Real Talk The wife and I have been talking about just that. About to get 100% VA compensation we should be good with my other passive income. something just came over me today that could have been fatal.thank you for saying it.
You can love their ungrateful ass from a distance.
Contemplating suicide
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Fa real this Board have some of the most intelligent people on it and a plethora of information.
Sounds like you feeling a bit better. Glad to see it.
Somebody post some pussy. I can’t do that from my phone. Thanks.
Thanks for the update @dinka64
Great replies from everyone here in the thread.
You are a success, man and don’t let your kids bring you down. Like you said - you’ve done your job as a parent and now it’s your time. Do what makes you genuinely happy.
And always know you have thousands of people on your side just in this very forum, and we have all seen some shit in our lives and can offer suggestions and support.
Stay safe and healthy, man. Always.
Great replies from everyone here in the thread.
You are a success, man and don’t let your kids bring you down. Like you said - you’ve done your job as a parent and now it’s your time. Do what makes you genuinely happy.
And always know you have thousands of people on your side just in this very forum, and we have all seen some shit in our lives and can offer suggestions and support.
Stay safe and healthy, man. Always.
Yeap!thank you for saying it.
You can love their ungrateful ass from a distance.
Life is a Theatre – Invite Your Audience Carefully
Not everyone is healthy enough to have a front row seat in your life.
There are some people in your life who need to be loved from a DISTANCE.
It is amazing what you can accomplish when you let go of - or minimize
your time with - those draining, negative, incompatible, 'not-going- anywhere'
relationships or friendships.
Observe the relationships around you.
Pay close attention...
Which ones lift, and which ones lean?
Which ones encourage, and which ones discourage?
Which ones are on a path of growth uphill, and which ones are going downhill?
When you leave certain people, do you feel better or feel worse?
Which ones always have drama, or don't really understand, know or
appreciate you & the gifts that lie within you?
Remember that the people you have around you will have an impact on your
life, your values, your health, your relationships, income and your future.
So, be careful when choosing the people you hang out with,
as well as the information with which you will feed your mind.
We should not share our dreams with negative people, nor
feed our minds with negative thoughts.
The more you seek quality, respect, growth, peace of mind, love and truth
around you... the easier it will become for you to decide who gets to sit
in the FRONT ROW, and who should be moved to the balcony of your life.
Ask for wisdom and discernment, and choose wisely the people who
will sit in the front row of your life.
You cannot change the people around you....but you CAN change the people
you choose to be around!
WHO IS IN YOUR FRONT ROW?
Don’t give anyone that satisfaction. So many people young and old could benefit from your talents and would appreciate it, make you feel wanted and brand new.
Look outside of your financial situation. 8 kids you have lived and helped raise successful kids that alone is a great accomplishment. Sell shit and downsize, get some pussy like @Dr. Truth said, buy a sports car get a cheap condo. Step outside of your comfort zone. As men we have spend our whole lives making everyone around us happy. If them kids ain't figured it out by now, its time to ride out for yourself and enjoy your life. Check in over here with these knuckle heads and talk some shit. Stay away from anything or anyone trying to bring you down. Get closer to your grand kids don't leave shit to your kids. Sit your kids down and have a real good talk about generational wealth. Big homie you have a legacy, you have not failed. Please check in.
Can truly say I love this group, even tho I never personally met any of y'all. Better than the barbershop, cigar lounge, strip club. We laugh, we joke, we clown, we lust. But....when a brother is in need, we come together as a collective and wrap our virtual arms around him and say "It's gonna be alright and we're here for you." And that's a beautiful thing. "He ain't heavy, he's my brother."
Yo, I know you feel down right now and trust me there have been a lot of people who have been there... but can you imagine the comeback story if you come up out of this and say fuckit and just start living for yourself?!
Change your surroundings and environment, and it might be the best move you've ever done. Take care fam
Change your surroundings and environment, and it might be the best move you've ever done. Take care fam
You raised kids that were successful bro. That's meaningful. At leat your kids are out of the house. Mine are fucking boomerangs.
This is the best response. Coming from someone who feels like the OP, this is what I want to hear. Not some, "people have it worse than you".
