Nah that's not what you're saying, or nah you don't adhere to a code?Nah. I messed around with some of the homies girls or wives in the past. And of course I feel like trash, but I am
Do you speak to your friend’s wives by message and chat?
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I ain't never looked at a partna..old lady in no way other than a sista...I get access to top notch hoes daily...no reason to be a bitch ass nigga...and fuck up my homies life...WE already dodging charges...out chea... brah
It's human nature.I think it’s fascinating at our inability to trust our closet friends or wife to be honest and faithful between interactions all the time.
But to answer your question, I don’t interact with my friends wives at all. Only when they are around, and it’s still limited.
When I learned more about human nature I changed my expectations and how I dealt with people.
On God
I ain't had no snakes around me since 08 and that one was only able to sneak in because they was family.
Everybody I fwfw is stand up. Any other way and this shit don't work right.
Nigha get buried under a new house... trying to come over here...and shit on my life....In any form or fashion...yep...I will kill a nigha...brah
Maybe it’s just me, you’ve never had your partners Mom reach out to you to “hollar at your homeboy” or to “speak to their nephew” or something, to carry their husbands casket or to invite you specifically to holiday dinner? The people I’m talking about are lifelong friends/family.
Well now that's different
THIS...
Understanding human nature and what motivates people allows you to predict their moves before they even make em...
No social media.
We woke up this way b
Nah. That's not the way. Homie's got it all fucked up. I'll warn him once and consider addressing my wife or leaving her. She should know the rules just as he should. The only exception may be if they're planning a surprise type of celebration for me.
Been around a homie lowkey text a bro's fiancee about fucking and claim he was trynna show him how she was a hoe before he made a mistake. Funny thing is he was waiting to smash first before full disclosure
... you know bc texts weren't enough proof.
Been around a homie lowkey text a bro's fiancee about fucking and claim he was trynna show him how she was a hoe before he made a mistake. Funny thing is he was waiting to smash first before full disclosure
... you know bc texts weren't enough proof.
I know a few hoe ass niggas be gossiping with hoes. A dude I work with stay on that shit. I had to check him off the clock, nicca ran around and told a supervisor that he saw different hoes bringing me lunch to the J. Supervisor asked me about it i told him don't ever come ask me about no bullshit like that again.
I would have beat his ass
That shit does not get the pussy wet man lol idk what be wrong w these niggas
Oh of course. As long as it feels like a brother/son/father/uncle interaction its all good. I just never look at any of those women as potential conquests.
Yes and my moral code has been tested for decades, decades with temptation.. some people say I’m to good with some of the temptation they seen tossed my way..fucking morals smh.. like you don’t even have to be my boy/ peoples like that..you could be a nig I just seen around for yrs or awhile but always salute me or give me dap in passing and I’ll be like nah can’t fuck with any broad I see him with.. man me and my fucking morals.. sometime you just don’t want to leave the area or room when you can see something has the potential to pop off but than you think of moral code and find a way to excuse yourself from the situation.. sometimes I just want to see the not so moral version of myself on some multiverse shit and see how that pan out
Cant lose my career over some a weak dude. He straightened up after I confronted him and I told my supervisor to send me an official email if he had to discuss some work related shit to me. Then made sure I had hoes bring me lunch most days just to piss them off.
The gossiping dude was just running his mouth because he been chasing a chick at the J who wants to fuck with me but I'm too old to be hitting coworkers now, plus i know if she feeling me now she will still be down if we ever move around.
In my early 20's I worked for a grocery store. After I left that job I done fucked 5 hoes from that company over the years who said they was feeling me back then when we worked together.
Yeah, I definitely can relate! I've had a few of my boys' ladies try to give me some action. I could never tell if she was serious or trying to set me up to fuck with her man. All I have to do is remember the value of the relationship I have with the dude and its easy to turn her down. I would never want to known as that grimy nigga that stabbed his brother in the back over some ass. The bitch clearly ain't shit anyway to pull something like that. A homie that's down for you and in your corner is worth a thousand disloyal pieces of ass.
Yea he fallin outta pocket bruh, he definitely tryin to smash bruh...
just let him know if he wants to text her about anything to include you
in the text.
the probem really is tho.. she is eighteen and could pretty much
accept any texts she wants....
as far as dudes wives.. bruh once a homie gets married out of respect
for his marriage he shouldnt even want to be around the homies
like that anymore.. I mean whats the point of getting married...
and the homies need to respect it....
contacting a dudes wife or daughter without him knowing..
is a sign of disrespect in my book!!
But i don't even like communicating with my boys females without them around. I don't even want they number really, or them having my number its a way for bullshit to start.
Like if your boy out doing his thing and come up missing, he dont tell you or tell his old lady something and she call looking for him. I stay out that shit.
Like if your boy out doing his thing and come up missing, he dont tell you or tell his old lady something and she call looking for him. I stay out that shit.
