This is my stance on interracial dating/marriage. It is as simple as reproduction of the second generation.
Let me break it down. Horses and donkey's can fuck. They can even produce offspring (mules). However, God determined that their offspring is an abomination of nature and God puts a big assed stop to that right there. Mules CANNOT REPRODUCE, and therefore mating them should be illegal.
When it comes to humans the truest judgment is God's. Human beings OF EVERY COLOR can reproduce the second generation. I mean Whites and Blacks, Blacks and Mexicans, Whites and Asians, Puerto Ricans and Blacks, Aborigines and Whites, etc. Every human can mate with another human and those babies can produce offspring and on, and on, and on. So that means God himself does not frown on this union. Are those who oppose the union of people from different races bigger than God? No.
Do I dislike it when I see a fine ass Black woman with a White or any other male? A teeny bit. But it is in part due to the struggles I know that they both will have. Also the struggles that their children will have, as well. Another is, if she isn't in to me what does it matter who she dates/marries? Same goes if the woman is lesbian. She ain't into me so what does it matter to me?
Lastly, it is the disappointment I have in the men of my own race that I understand. I ask those of you will sisters, cousins and even female friends one question: Do you have any Black men as friends or know anybody good enough that you would hook your sister, your cousin, or your female friend up with? Or, if you found out this person was dating your sister, cousin, female friend you wouldn't get mad? If there is people you know like this the list isn't long. Why is that?
I don't know if it is the media, our friends, relatives, or the people around us, but there don't seem to be a lot of good Black men around for ladies to choose from. From my conversations with Black women a good Black man is:
1) A guy with a job or going to school to get one
2) Has zero to 1 kid
3) Not abusive
4) No arrest record
5) And a minimal man-whore
I know there is more to it, but so many Black men struggle to meet these very attainable criteria. How many Black men do you know that could meet this simple benchmark? Now subtract those who are married or already attached. Understanding this, I can't blame a Black woman for dating outside her race. But, as I said before, I don't have a problem with it period. I really don't understand why other people do. Person isn't interested in them, you aren't dating them, but you are unset by who she IS interested in?
The same thing with Black men dating White or any other kind of woman. If he is interested in that type of woman and it isn't you why do you care?