Do you speak to your friend’s wives by message and chat?

[The Jamaican]

how do you feel about this?

I make it a point of duty not to be close friends with my bredrens wives. No calls, no texts ..you may not even get a happy birthday.

I do this because I don’t think it’s fit and proper to have side relationships with your bros significant other. All wife info should be filtered through your bro.

Think about this as well… would you be cool if your bredren was texting your 18 year old daughter ‘just to say hi’?

 

[The Jamaican]

A bredren of ours does this and we all collectively find it .. I dunno. . It’s like he’s fishing around for more about your life.

If you’re like me, you control the pipeline of information about your life and there should be no leaks

 

[sammyjax]

nope. don't even look at em too long. i'm a dog but i don't play like that.

 

[neptunes007]

nope. don't even look at em too long. i'm a dog but i don't play like that.

Exactly. Too many women in the world to be focused on one that’s already claimed

 

[The Jamaican]

nope. don't even look at em too long. i'm a dog but i don't play like that.

straight. I find the men who don’t find an issue with it untrustworthy like people who don’t drink.

 

[sammyjax]

wait your boy texting your daughter?

 

[The Jamaican]

wait your boy texting your daughter?

no. Not yet at least

but it occurred to me that someone could have gone through this and maybe shed some light

 

[hajjibear]

Sounds like you are talking about one of my boys. Shit is strange as fuck to me.

 

[The Jamaican]

Exactly. Too many women in the world to be focused on one that’s already claimed

I agree. But I don’t feel it’s intentional like he looking any of the bredrens wives.. i just think it’s corny

 

[killagram]

I will whip the dawg shit out of all parties involved...I don't play this shit... Jack

 

[The Jamaican]

Sounds like you are talking about one of my boys. Shit is strange as fuck to me.

man THATs the word I been looking for. Yes that shits strange

 

[tallblacknyc]

nope. don't even look at em too long. i'm a dog but i don't play like that.

Thread/ I am the same way.. I am not here for her or would even communicate with the broad if my friend didn’t exist..so treat them as such

 

[tallblacknyc]

straight. I find the men who don’t find an issue with it untrustworthy like people who don’t drink.

Hey there buddy some of us don’t consume alcohol cause we like to always be on point.. also some of us seen the bad part of alcohol with many very bad outcomes and stay away from that shit

 

[hajjibear]

I agree. But I don’t feel it’s intentional like he looking any of the bredrens wives.. i just think it’s corny

I don't think it's intentional either. He likes to plan things but me and my other boys don't really fuck with him when it comes to that so he goes to our wives. He is corny and thinks he knows everything so we just kind of ignore some of the shit he does. The wives felt tired of him too but just deal with it and complain to us that he is getting in their nerves. The shit that drives me crazy is he thinks he is smarter than everyone and tries to act like he has no flaws but it's like nigga...we know who you are. I don't want to say too much because this nigga may be a member, lol.

 

[The Jamaican]

Hey there buddy some of us don’t consume alcohol cause we like to always be on point.. also some of us seen the bad part of alcohol with many very bad outcomes and stay away from that shit

just a joke bro, but you speak facts

 

[tallblacknyc]

A bredren of ours does this and we all collectively find it .. I dunno. . It’s like he’s fishing around for more about your life.

If you’re like me, you control the pipeline of information about your life and there should be no leaks

How long have you known this dude? Why is a nig fishing for information? Why is he so comfortable talking to a nigs girl when ya not around? Lot of red flags about this character

 

[The Jamaican]

I don't think it's intentional either. He likes to plan things but me and my other boys don't really fuck with him when it comes to that so he goes to our wives. He is corny and thinks he knows everything so we just kind of ignore some of the shit he does. The wives felt tired of him too but just deal with it and complain to us that he is getting in their nerves. The shit that drives me crazy is he thinks he is smarter than everyone and tries to act like he has no flaws but it's like nigga...we know who you are. I don't want to say too much because this nigga may be a member, lol.

youve already said too much lolol. If he’s reading this he’s gonna be like DAMN I thought we was boysss

 

[The Jamaican]

How long have you known this dude? Why is a nig fishing for information? Why is he so comfortable talking to a nigs girl when ya not around? Lot of red flags about this character

about 30 years. Again don’t rely on my interpretation of the act as indicative of its intention.

im just saying I don’t get it. But I don’t think it’s mailicious.. just corny

 

[hajjibear]

youve already said too much lolol. If he’s reading this he’s gonna be like DAMN I thought we was boysss

I just told my wife about this thread and she started laughing and said "Are they talking about %#$#^#%". Haha

 

[The Plutonian]

how do you feel about this?

