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How do you know when it is time to leave the wife?
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Yes, but how OFTEN do you hit?
That's the real question.
(at least I think that's what alexw was trying to get at.)
No, the question is how is she acting when you DO hit it?
1 once a week lil man be running in the room. plus right now i have a bad work time mon tues 2:30pm till 10:30pm off wed thursday fri 9-5:30, Sat and sun 6am- 2:30 we have off wed together but i use some of that time to do side work to get some extra money cause she always saying there is not enough money.
No i know she not acting cause she be shakeing hard when she cum she get real wet i always have to put a towel down.
From what you've said it was bad judgement on both of yall part to ever get married in the first place. Cut your losses now before you start makin big bank because if she make 60K like you said and you make 37K then youir support would be minimal. If I'm wrong those of you who pay child support, please chim in. 
well theres still hope for you man
when a woman totally shuts down on your ass, she wont let you touch her
but u need to get some marital counseling quick
and you two need to keep your business in-house
dont tell shit to your parents or her parents
keep it between you 2
and you need to grow some balls bruh
you dont have to be disrespectful
but u need to be a man
dont always say yes is a good way to start
you cant change people bruh, but you can change yourself
peace and blessings
good luck!
when a woman totally shuts down on your ass, she wont let you touch her
but u need to get some marital counseling quick
and you two need to keep your business in-house
dont tell shit to your parents or her parents
keep it between you 2
and you need to grow some balls bruh
you dont have to be disrespectful
but u need to be a man
dont always say yes is a good way to start
you cant change people bruh, but you can change yourself
peace and blessings
good luck!
No i know she not acting cause she be shakeing hard when she cum she get real wet i always have to put a towel down.
You do know that women can come on command once they figure that shit out right? It's not about if she comes when you're hitting it. Is her eyes closed nigga? Is she into you while you're hitting it? Do she go outta her way to make sure you are satisfied also? Really, none of that shit has anything to do with whether she loves you or not. Or if she wants to be married to you. Women get off on more than just sex. Not trying to clown but it seems like you have a lot to learn. You just fucked up and married a bitch that is a little more advanced then you.
thank you
People change so where you started the relationship is not as important as where you are currently.
If you're really not happy, now might be a good time to break it off. You mentioned she currently makes more money that you. Good time to go.
You can still be a good father to your son, in seperate homes. It might be better for all involved.
Do you really want to invest pure and clean time in a bad relationship.
I'm just sayin...
If you're really not happy, now might be a good time to break it off. You mentioned she currently makes more money that you. Good time to go.
You can still be a good father to your son, in seperate homes. It might be better for all involved.
Do you really want to invest pure and clean time in a bad relationship.
I'm just sayin...
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Not necessarily a gold digger, but she doesn't want to do shit. She wants a maid. I make 35K myself, and my wife is soon to be an RN making $50K. The fact that she wants to go to the clubs looking skimpy is a defect in her charactor. unfortunately you have a kid together or you would probably already be gone. Right?
Get the fuck away from her before you have kids. You will feel stuck and cheat anyway. If your woman cant respect that you have a job and you bring money home for the house fuck her.
get a white girl
Yea I said it
get a white girl
Yea I said it
delete her azz....!!!!
Get the fuck away from her before you have kids. You will feel stuck and cheat anyway. If your woman cant respect that you have a job and you bring money home for the house fuck her.
get a white girl
Yea I said it
this cross my mind but them hoes are dirty I'm better off here
Too keep it real I hear you on this one. But I think I got this part of the game lock. Been with a few old head chicks when i was young who put me up on game. not going to go in detail about what i do but i keep her cumming. maybe why she has not left.
someone who is actually married should give this cat advice
half of these niggas dont even have girlfriends
yet their experts on marriage
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take every comment with a grain of salt( even the shit i said in here)
that is good advise thank you i just was hope this one could have understand that i was work for something for the long run. cause i see the money at the end of the light i just have to pay my dues in this computer world. I know where to go and who to talk to they all say put the time in and when you go to other job they will pay more everyone knows this. but i got you man i'm going to stack my money.
someone who is actually married should give this cat advice
half of these niggas dont even have girlfriends
yet their experts on marriage
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take every comment with a grain of salt( even the shit i said in here)
i'm reading all comment and doing just that.
wait..so u are going to break the vow u made before God because you can't be the man she wants you to be right now?
everybody is on this microwave instant gradification thing...
dont stop continuing being he best man for her like u promised...hopefully in the mean time you can get her to understand to be pacient
everybody is on this microwave instant gradification thing...
dont stop continuing being he best man for her like u promised...hopefully in the mean time you can get her to understand to be pacient
marriage counseling i'm going to go try this first I really dont fell like starting over i hate that you have to show off for a girl and try and find out who she is. I will trying and make a better understanding of my wife now before i jump the gun and run.
marriage counseling sounds like a great idea
it sounds like your wife has got some issues she needs to work out also cause u shouldnt have to do that
I know i think we both need to hear and read our vow again so we understand what it means to be one.
