We all know every nigga on BGOL is a pimp that fucks 4-5 different dimes a week, broads that are finer than the baddest bitches posted on here daily 
we know we know but on some real shit, I was just looking for advice from the BGOL fam on Christmas. Niggas can come in here and clown, that's expected but I've been on BGOL since I was 16 (I'm 24 now) and I've just gotten so much good advice from cats on here over the years about a lot of things that I apply to my life. So here's my question, for the cats that have had to deal with a really tough break up with a woman they loved, how did you handle it?
For most of this year, I was with this really amazing girl. To make a really long story short, her feelings towards me changed over the course of the relationship because of the way I would be at times. Holding on to grudges, not being patient, being too prideful, not being understanding, being quick tempered.. I can honestly say that at times, I was really an asshole to her. Not in the sense that I treated her badly at all.. but for example: if we were meeting up and she was late, 15-20 minutes, no matter the reason, I would just be really mad. I'd talk to her about it and she'd sincerely apologize but I'd stay mad for 20-30 minutes after the fact.. not talking to her at all, instead of just brushing it off and it would just kill the vibe between us after I got over it. There were a lot of other times small things like this happened and it got in the way of us.
I thought because I treated her really well and that because I was always a good boyfriend to her in terms of my actions that my behavior at times would just be overlooked by her but eventually the fighting just became too much and although we had an amazing relationship outside of the bickering, we couldn't get past the bullshit.
Eventually, we broke up and I just haven't been able to shake her off. I'm in university full time, I work part time, I volunteer, kick it with my niggas weekly, I'm always meeting girls at schools and different events, I'm kickin it with these broads, I hoop weekly but my ex is just still on my mind. None of the girls I talk to compare to her at all. I don't even have any interest in these girls, even though a lot of them are fine as hell and really cool. She's always on my mind. I was with my one ex for years and when we broke up, I wasn't upset about it like this at all but it's different with this girl.
I know there's cats on the board who's been in my shoes, that's why I'm asking. How did you get over someone that you really loved and cared about?
we know we know but on some real shit, I was just looking for advice from the BGOL fam on Christmas. Niggas can come in here and clown, that's expected but I've been on BGOL since I was 16 (I'm 24 now) and I've just gotten so much good advice from cats on here over the years about a lot of things that I apply to my life. So here's my question, for the cats that have had to deal with a really tough break up with a woman they loved, how did you handle it? For most of this year, I was with this really amazing girl. To make a really long story short, her feelings towards me changed over the course of the relationship because of the way I would be at times. Holding on to grudges, not being patient, being too prideful, not being understanding, being quick tempered.. I can honestly say that at times, I was really an asshole to her. Not in the sense that I treated her badly at all.. but for example: if we were meeting up and she was late, 15-20 minutes, no matter the reason, I would just be really mad. I'd talk to her about it and she'd sincerely apologize but I'd stay mad for 20-30 minutes after the fact.. not talking to her at all, instead of just brushing it off and it would just kill the vibe between us after I got over it. There were a lot of other times small things like this happened and it got in the way of us.
I thought because I treated her really well and that because I was always a good boyfriend to her in terms of my actions that my behavior at times would just be overlooked by her but eventually the fighting just became too much and although we had an amazing relationship outside of the bickering, we couldn't get past the bullshit.
Eventually, we broke up and I just haven't been able to shake her off. I'm in university full time, I work part time, I volunteer, kick it with my niggas weekly, I'm always meeting girls at schools and different events, I'm kickin it with these broads, I hoop weekly but my ex is just still on my mind. None of the girls I talk to compare to her at all. I don't even have any interest in these girls, even though a lot of them are fine as hell and really cool. She's always on my mind. I was with my one ex for years and when we broke up, I wasn't upset about it like this at all but it's different with this girl.
I know there's cats on the board who's been in my shoes, that's why I'm asking. How did you get over someone that you really loved and cared about?
