How do you know when it is time to leave the wife?

[Drayonis]

aite son,

The Don's about to help you out. pay attention.

It's obvious she's cheating on you. That's your exit card as well as a way to get some change in your pocket. You just have to prove it. here's how:

I agree she's already cheating on you like Don is saying. Why is a married woman still in the club. Because your money isn't right you aren't challenging her on it. Your shit's already in shambles. the respect is not there. SHE thinks she wears the pants in the house. She's already messing you over....

 

[PeerlessMack]

I know she is up to something cause whenever she does go out she always tells me I have to stay home with my son. I'm like I have a mother who will love to watch him why cant i roll with you. she says girls night. I think she forgot I was a club promoter and I know what pops off in the club. Think I should pay for a PI?

Private I?!!!!!

I can offer you my private investigation services at a BGOL discount rate of $500.

SHE IS FUCKING SOMEONE ELSE!!!

That'll be:
$1 for analyzing the details you posted about her in this thread.
$499 for common sense.

 

[destrehan]

aite son,

The Don's about to help you out. pay attention.

It's obvious she's cheating on you. That's your exit card as well as a way to get some change in your pocket. You just have to prove it. here's how:

1. Go to your local verizon store and get you and her new phones. Make sure you get her a phone that's chaperone capable. Chaperone is Verizon's GPS tracking service. basically you can look on a map on your phone or computer and it will point out exactly where she's at, at all times. you can even set up boundaries. if she's suppose to be at work from 9 to 5 you can set it so if she leaves a 1 mile radius from her job it will alert you. keep a daily log as to her whereabouts.

2. also check out one of the spy equipment sites and find one of the miniature recording device you can install in her coat or purse or something. they do have them small enough.

3. get a mini ccd camera and have it mounted in the grill of her vehicle and a hard drive recorder to see where she's going as well....

4. get this and mount it inside the vehicle:

http://www.spyworld.com/equipment/listings/l0065.html





Your welcome.

gotdam we all need to say thank you.

 

[rico1ngone]

Dude it's a toss up. It seems like she's trying to find a reason to bounce. All I can say is don't do like that stupid Cop MF in OHIO. To many women in the world to kill one. Be patient and hopefully her Mom will tell her that it takes team work. Shit she could be like the dude from the earlier post, job just up and piss tested entire organization.

 

[TBone]

Sounds to me like she is seeing someone else. And of course he will do the extra shit in the beginning because he wants that ass.

 

[Dannyblueyes]

My woman started acting very similar I put a keystroke log in the computer. It didn't show me she was cheating, but it did show me that she was going to fertility sites finding ways to rope me into knocking her up with a third kid I didn't want (it didn't work thank god)

I dumped her ass and she hooked up with one of my friends 2 days later.

Break up with her now and the only thing you'll wonder is why you didn't do it sooner.

 

[Drayonis]

Break up with her now and the only thing you'll wonder is why you didn't do it sooner.

ya KNOW? Same thing here! I kicked myself daily for not leaving that woman everyday after we split. She fucked a dude right out the gates as soon as we split, but during the marriage a brother had to beg...

 

[destrehan]

ya KNOW? Same thing here! I kicked myself daily for not leaving that woman everyday after we split. She fucked a dude right out the gates as soon as we split, but during the marriage a brother had to beg...

how do you know she did that?

 

[Osca Lee]

dayum

 

[Dannyblueyes]

exactly. When me and my ex-wife split at first it hurt like a bitch. My ego was crushed because she spent days and months clowning me. But I picked myself back up and eventualy moved on. I got remarried and my NEW WIFE IS THE BOMB! She's gorgeous, funny and ALWAYS in my corner. She makes me rush home at night.

I gave my new wife 2 thousands dollars to go shopping over the weekend....I told her to buy whatever she wanted, just blow it out. She bought 98 dollars worth of stuff and told me to put the rest away for my savings....

If I had given the money to my ex-wife she would have came back broke and telling me I still owed her more!

