Fuck friends only family,people male and females all want to be liked to fucking much,what to be in the mix with any and everyone no matter what's in the bowl.If more people focused on getting their shit together rather than friends they would be further ahead.
It reminds me of high school where everyone wants to be down with everything and friends with everyone.You have 60-70 years old on fb bickering with folks and talking slick....
Flaking and all of that petty shit I'm to old for it,if you my friend you got my # if not,fuck it.
There is a saying......not sure if 50 cent got it from somewhere or not but "love your enemies and hate your friends, your enemies remain the same your friends allways change".
To me hating a friend for me is confronting them about flaking. They will either ghost me (if it is a text), bring up something they dont like that i do that they never brought to my attention before, something bitches do when they go tit for tat or make up some lame lieing excuse or they will take it and correct it.
But that is a form of hate. Cuz a flake doesnt like to be confronted about being a flake so we going to either have a fall out over me adressing you flaking me or we not. And if we fall out we enemies. Then i can love you. Cuz a enemy that is trying to win your affection or earn your trust and respect is going to be more likely to be upfront.
Some of my best friends i done had fist fights with. My best friend now we aint never had a fight but we done had some real arguements and fall outs but we take accountability for our actions when we wrong. That tension to me is what makes us friends.
Same when playing ball on a court the guys you argue with on your team that tension will bring you together or push yall apart.
I prefer to confront. Cuz if i dont confront them about what they did, when i do something to them and they confront me what ima do, bring up some shit they did 4 months ago? Naw thats female shit