man as I reread this shit
it sounds like one of your major problems is sex
since you got your new job, her sex life has went down the tube
it went from often to once a week after you changed careers
man that could explain everything and women are that superficial
she could be dressing like a slut, going out, and complaining about chemistry because shes not cumming regularly...basically shes trying to get your attention
and she hates your job since it caused her misery within the bedroom
I guarantee it has nothing to do with the money...well somewhat
a clue is when you stated that you hit it whenever you want to, but "you" usually dont due to "your" long hours
when a woman truly loses feelings, she wont let you touch her(as i said before...been there 1000x)
yet shes cumming like crazy the rare times yall do fuck
this is all hypothetical, but it does sound like part of your problem
you have also spoiled this women beyond repair
seek counseling and hit the ass more often
its all speculation stating that shes creeping
but if you dont step your fuck game up, she will be
it sounds like one of your major problems is sex
since you got your new job, her sex life has went down the tube
it went from often to once a week after you changed careers
man that could explain everything and women are that superficial
she could be dressing like a slut, going out, and complaining about chemistry because shes not cumming regularly...basically shes trying to get your attention
and she hates your job since it caused her misery within the bedroom
I guarantee it has nothing to do with the money...well somewhat
a clue is when you stated that you hit it whenever you want to, but "you" usually dont due to "your" long hours
when a woman truly loses feelings, she wont let you touch her(as i said before...been there 1000x)
yet shes cumming like crazy the rare times yall do fuck
this is all hypothetical, but it does sound like part of your problem
you have also spoiled this women beyond repair
seek counseling and hit the ass more often
its all speculation stating that shes creeping
but if you dont step your fuck game up, she will be
someone else already said on here, only you know your wife. Been married 3 years and if I was in your situation counseling would be my first step. She seems to be pulling away from you emtionally. You can hit the skins well all you want but that doesn't fix her emotional distance from you. She also needs to understand that just because she makes more money, it doesn't give her the pants in the relationship. Marriage really is TEAM work. Right now she's behaving like Starbury. What good is dropping 50ppg if your team is losing on a 15 game losing streak???
....when you have to ask a crew of pussy hungry cyber entities for advice!!
How does she act after sex. If she cuddles with you and want you under her then it can be salvaged. If yall finish and go to seperate corners then its probably over. Women want a provider and its not always money. She wants a man in charge and that probably makes her feel like a woman. You have to be decisive and control the relationship. Not actually hitting her but she has to know that you are in control and everything will be taken care of and she does not have to worry about a thing. Especially if she grew up without a father. A woman doesn't want to have to think that if she buys these shoes then she might be out on the street. You need to control the money, where she goes, and who she does it with. Not that shit where she is a prisoner but letting her go out in any outfit to a club while you sitting at home is a surefire way for her to lose respect. If you still want her you need a new attitude. Watch some strong black men like James Evans on tv. Or another nigga going to be raising your son like that.
it's crazy because i'm currently going thru some CRAZY shit with my wife of 4 years(together for 11). we have 4 kids together a house good jobs and all that shit and NOW she gets the 7 year itch
!!! my situation is so bad that i just snet it up to God and pray that he can help me because i can't make heads or tails of the situation. we been together since she was 16 and i was 19(we are now 30 and 27) and at first i thought she was just trying to get into that party phaze that she missed out on because of her having my kids at an early age. now i don't know WHAT the fuck is going on!!!!!
i love her with all my heart and i know every married has it's ups and downs so brothas of BGOL say an extra prayer for me because my entire family is on the line and i can use as much help as i can get!!!
!!! my situation is so bad that i just snet it up to God and pray that he can help me because i can't make heads or tails of the situation. we been together since she was 16 and i was 19(we are now 30 and 27) and at first i thought she was just trying to get into that party phaze that she missed out on because of her having my kids at an early age. now i don't know WHAT the fuck is going on!!!!!i love her with all my heart and i know every married has it's ups and downs so brothas of BGOL say an extra prayer for me because my entire family is on the line and i can use as much help as i can get!!!
this shit got 5 pages wow and my dude look at it this way its no such thing as half way she either she down with you or she not
WIN OR LOSE
I HAVE TWO WORDS FOR YOU..........
MAN UP !
I HAVE TWO WORDS FOR YOU..........
MAN UP !
Better yet, why don't you let her read this thread.......Maybe it'l slap some sense into her
word of advise.sounds like you got a loan shark/bank loaner on you hands and not a wife, why is she so dam pressed about how much$$$ u make??? think ... do that make sense to you??? if yall supposed to be married she should love you for the man she fell in love with and not the potential bank account she can get half on upon a divorce. think on it my man. cause what SHE saying dont make no sense and if that the case on how she feel, you need to do some critical thinkin and cut her ass b4 she cheat on you or cut you and get half your shit in divorce court. women like that trip me the fuck out but you know what i hope that is a learnin exp for you. be easy. peace.
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