If she doesn't respect YOU now SHE will never RESPECT YOU. You already have the answers you are just not willing to take the plunge. Instead you are going to wait until she KICKS you out versus you leaving on your own....

So you did marry that woman? Congratulations. All the best

 

[donwuan]

Fuck what most of these cats talking bout. You gotta love yourself homie. tell her ass if she ever front on you then this shit is over. one time and that's it. you don't need a conference with moms and shit. fuck that. finding out if she cheatin aint gonna help nobody. if you feel it she is. I ain't never met a bitch that could cheat on me and I not know. They ain't smooth with it, they too emotional to be smooth. fuck what you heard. frontin on you cause she catchin felling with a fling. if she cheatin she got it twisted. the dude know he messing with a married woman, he don't want her ass. if something is going down. you gotta be prepare to bounce. don't leave before the lawyer tells you too. you'll see your shorty her selfish ass don't want all the responibilty. quit fucking her ass. let her come on you. if there's no chemistry then she won't come at you. if she does call her on the shit. she gonna flip if you ain't fucking her ass. act like you could care less. I bet money she'd be shook. she gonna be askin if you cheatin. say no and laugh. she gonna be checking your cell and shit. let her look. even if she cheatin she still gonna be hurt. you gotta let these women know. don't doubt for a minute that I won't dump yo ass. don't nobody want her ass. the odds are against her not you. she probably will never find a nigga that ain't fucking nobody else. let her ass go find what she aint gonna find. if she wear that hoe shit to the club tell her to change that shit. if she go anyway. block the door so her ass can't get in. all night and go to bed. fuck it. i been married 10 years and together 18 and I'll die for mine. and I ain't settling for shit less. Stakes is high if you wanta be with me. don't be scared, be a man. Fuck her and her money. Tell her you gonna fight to the end for your shorty. Fuck the law. And my wife is and RN and been making more than me for 4 years but I been taking care of her ass for 14. she never fronts cause she know. I stay on the grind. do side jobs. i do computers too. get them certs and get paid. fuck the haters.

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[Punani Killa]

chronic bitch dependency

An affliction making one dependent upon a woman who he is dating or married to. Symtoms include: inability to stand up for yourself, giving into to all her "bitching", crawling back to her after every argument, taking blame/apologizing even when you are not at fault.

A man is talking to his girlfriend on the phone.
She suspects he is not paying attention to her and is no longer willing to talk to him and hangs up.
The boyfriend, confused, insistently calls her back leaving apologetic messages on her machine as-well-as sends her gifts, fearing that if he doesn't she will leave him.

 

[nworba]

I got that shit on my phone just have not used it.

No you don't. You need to get a stand alone voice activated digital recorder so that you can hide it where your wife usually relaxes. You will (as I did) find out some stuff that you don't want to know, and it will probably hurt you, but you need to know for the next phase. Contact me if you need further explanation of what to do or expect!

 

[^SpiderMan^]

I have not read past page two so this might have been asked already.Are you fucking her right?
Ok now that out of the way....

I say leave.Respect is one thing that you cant get back once you lose it.Once a chick doesn't respect you, its curtains.Her going to the club(against your wishes),stopping domestic duties, and open complaining are signs of disrespect.I don't know if it is because she is making more than you or if she is just bored,you have lost the respect.Let her go now.Life is too short to be unhappy.

 

[DAYNE]

chronic bitch dependency

An affliction making one dependent upon a woman who he is dating or married to. Symtoms include: inability to stand up for yourself, giving into to all her "bitching", crawling back to her after every argument, taking blame/apologizing even when you are not at fault.

A man is talking to his girlfriend on the phone.
She suspects he is not paying attention to her and is no longer willing to talk to him and hangs up.
The boyfriend, confused, insistently calls her back leaving apologetic messages on her machine as-well-as sends her gifts, fearing that if he doesn't she will leave him.

 

[Drayonis]

So you did marry that woman? Congratulations. All the best

Oh yea, got re-married last November....things are gravy.