Daughter Gets Beat After Mom Catches Her Talking To Guys On Facebook

Not abuse. Sick of the kid disobeying. Frustration. To old to be beating. Ineffective at this point. But the mom is obviously far from that school of thought. Could be posted by mom. Doubt it.
Nah that is abuse. To begin with, hitting the child out of anger. Secondly, that she allowed someone to film it and it got posted on social media.

Hitting is not the only option. How about grounding? Depriving her of things she likes? Password locking the family computer? Taking away all the devices she could use to get on FB? If the lil chick has a smart phone, trade that bitch in for a flip phone that the daughter must answer when mom calls or else - and/or tightly regulating her path to and from school.

...And alongside those punishments, talking to her.

Beating her like that was COMPLETELY unnecessary and lazy parenting.
 
She'll just be better at sneaking around next time. Embarassing someone to get a point across isn't guaranteed effective.
 
Context of racism/white supremacy.

That child is not to blame but its the white people that believe in and practice racism/white supremacy that are most to blame.
The mother should redirect her anger towards white folks that believe in and practice racism/white supremacy
 
Context of racism/white supremacy.

That child is not to blame but its the white people that believe in and practice racism/white supremacy that are most to blame.
The mother should redirect her anger towards white folks that believe in and practice racism/white supremacy
A little girl is typing on the Internet and its white peoples fault.
 
A little girl is typing on the Internet and its white peoples fault.
Internet, computer, Facebook, etc. All provided to us by people who classify themselves as white. They have also been able to convince us, let alone black teens, that we need these things to function in this world and that we also need these things as some sort of validation. They have fucked up our value system. They are most to blame. I remember telling a white man that I do not have fakebook and he looked at me like ... :hmm:
 
Nah that is abuse. To begin with, hitting the child out of anger. Secondly, that she allowed someone to film it and it got posted on social media.

Hitting is not the only option. How about grounding? Depriving her of things she likes? Password locking the family computer? Taking away all the devices she could use to get on FB? If the lil chick has a smart phone, trade that bitch in for a flip phone that the daughter must answer when mom calls or else - and/or tightly regulating her path to and from school.

...And alongside those punishments, talking to her.

Beating her like that was COMPLETELY unnecessary and lazy parenting.

It's lazy. It's unnecessary. It's been happening for 500 years. People think it's right. They think it will change something. They think they child will learn from this somehow. I agree with you there. But it's not abuse to me. The intent wasn't there to do bodily injury. That's something to look at when you're deciding something like this. From what i could tell she wasn't slugging the girl. She had a belt and was trying to swat her legs and behind.

Like i said already it's the only way they know. And it's the only way they'll accept. Because for the most part people say ..."I got whuppins and i'm fine..." But the thing of that is to me is....are you? I'd say when you really dug into it you're not.
 
That young lady needs to learn how to holler loud even if it don't hurt just fake it like it's the most excruciating pain in the world.
That would've shortened her ass-whipping.
The mother began to slap the daughter when she realized that she wasn't fazed with belt lashing
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Man...that was tough to watch. Child abuse. Poor kid took it like a champ and is probably walking around with PTSD and doesnt even know it. If you feel the need to beat your teenage kids to instill discipline it already too late.
 
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