no...did you ASK for that man do that?? no. Do you CONDONE what he did? no...would you have stopped him if you could....probably.So by that argument if I'm shopping at Walgreens and a crazed gunman storms in murdering every woman in the store then I'm sexist because he didn't kill me too?
But by virtue of you being born on Team Penis, means you BENEFITTED from his sexism in that situation because he didn't and wouldn't target you, didn't you?
I can't get with that because it implies that being sexist is not a conscious choice. If a male is labeled for life from the moment that they're born then what's the point of fighting against it? What's the point of being inclusive with people that will always see you as an enemy no matter what?
the system of a negative "isms" whatever it is...works in the bigger picture, regardless of how you think or feel about it. At your job you could get a promotion, raise or hired because the male gatekeeper had a bias. You could have very well benefitted from sexism directly...now tell me if you knew that would you not take that job, promotion or raise?? What do you think the average man (or white person if we're talking racially) would do in that situation??
Thats why it cracks me up whenever I hear white people talk about merit... the USA as a society NEVER based anything on merit. Its ALWAYS been class and race to a large degree. There are way too many examples to show it but suffice it to say that the white middle class in the 40 and 50s was largely built on racial exclusion and that generation and their descendants will say with straight faces that whiteness had nothing to do with it.
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