I make it a point of duty not to be close friends with my bredrens wives. No calls, no texts ..you may not even get a happy birthday.

I do this because I don’t think it’s fit and proper to have side relationships with your bros significant other. All wife info should be filtered through your bro.

Think about this as well… would you be cool if your bredren was texting your 18 year old daughter ‘just to say hi’?

Nope. Only thing I have to say is Hi, how you doing and where my dude at? Oh yeah? Have him call me, BYE! We don’t have shit to talk about! At all!

 

[The Jamaican]

Nope. Only thing I have to say is Hi, how you doing and where my dude at? Oh yeah? Have him call me, BYE! We don’t have shit to talk about! At all!

trust me. I’m there. Never let it be said…

 

[michigantoga]

Hell No!

 

[Fright Night]

straight. I find the men who don’t find an issue with it untrustworthy like people who don’t drink.

What's the pple who don't drink story?

 

[The Jamaican]

What's the pple who don't drink story?

The running joke would be that if we were out drinking and someone wanted to hang around sober, it wasn't allowed. Too much judging and accurate recollection.

turns out, soberness really fucks up a 'remember that time when' joke

 

[Mixd]

I just told my wife about this thread and she started laughing and said "Are they talking about Bullet?" Haha

::fixed::

 

[Bumpee]

Nope......it's almost as if they don't exist. No text, chat, Facebook friends. None of that

 

[4 Dimensional]

I think it’s fascinating at our inability to trust our closet friends or wife to be honest and faithful between interactions all the time.

But to answer your question, I don’t interact with my friends wives at all. Only when they are around, and it’s still limited.

 

[CPT Callamity]

Nope. If the wife is cool I'll tell the homie "tell your wife I said hello." I'm cool with most of my homie's spouses but never speak directly to them. Good thing is their wives/girls trust them hanging out with me more than any other folks and I'm the single friend. They know I'll get bro home safe if we hang out and usually their ain't no fuck shit going on.

 

[keone]

I never thought about this but its your duty to let the wife not talk too much if someone is fishing for info.

Now that I think about except my family I dont really communicate with the other half. Its mostly when I call they there I say hi.

 

[keone]

I think it’s fascinating at our inability to trust our closet friends or wife to be honest and faithful between interactions all the time.

But to answer your question, I don’t interact with my friends wives at all. Only when they are around, and it’s still limited.

To be real few that can keep my interest while talking. Specially these new love and hip hop types.

 

[Database Error]

Hell nah. I don't even hardly want to text my own damn wife. Fuck I'm doing listening to a whole notha fools ol lady's bullshit for?

 

[bgbtylvr]

No.

 

[knightmelodic]

I was raised that you don't approach any woman that's connected to someone you know directly.

As I got older, I've heard tales of infidelity from damn near every guy I know.

So in that vein, even though I don't cheat on my wife, I can understand why another man wouldn't dig that shit.

Plus when you think about it you're just inviting trouble. But some like to dance with the devil so...

 

[sammyjax]

I think it’s fascinating at our inability to trust our closet friends or wife to be honest and faithful between interactions all the time.

But to answer your question, I don’t interact with my friends wives at all. Only when they are around, and it’s still limited.

It's not even about trusting them though, I don't even fuck w a muhfucka I can't trust. Which is why I don't fuck w a lot of muhfuckas lol.

It's just about respect and having the good sense not to create situations that would be weird for anybody.

I'ma sound like Dr truth for a second, but I'm good looking and charismatic and poppin and shit, these hoes be done fucked around and said or did the wrong thing if I let em. Then I gotta deal w that. So I just don't create no opportunities.

 

[yasky777]

I have two homies who’s wives reach out to me and I reach to them if necessary, they know I’m a man of moral code and they both trust me with their wives. I’ve stayed at their home while they were gone and the ladies are both cool with my woman. One homie asked me to be his granddaughters GodFather the other homie has his son call me Uncle.

I’ve never ever looked at a homies wife or girlfriend sideways, they know I’ve had a gang of bitches and don’t carry that kind of snake ass spirit.