same shit went on in grad school. A lot of these scholarship programs come with internships and job offers after graduation. I had to do everything the hard way. I had a few small scholarship but most of my education was financed with student loans. After paying the equivalent of a second mortgage, the last thing I'm trying to do is shelter an able bodied woman. It's 2016 and that whole "woman as dependent" thing is over. Hell, part of the reason why rents are so damn high is because you have so many more single women bidding up the prices. Most people can no longer buy houses in middle class neighborhoods with a single person's income. Mortgages for family sized middle class houses used to cost about 25% of the man's income. We have to compete with them for everything. I've had some wins and some losses so I know that they're capable of generating some serious coin. I refuse to pay for OUR NEEDS while she only covers HER WANTS. I'll Netflix and chill for the rest of my life before I let that shit happen. A chick better bring along more than baggage if she wants to be in my life. I don't dangle material wealth in front of women, I dangle advice, and it's only black women that have a problem with that.
fat chick is bitter...
Lotta truth in this meme compared to the point she makes
I would edit that 2nd part by including " boys being emotionally enmeshed to satisfy their mothers needs via mirroring and performance antics." Ive noticed this for years volunteering with these kids. Its like many mothers try to convince/train the boys to be the opposite if the type of man that they got pregnant by.
I had strangely similar experiences in those realms I understand 1000%
Wow you hit on 2 of my personal beliefs on this matter.
I think this quote sums up the 1st part
You mentioned:
“Basically you have testosterone filled boys, raised and socialized by women. That leaves you with female emotion(learned) and male testosterone aggression (biological) with no controlled release overseen by father figure.”
The 2nd part about Mothers trying to train or chase away the father they see in the young men. My man Frank B Kermit speaks on this saying how mothers use a lot of terms to disparage the father in their sons eyes. So much so, these terms have become common or rote sayings such as don’t be mannish; stop smelling yourself and the worse she can use…you remind me of your father or stop trying to act like your father.
Simply put it's a combination of both males and females that are contributing to the social ills of society and what's even sadder is that most don't know it and are like a small baby who's oblivious to all of the dangers of being fed junk-food all the time but should we blame the young parent who was fed the same way?most will say "Well at least she feeds em the best she knows how to".In that example no one is wrong,everyone's right but this is also how generations become fucked up and they continue to pass along things that aren't necessarily beneficial to themselves or anyone else.
I beleive that Young females are usually the product of how they were raised and young males are the product of what they grew up into.It's the same thing just two different method to the madness and they both should be able to balance each other out in some way if they are right for each other;unity not unrest,pain and conflict.
I beleive that Young females are usually the product of how they were raised and young males are the product of what they grew up into.It's the same thing just two different method to the madness and they both should be able to balance each other out in some way if they are right for each other;unity not unrest,pain and conflict.
Can't have 50% stake in a relationship and want to make all the rules. I've dealt with a chick like that recently. Chicks like that only want a boyfriend to fill a physical and emotional void, they usually don't have close friends(due to them being selfish or cunty), and they want self fulfillment at the cost of another man's life and lifestyle.
That's a false equivalency. You can not have your shit together and just be with a woman who puts up with your shit as millions of women have done throughout history. And vice versa.
I like this mindset. The problem is when you want to be treated as if you're big king mucky muck and we're the same. If we're the same then be the same. You haven't given any indication of doing this but if not. You're a prize to women and they don't know it. A guy who wants you to be equals? Amazing. In this day and age? Fuck yeah.
Im unsure as to what dots youre trying to connect. I believe that people who "Have their shit together," as in make good decisions consistently dont typically have issues with "fuck boys" and "aint shit women." I dont see that as false equivalency at all. Normally the people having issues with relationships have their own issues internally that leads to dysfunctional relationships. Male and female. It was never about having a women "put up with your shit." I think you were looking for a way to allude to men being cavemen like you do in most instances in here.
What exactly are you trying to say here? If you have your shit together, there will be nothing negative to put up with.
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