I can't imagine being trapped In a body where I couldn't kill myself if I wanted to, all because I wanted to kill myself.
Trust me, those dudes didn't predict missing. They didn't predict doctors being able to save them, but save them the doctors did and now they have 10, 20 or more years to be trapped in a body and they can't do shit to stop it.
What if I miss? Just take some time to think about that one for a second. What if I miss?
Good shit! You and wife should love your golden years peacefully. Be good to yourself and most importantly; forgive yourself. We go through funks. Let it be just that. A funk.
Wow God Is Good, I posted my response before I came to the end of this thread. Where do you live big homie? There's a lot of bro's on this board that really care and are willing to reach out. We have no idea whats up with the big brother @Shaka54 it's good that you reached out to the fam. Please keep on talking, even on this open forum of course some of us gonna fuck with you lol. Overall you might be able to help someone in a sunken place.
You made all the decisions that got you here . Man the fuck up , own that shit , and make a plan to move forward. Cross out every fucking person with a hand out ,but only if it's justified . Make amends to those you have harmed and don't expect anything in return.......or just be a pushy!
Life is hard brother, but please hang in there. My mother died at 58 about 4 years ago, wish she was still here. Wasn't even married for 2 years, but my divorce has lasted a year so far with no end in sight!! Bitch is trying to take as much as she can!!! Life is hard out here man. Something has to make you happy. Whatever it is, seek it out and do it as often as possible.
for you youngins on the board still making kids, please look at this man's situation. is it worth it to have many kids? glad OP is feeling okay again.
We all go thru our dark periods.. Based on your OP you have far too much to live and be thankful for. Hopefully this can be the new beginning you need to get out your rut and jumpstart you going in the right direction brother.
You know what's funny, sometimes I feel like a failure because I don't have any kids yet. I'm 42
LIFE!
Damn. That's medical grade pussy and asshole.
Oh, that’s right. This a porn forum first. Everything else second.
How easily I forget that at times
First of all, thank you for coming to us. Secondly, I'm a vet also, 45 and my body is breaking down like... I got Achilles tendonitis in both ankles. I'm at 90% but I got to file one more claim to get me to 100.
If you feel like this again, hit me up. I'll give you My number. Hit me up
90% is $2000, but 100% is like $3400, and next year it's going up to lile $3700.
Stay up, slick
What branch you serve? I was Navy
Relieved to see you still with us fam. I love when the board rallies around one of our brothers. We've got some true pillars here.Wow. Thank You ALL. I am reading after the fact. I wrote the message and was sitting in my car. minding My business just staring out the windshield. Someone called the police. a Black female officer was on my side with her hand on her weapon her partner a White boy had his gun drawn my gun was on my lap. The female tapped on my window and I let it down a little bit. she asked what's the problem. I said just tired of living this shitty existence. I thought I could chump out and get them to do it. I picked up my gun and the white boy dropped to his knees and so did the female and started praying.the female got up opened my door grabbed my hand and pulled me out and hugged me then the white boy came over and said I love you man go home.
Several have come into bgol to discuss. Great first step. One brother even wrote a book about his struggles.
We had a thread devoted to this subject. Check it out.
Stay in touch bro. Someone will be hurt if you commit suicide.
We had a thread devoted to this subject. Check it out.
Stay in touch bro. Someone will be hurt if you commit suicide.
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A daughter and her two kids are coming home for 5 months. She married a woman
then conned her to go to the army. she will finish boot camp and school in February. 
she gonna pay $500 a month and drop some food too.
At least you have a family of your own....
It gets better, bruh. I know you think you’re old, but you’re not old. You got some life still in you. You’re going through a bout of depression. Like others said you need to go see a psychologist. Keep your head up. You may think it doesn’t get better but it does. It’s not over till the man upstairs say so. One thing I had to start doing is enjoying the simple things in life. Like going for a walk in the park and just enjoying the weather. Things like that. As long as you can see God’s blue sky and green earth you doing good.
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I wonder how many other people are going through the same thing, but are too afraid and embarrassed to disclose it.