See the thing is I wasn’t even talking about none of my main dogs.. I’m talking about dudes that’s cool but not necessarily people I run with.. or people that might be affiliated with some people I know..or just somebody you might see at the gym for like the past yr or 2.. its a lot of those dudes who girls, sis, mother, cousins, daughters, etc that done offered or were extra friendly and I be like nope fall back.. or it be nigs from your childhood lil sis that’s all grown up that say some wild shit to you and you have to bite your lip and be like must exit situation.. or nigs daughters you kinda know that be eyeballing you..or nigs ex.. or fiancés or wives/ baby mamas… lot of dudes would’ve failed or made the excuse that it ain’t there boy boy so they going in but I be like nope..even when it’s so in your face
It looks like you fell and hurt yourself. Go find the homie for help.
"He hit me."
You're suffering from a traumatic brain injury from falling and need to go get the homie.
I got a few of my homies wife's phone numbers and friends on FB or whatever, but only chat with them when planning shit. Thats it. Like a bday party or vacation. The homies don't be into planning sometimes...so. But yeah I can yap face to face with the chunky wives, (don't act like some of yall homies wives look hippos) but the wives that got that "damn", well I keep those convos limited. One time I was at the homies, his wife got a fat ol ass, slim, dark, dreads. He had to run to his moms to grab something and I was at his crib with my kids in his pool. When he left, I was like Yeah, I gotta go too shortly afterwards. I'm half naked and shit, she there with their kids too but I just didn't feel right with him not being there. She was all talkative and shit in a friendly way but I didn't want to even engage like that. But when you're cool, you're cool. Long term homie relationships can produce weird situations where your lady can be in a space with the homie or you can be in a space with their lady and you just got to trust them both. But its rare (for me anyway) where I heard of dog shit by close close friends, but..I do have a story or two. For instance, my wife's best gf caught her hubby on bs, her co-worker and close friend were both of their friends and he would hang out with them and the hubby would go smoke and watch games with him. So anyways, hubby gets caught cheating, so they temporarily separate, she winds of fucking around with the friend. Now mind you the couple is black and the friend is single and like a half breed of Italian and Albania or some shit. He was single but had a black gf and she and wifey were good good friends too. So yeah, her and hubby eventually resolves the issue and she let him know what went down. Of course that nigga was lit, but it was like his 4th time getting caught. Buddy and his gf broke up afterwards. Shit was slimey on both sides of the fence. But they were co-workers so who know what was happening prior. Prolly be fucking around for years all we know.
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I agree with everything but this part. Marriage shouldn't change your brotherhood (Assuming your circle is progressive).
Iron sharpens Iron.
Ok, you're a bit more straight laced than I am. I can definitely admit some foul shit I did with this one dude but I only knew him by default. Over the summer of 1990 I wound up fucking his finance, his side piece and his sister. And hell, the sister went in his room and gave me some of his rubbers to use on her! BUT!!! I only knew of him through those 3 women. So I don't see a betrayal there. I knew all three of them before I even met him. 
I am the tech (also the ho) in my family and I feel awkward when my sister-in-laws ask me for help via text. I only had my friends wives phone numbers for facetiming during the holidays so we could see each others kids, but now that Android has Duo I haven't called them for YEARS. We all know that nobody is going to cross that line, I just don't like having that ability. Also that is my friend, the fcuk do you and I have to talk about when he ain't around?!?!
That’s a no no. If you trying to setup a surprise situation that’s fine, but every other type of communication goes thru the homie. As a matter of fact, if I see you out in the streets without him I’m not even gonna say ‘Hi’, and I’m snitchin.
Thats nice, but I dont trust NO kniggas around
my chick..
If you do, you dont KNOW kniggas bruh..
sure there are plenty of trustworthy bruhs out there.
but I aint tryin to fiqure out who they are the hardway...
You are right marriage shouldnt have to change anything....
but unless yall all grew up together...
good luck thinkin yo wife aint tryin to slowly change yo ass...
Lmaoooo see like I said my fucking morals..like I really be having my boys mad at me for turning certain opportunities down cause I be on some high moral shit.. nigs really be like I hate you sometimes black this broad tossing the Coochie all in your face and you denying it cause the nig been saying what up to you for the past 3 yrs and ya had small bullshit convos.. or cause you use to play basketball with a nig 2 decades ago for various summers you not gonna fuck that nig bad ass daughter.. like there’s this big booty bitch around my way right now that my young boys told me was a wild freak, I don’t touch her cause right when I was gonna holla this young lil dude around my way who for whatever reason started showing me mad respect and saluting me wifed her up..like this nig will go out his way to salute me or give me a dap..I don’t know this nig at all but the past few yrs he show me mad respect when he see me and just off that I haven’t tried to smut out his chick in the past 3 yrs
No I'm saying 'Hi' and getting all the information...THEN I'm tellin'! "She said that she was grocery shopping...I ain't seen not a one grocery bag in her arms!"
We already had a situation among my group and one cat tried to be kind and let her tell it (he was a mutual to both male and female) she didn't and dude blamed HIM for not giving him the info. Caused a rift in the group and we don't have the numbers we used to.
Listen, I saw one of my homies wife going into a house in the middle of the day on a weekend. She saw me see her going into the house. She tried to say ‘Hey’ but by that time I was already on the phone with the homie giving him the coordinates. It was a jewelry party, but still. I would expect the same.
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