Christmas.
I usually only go when I'm back in my hometown in my home church, where, I've been going all my life and know I'm not being judged, especially I don't have on a suit (usually casual, never jeans or nothing) or when I don't put $$$ in the collection plate (just don't have it sometimes).
On top of that, a lot of preachers are pulpit pimps......congregation giving their time and last dollars and struggling to keep the lights on, meanwhile the pastor and his wife are livin the fuckin good life, nice car, nice home.....fuck that
Finally, I'm not into the mega church thing, my church had maybe 150 families, the pastor knew everyone by name, came and had dinner with your family, came to the hospital when your mother or relative was sick and prayed with them.....but I'll be damned if I'm putting time and money into a church where the pastor, asst. pastor, deacon, etc. don't even know me or take the time to know me and mine on a first name basis.